Taurus male and Pices Female...

Hey all, just joined up. I didn't recently get into the astrology thing until about a year and a half ago. I'm a 27 year old Taurus male and after some recent self discovery I realized I pretty much fit my Zodiac to a "T", except being willing to do anything for money, Honest living or none at all as far as I'm concerned.

I just got out of a pretty intense up and down relationship with a younger gemini woman... whom I hope to never see again. After taking about 7 weeks to myself to heal (no rebound, no dating whatsoever) I have recently met an older Pisces that I'm pretty psyched about. She's actually 8 years my elder (35 years old) and we met on a local social networking site. (Advertised for meeting new people, of course that always leads to more interesting things)

I was struck by her beauty from day one, big green eyes, high cheek bones and thin lips. Despite the age gap we seem to have a lot on common, except for the career aspects of our life. She's an admin assistant the city she lives in, I'm currently working two part time jobs and planning on returning to school next spring to finish out my Automotive certificate. She didn't put much importance on my salary or the jobs I work which was surprising given she is a professional/career oriented woman.

We've been in contact for about a week now, and today she gave me her number and she's been extremely flirty all day. I initially held back because I didn't want to come across as some young guy who was looking for a "Cougar" and scare her off. We're planning on meeting Tuesday, we're both roller coaster buffs so we're hitting up a local amusement park for shows and that awesome adrenaline rush.

I wanted some insight into a Pisces woman beforehand, do's and don'ts, personality etc. From what I've read it's a pretty good match... Just wanted others input on how to go on from here.

This isn't based on astrology but I'm a 35 year old women and this is what I'd like or not like... For what it's worth...

Don't make it all about sex. There's nothing more off putting than a guy, regardless of age, making it all about dick and fanny. Unless you're just meeting for casual stuff but from what you've put this is more of a date.

Just be yourself and don't rush stuff. Rushing fucks it all up. Even if she's flirting or putting it on a plate, if you like her, just get to know her more. People are always in a rush to get everywhere and rarely take time to enjoy things.

I'm a Scorp Sun but with Pisces Moon. As a water sign, we can be very sensitive and vulnerable. Therefore, she might get attached quickly even if she thinks she won't then you'll have to deal with the aftermath!

Above all, just go and have fun!!

Posted by AgentP911
This isn't based on astrology but I'm a 35 year old women and this is what I'd like or not like... For what it's worth...

Don't make it all about sex. There's nothing more off putting than a guy, regardless of age, making it all about dick and fanny. Unless you're just meeting for casual stuff but from what you've put this is more of a date.

Just be yourself and don't rush stuff. Rushing fucks it all up. Even if she's flirting or putting it on a plate, if you like her, just get to know her more. People are always in a rush to get everywhere and rarely take time to enjoy things.

I'm a Scorp Sun but with Pisces Moon. As a water sign, we can be very sensitive and vulnerable. Therefore, she might get attached quickly even if she thinks she won't then you'll have to deal with the aftermath!

Above all, just go and have fun!!

Sex is great and all but I don't hop in someones pants easily, I see sex as an act of love, not of pleasure. Never had a one nighter or FWB. In fact my ex got dumped due to lying about a guy she screwed while we were separated for 5 weeks. And I have no intention of rushing, made that mistake before. Ended up being proven in the end that I didn't know the person as well as I though I did. Thanks for your input.

That's my main concern is that she's looking to have some fun before getting back into serious dating, after all she did pretty much initiate contact with me. She honestly seems to be mentally younger that 35, a kid at heart if you will. Her initial contact was a short discussion followed by "Hit me up". Then of course today replying to my texts with things such as "cool" or "sweet".

Trying not to read too much into it, not trying to get my hopes up and end up getting crushed again.

If you are separated why is it not okay to mess around?

