Taurus Ladies I Need You

I swear this Taurus woman has a spell on me because I have never felt this way about anyone ever. When I'm around her I'm so nervous I can't think straight and I swear my mind goes blank. I think she feels the same way because she is always staring, replies to my text messages immediately. It's like she already new what I was going to text and had the answer ready. I sent her a gift at work and she was so happy. It seems like when I take the lead in us getting to know each other she kind of back off. I'm a Capricorn and I also don't want to move too fast but I don't want to move too slow either. How should I show that I'm really feeling her without scaring her. Everything just feels so right when we're together. She's also possessive of me which I didn't notice until one day a girl came up to me and started talking and put her arms around me to hug me and the Taurus girl and her friends came out of nowhere to pull the girl off of me.

Just keep it slow and steady pal. Sounds like she's feeling you too - her possessiveness is a start. But you're going to need patience...trying to speed up the process can spook us.

It just feels like we've been doing this dance for a long time and somebody needs to take control...lol

How long are we talking?

Posted by noonie1801
It just feels like we've been doing this dance for a long time and somebody needs to take control...lol

You're a cardinal sign.

Anyway, 5 senses are what Taurus have keen sense off.
Smell nice. Look sharp. Keep being a classy cappy.
Find out her favorite food(s) among other things for small talk.
Suggest new foods that you could both try together.
Not even mentioning dinner, junk food and ice cream counts man.

Posted by noonie1801
I'm a Capricorn and I also don't want to move too fast but I don't want to move too slow either. How should I show that I'm really feeling her without scaring her.

Allow things to flow organically.
Show her how you feel about her.
Most Bulls put more stock in action than we do words.
Flirt a little, light physical touches, take the lead, show interest but don't dominate her.
Be reliable, and consistent.

We've been doing this off and on for about a year. It seems like we take a step forward then two steps back. We lack communication so nothing seems to be straight forward with us. I come on strong and she pulls back and when she come on strong I pull back. I only pull back because she does it and it makes me think she's not interested. I've recently noticed that her friend has really been up in my face and my business. I'm thinking maybe it's to see if I'm loyal and wont stray. This same friend was literally sitting in my lap all night at a party we were at and in my face talking my ear off. Meanwhile the Taurus girl kept telling her to get off my lap but her friend was straight ignoring her. I was just polite the whole night and the next day when I saw my Taurus she gave me a big hug and kiss on my neck. Which confused me because she was just pulling back a few days before. I always grab her by the waist when I see her and she would hug me back but if I don't make the first move to touch then she will get really nervous when she touches me first. I recently sent her chocolate covered strawberries and she was so surprised and loved it. She been really talkative and I guess trying to get to know me more. I think we're heading in the right direction but I'm thinking if only I let her lead which is kind of hard for me to do.

Posted by noonie1801
I always grab her by the waist when I see her and she would hug me back but if I don't make the first move to touch then she will get really nervous when she touches me first. I recently sent her chocolate covered strawberries and she was so surprised and loved it. She been really talkative and I guess trying to get to know me more. I think we're heading in the right direction but I'm thinking if only I let her lead which is kind of hard for me to do.

You're over-analyzing this too much.
Is this why the Earth/Earth sign pairing takes eternity to jump off?
Go with your first instinct.
Lead...but don't dominate.

She's just as shy as you Cappie...

Have you ever actually said anything to let her know you're into her and want her? And be careful with that friend btw.

TaurusBull1977 you are so right. I need to go with my first instinct and stop over analyzing things. I did tell her I was interested and wanted to get to know her more. She stated that it might not be a good idea at the moment due to she's my supervisor but we'll see and that was a year ago. I think we have been slowly getting to know each other. I don't ask for any favors from her. I'm able to distinguish work from personal. She does try to make my days at work as happy and comfortable as possible. She knows how much I don't like my job and looking for another. She said she doesn't want me to leave but I'm too unhappy with my position to stay. I told her a few months ago that I'm still interested and would leave the job just so she wouldn't feel restricted but she said she didn't want me to go and we would figure something out. Those are the only times we talked about an 'us'. Everything else seems to be nonverbal and just actions that I guess we hope the other understands. She's also working on advancing her career so she is always so busy. She say that she doesn't mind me interrupting her work even if in a meeting but I don't feel comfortable getting in the way of her work and always wait until she's at least alone to catch up.

If she is your supervisor, that is the problem..if things go wrong that would cause tension in the workplace...I wouldnt date anyone who works with me that would be very uncomfortable😢

But when I tell her I will leave so we can have something, she tells me that she doesn't want me to leave. I'm willing to go somewhere else to work just so we can be together.

Eek - you need to do what you feel is right. She probably just wants you near but I don't think that's wise. Could get messy. I'm pretty she'd understand if you left.

I'm thinking she likes me near also and maybe it's a plus to her to know where I am most of the time..lol. If I don't show up to work I will get a text immediately asking if I'm ok. I feel that we would have a great relationship and I would be in it for the long haul. Getting another job with a higher salary would also mean I can start saving for the future to provide for our future family :-)

You do what you gotta do.

As much as we like it when guys do what we say, we secretly like it when they stand up to us too 😉 especially if it's going to benefit us in the long run.

Thanks for the replies from everyone. I do over analyze and just sometimes need to know which direction to go and the fact that I'm trying to be with a Taurus doesn't make it much easier 🙂

Omg...now she's ignoring me. I'm thinking maybe because she was expecting me to go see her today or maybe she's just got other things going on. I know she's had a bad couple of days but I would never ignore her. If only I was a mind reader!! I'm thinking it's not me she's mad at and just got things on her plate. I do notice that she always tries to be happy in my presence and when she's upset or mad she usually only have minimal contact and don't want to talk so maybe that's it. I'm trying to think positive...lol.

Ugh such cuties. I'm not a Taurus but I can tell you that your two signs are super cute. Good luck, Cappy babe!

Well like you said you're not a mind reader noonie. She'll get over it. We get wrapped up in our problems or issues that we're having sometimes, nothing personal towards you (unless you did do something lol).

If you know you've done nothing wrong then carry on. All you can do is ask if she's ok and go on about your business. Sometimes we can act like brats but don't fall for that 😛

She already likes you (hint* possessiveness*). Ask her out on a date, have fun, walk her home, kiss her on the forehead, & say goodbye. And wait until she calls or texts you then you'll know if she is feeling you the same way.

Thanks ladies 🙂 I heard from her today and she's been swamped with work. I'm just going to do what I need to do and let her handle her work flow 🙂