Taurus & His Ex :/

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aec1990
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9 Years

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My post keeps coming up empty sorry for the repeat! lol

So I was seeing this Taurus for the past few months and he was very consistent. At first I was not interested in him at all or pursuing anything with anyone as I had just gotten out of a 6 year relationship so I just wanted to keep it physical but after a while it was clear that he did not. Any who, despite sometimes flat out ignoring him he would still try. Eventually I gave in and I slowly started to like him. He'll ask to see me sometimes 3/4 times a week and has done this almost every week since the beginning. Even with my schedule (school and internship) and me having to rain check he still was very patient and asked to see me. I rarely have to initiate contact either. Calls me babe, sends random texts just saying 'I hope you're having a good day". Just pretty much doing the right thing when courting a woman and clearly showed interest. The week or so he was a little distant and just kind of evasive about going out and doing things so I just completely backed off and then early in the morning he sends me a text saying "Good Morning, I know I've been dragging my feet lately but I'm just mentally trying to get over my ex. I just wanted to let you know".

I don't know if that was his I'm just trying to explain my behavior or a bye bye message. Plus what the heck does "mentally get over" even mean? Either way I didn't pry and try to ask I just responded much later and said thanks for letting me know. I know what I'm going to do but this just sucks and stings quite a bit. Just hurt and confused I guess :
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missmissy
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I'm not sure if others will agree with me or not, but OP I think the fact that he told you on his own shows that he really cares about you and respects you. I know Taurus have a hard time opening up so again the fact that he was so honest on his own is telling. I think he's giving you an explanation for his behavior which technically he didn't owe you. I think if he didn't care about you and didn't see/want some kind of future with you he wouldn't have told you. He probably just wants to make sure things are right on his end before moving forward.
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aec1990
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
It's never a good sign when a Taurus moves quickly....

When this happens...

Slow them down, tame the bull almost, trust me, you will be rewarded in the end.

OP,

This isn't a huge dilemma. It can be fixed. Keep him on his toes, and let him gradually court you. Space is important too.
Thanks. You really don't this isn't a huge deal? I thought this was his way of saying goodbye :/ and just not being that into me. I'm definitely giving him space but it's just a crappy situation to be in.