You separate for a reason and they are not content with something in the relationship itself. I do see where it is a big issue.. If someone told me they wanted space I leave for good. If they wanted to separate then that means someone may be having sex or is emotionally cheating already , then there is no good to communicate. i will shut down and leave you along. I am not that possessive I swear.. If the shit is junk.. I don't want it.

So we are fucked no matter what irl...Either we try to work it out or we don't and move on to other fish in the sea.

So there is no casual sex..Lol Because most woman and man have standards ..It brings me to the next question If woman switched shoes for a day to be a guy
Most people have casual sex because they have no drama, stress, and it's just pleasure and get one with our day. It is a conquest in the process on finding that one person that isn't perfect but takes care of their needs properly.

I'm pretty much over the ex, There isn't any bitterness or resentment left. She's gone pretty much loopy since then according to friends which brings me to my worrying she was going to be bi-polar like her mom, meanwhile I just kept a cool head and have done things to keep me pre-occupied while I was waiting to be "ready again". Even enjoyed the Rush concert I was supposed to bring her along on without thinking about her once. She texted me last month for by birthday, talking as if we never broke up (Deja Vu of the first breakup). I pretty much cut her off, stated I'd rather be single or with someone else and told her to delete my number and move on.

And no, I'm not looking for a fling or a one nighter. Any women in the past which have sought that from me ended up with me dropping them like a hot rock. To each their own, but I find easy women to be a bit disgusting because I'm strictly the relationship type. I won't knock you for doing it but if you do, you're immediately knocked out of the relationship category and land firmly in the friendzone never to be leave it again.

As far as this woman goes, I'm not going to worry so much about the outcome and just play it by year.

I'm honestly sick of people assuming that just because I'm a male I'm supposed to wanna screw anything that moves...

As far back as I can remember I've always done my own thing and never felt like I needed to prove my masculinity to anyone. Never played sports, was interested in join the military or "conquering" women. I believe being raised by grandparents plays some role in it, but given my grandfather was a player back in his day it isn't completely true.

I see all these guys go around talking about how many women they've bedded and how it makes them a man, but when you think about it those are the same types of guys who cut and run when they knock a girl up. Nothing manly about that.

It is nice isn't it.

Wow I may just drop this one. I shot her a text to let her know I was at the park. We were supposed to meet an hour and a half ago.

Shortly after I sent the text she says she's at the dealership for an oil change and aligment and won't be out for a while. I told her that's fine, Ill ride coasters until she gets here. I get another text an hour later saying she wants to reschedule for next Tuesday.

I told her how much I was looking foward to today and don't mind if she's late, no reply yet. We scheduled this a week out, and I took a day off work for this. Ill wait until I get a reply however if its a no I know myself and Taurians well enough to just say fuck it and move on.

She said she was looking foward to seeing the new Terminator movie so Ill see what she has planned this friday. If she flakes I'm done

In the meantime I'm headed home. Don't have a high tolerance for this type of BS. Come to think of it I'm closing the shop this Friday so I doubt Ill stick around. On to the next one.

Well now that I'm calm and thinking straight I'll try and give her the benefit of the doubt. This is her only day off during the week and dealerships are closed weekends. She's lucky I'm into her because I usually don't even consider a second chance. I told her give me a few days to decide on rescheduling. If I do agree, she'll have to put in some serious effort if she wants me to stick around. I usually do the wooing, but I'll let her do it this time around.

We'll see, As you stated us Taurus' are pretty organized and strategic people. I'll only give her another chance if she decides to contact me apologizing for this. She's shut down on me and I haven't heard anything back yet so I'm going to leave it be. If she contacts me in a few days asking about the second chance it'll show me she's serious and not just jerking me around.

In the mean time, I'm not even worried about it 😄

Did I hurt someones feelers?

Holy triple post batman..

That is true... and yes she's lucky. Pretty much all of my ex's have brought up how I treated them better than any of theirs, however they always get to comfortable and end up taking me for granted.

Well I'll give her one more shot. She called me profusely apologizing a while ago. Some idiot stripped out her oil pan drain plug while performing the oil change and the dealership had to go pick a new one up and replace the pan. I've done it a couple of times before myself, not quite to that degree though. A bit worried it'll happen again but life's a gamble.

Hmm.. slightly embarrassed about this but even though I got a phone call from a woman I'm pretty sure I got catfished. There's a first time for everything.

Hold on, in your first post you said you had recently 'met' this woman via the social networking site.

How could you be cat-fished?


I hate online or social network dating. You'd think it's a great place to meet people but it's not.

We never met face to face, however many of the signs are there. Only 2 profile pictures, supposedly lives in Hampton Roads Area which has a 757 area code, however "her" phone number is a 252 area code. Northeastern North Carolina. Never once have I got a text from "her first", "she" only responds. Had a pretty convincing excuse for not showing up.

Then of course her Job... She claims to work for the CIty as an admin assist which is a 9-5. Monday-Friday type job however she claims her only day off is Tuesday.

I may be gullible but I'm not stupid.

Posted by Hemispheres
We never met face to face, however many of the signs are there. Only 2 profile pictures, supposedly lives in Hampton Roads Area which has a 757 area code, however "her" phone number is a 252 area code. Northeastern North Carolina. Never once have I got a text from "her first", "she" only responds. Had a pretty convincing excuse for not showing up.

Then of course her Job... She claims to work for the CIty as an admin assist which is a 9-5. Monday-Friday type job however she claims her only day off is Tuesday.

I may be gullible but I'm not stupid.

Ahhhh 'met' as in online not 'met' as in actually met in person.

Yeah if something is off then it probably is. If you'd arranged a date or meet up of some description and she flaked in the way she did then I wouldn't be happy either. Some people give second chances or third or none at all. There's no right or wrong here.

I don't think you're gullible or stupid at all. Your last post shows that anyway. It's simply the process people have to go through. Social or dating media offers many weirdos and narcissistic twats so the probability is that she falls into that category or quite simply, she didn't give as much of a crap as you did. Pisces/mutable, stages of life etc all combine as factors but you still need to weed out the crap. Unfortunately, this isn't solely related to online dating, I've met numerous people in real life, some within the last year that are not as they portray themselves to be. Sometimes you just can't bloody win but we persevere!

There's some guy I met a while back who is back on a dating site. He describes himself as kind, outgoing, active, fun loving, enjoys going out for drinks/dinner etc when in reality it should read indecisive, narcissistic mummy's boy who is selfish and wants everything his own way...

I think there's also something up with the one I've had a date with but time will tell...

The good news is that with over 7 billion people in the world I'm sure we'll find a good one at some point...

Welcome to the world...

@Busy

He has until this evening to confirm proposed plans for this Saturday.

He's not exactly locking me down for date two despite it being discussed last week. He said he wanted to see me again after date one and I reciprocated. I actually initiated text to ask when he was free and I put forward dates, he couldn't do last Sunday and I can't do this Thursday so it was 'agreed' this Saturday looked the best bet and we were to sort details later. We have both touched base with each other equally, me initiating on Saturday and him on Sunday. Messages are never a lengthy fest, one to three each, or inappropriate which I like although they do seem rather bland despite his lively personality.

Something not quite right though. Will see what comes of it.

Leo moon or not, I'm not bloody chasing some bloke! I've put it out there, initiated, expressed sufficient interest, suggest dates and alternatives, replied within good time without playing games, kept it straight forward, black and white. If he is prepared to let me go then it ain't happening!

Next!!!!

Yup he's Scorp sun & merc, Leo moon, Venus Virgo. Not sure on ascendant.

I'll show next Tuesday however I'm bringing friends along so that in the case this person is a catfish the day wont be ruined.

As far as natal charts go, any of you experienced at reading them? I'm a Third Decon Taurus and the rest I'm clueless about.

Posted by Hemispheres
I'll show next Tuesday however I'm bringing friends along so that in the case this person is a catfish the day wont be ruined.

As far as natal charts go, any of you experienced at reading them? I'm a Third Decon Taurus and the rest I'm clueless about.

Try astro.com.

Once you know your placements of the main planets (such as sun, moon, Venus etc) you can google it such as 'sun in taurus' or 'moon in pisces' and go from there.

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by AgentP911
Yup he's Scorp sun & merc, Leo moon, Venus Virgo. Not sure on ascendant.

With you being a Scorp.. You'd probably be able to read him pretty well?!

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Yes, perhaps. I'm also a paranoid little shit which doesn't help and neither does the work I do. Often seeing and experiencing the bad side of people is not particularly great!

Initially, he fell over himself to get my number and was rather pleased and forth coming. A date was arranged, he did everything he said he was going to do. We met for three hours, there were a few things that made me think 'hmmmmm' but rather at least try to go with the flow and benefit of the doubt etc.

I felt he did like me and was interested. He's either lowing/hiding his interest level to not seem overly keen or he's simply not that keen! He might not be interested and is being polite but what's the point in that, as a Scorp Sun and Merc, I doubt it. He's not texting when he's 'bored' so it's not that. I could have put him off, it happens!

Not entirely sure on gut feel, I have a few takes but in reality it's a little too early to really tell much and in fairness I just wanted to see how it goes. Just spend more time, get to know each other then make a call on it if it's a match of some sort.

I just thought he could be a bit of a laugh and have some fun without rushing in and spoiling stuff.

There's a huge possibility I come off as busy or uninterested despite my best intentions because I'm not constantly hounding or chasing as I've got shit to do but by all means I'm very happy to book in time in my diary for him and travel into London to see him - not much more one can do!!

Posted by Infinite8

Posted by AgentP911
Yup he's Scorp sun & merc, Leo moon, Venus Virgo. Not sure on ascendant.

What?!?? When did this happen?!?? Is this another guy?!?! How did you meet?!?!

If it weren't for that Virgo venus... I'd say he and I have a lot of placements in common!

What is it with Leo moons these days?!?! I hear everyone talking about them!

Anyway, just read your last post and I'd agree... You've done enough!! Remember, he's a Scorp. He will take pleasure in wooing YOU and finding out about YOU. So, no need to make yourself too available or iniciated too much.

With his Leo moon... All that means is that when you are together - give him all your attention and make him feel special. Be romantic, FUNNY and AFFECTIONATE!!

That is all 🙂

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Ha! This girl gets around 😉

Actually I've not been on here much as I've been working loads. Long hours, away etc. I met this one at Royal Ascot (horse racing). He was with two friends (husband and wife) and they ended up sitting next to us late in the afternoon. It was when we were watching the last race and he won that we got chatting. He had placed a bet on a horse name he'd found circled in the paper next to him. It was my paper and I'd circled them.

We were chatting for maybe 15 mins, I was in a group of six girls and he was concentrating solely on me. He seemed nice, normal, friendly, quite open, funny, attractive. Anyway, we were parting ways and he took my hand and said something like 'it would be nice to see you again' or maybe it wasn't as direct as that, so I said ok and stood looking at him, waiting for him to ask for my number, thinking 'right, ok, well how's that going to happen then, you need to ask for my number' but I didn't say that. We had a rather long, awkward silent pause (everyone else could see we were getting on and what might happen) and then he said something like 'I'll just draw a line under it and leave it there' or something like that. I wasn't sure what to say or do (I'm crap in situations like that) so I just looked confused and said ok.

We kind of parted ways and I said to one of the girls about what had happened and they all thought I was a bloody idiot and one went to chase after him to get his number. Ha

Ha ha great mates!!

It turns out he was worried he'd said something really rude or to offend me as I just stood there etc. My mate checked he was single, not married, got his first and surname, got his number and called it to ensure it was his, this was all in front of his mates. I was too shy to go after him so let my mates do it while I buggered off with my sister!

Then once in the cab I text him inviting him to call/text me. He replied quickly, said he was glad to have my number and that my mate had come and got it. Said he'd like to meet to catch up etc and hoped we had a nice day out etc. All very nice, gentlemanly if a little formal but hey, I like a guy who can spell!

So all was well and he did everything he said he was going to do prior to first date. Met in London, he picked a bar which was nearer to where I'd be etc. He did dominate the conversation maybe 70% but I know he was analysing the shit out of me and could recall everything I said. He maintained direct eye contact for maybe 98% of the time. Seriously, I didn't know if he wanted to eat me of kill me. Now I know what a Scorp stare can do!! Ha ha!!

So I dunno, I think I have done enough. It was left at possibly meeting up Sat and we'd sort something out depending on what weather would be doing. I've been me, straight, honest, no fucking about. He's a bloke and a Scorp.

He has Mars in cap too. He's 47, never been married, no kids (I sighed with relief at that one!!) but had long terms of 8 years, 4 years etc. He's Australian but been in UK 15 years, he loves it here, no plans to go back to Oz, he's a project manager in London, has own place and business.

I did a 'surface' check on the Internet and can't see anything untoward but that doesn't mean it's not there. Some dude on dxp (Fast Phoenix) was practicing his tarot psychic skills and told me he's not interested in me as he has someone else. I'll take that with a pinch of salt. Initially he seemed interested, rather keen I'd say, has maintained comms. Has not tried to get to know me via text which is nice. No photos requested or sent either way. He's a bit slow and there's something I'm not sure of but can't put finger on it but there's not enough here to really make a judgement.

I like to choose a weekend date because if someone is already coupled up then it's usually impossible for them to meet at a weekend, or they leave it last minute to confirm with you about meeting at weekend as they are waiting for partners movements before confirming, or while on a weekend date they are working to specific time slots or schedules or have to go by certain times, checking their phone etc. This isn't the case all the time but is a good thing to do if unsure plus weekend more convenient!

I dunno. Odd one really.

Posted by busyeyes88
@AP911. '

I like to choose a weekend date because if someone is already coupled up then it's usually impossible for them to meet at a weekend, or they leave it last minute to confirm with you about meeting at weekend as they are waiting for partners movements before confirming, or while on a weekend date they are working to specific time slots or schedules or have to go by certain times, checking their phone etc. This isn't the case all the time but is a good thing to do if unsure plus weekend more convenient!"

You really do sound like a Scorp aka private investigator!! Lol lol I've made a note of the above!!! Lol

I hope it works well!!! _ ?

I kind of work in that kind of area so it's incredibly hard to switch off. I promised myself I'd not do an Internet search on this one... 30 mins later I did a surface look... That's how I know his 'mid 40's' is 47, 48 this year...

Arghhhhhh...

Welp I decided to voice my concerns in a generous manner and now she's blowing up my phone left and right, even sent me a few selfies and pictures from her last trip to Busch Gardens. Looks like Tuesday is a go. She says she lives in NC and the city of Chesapeake is about an hour drive, seems legit.
A bit heart warming but got really upset and explained how her last BF did her and she seems to think I'm a nice down to Earth gentleman, everything she's looking for. Big confidence booster lol.

Careful... Words are powerful but they're just words...

Keep us all updated!!!

Will do.

Yes, was rather promising, bit disappointing now. Well I bit the bullet and did what I said I wouldn't do... I tend to have a habit of doing that... I wonder if that's my mutable Pisces moon— Can be changeable...

I sent him a text saying 'hello, I know we didn't arrange a time but are we still meeting up this Sat? Ta'

Will see what comes back in the morning. To be fair, I'm working until 05:00 on Sat morning so not particularly great now but could still do something.

I thought just put it out there and ask. Fuck it. I'll replace him with a new one next week if he fucks about!

Maybe he'll find his energy again... Old man!!! Cheers for Leo moon tips, very handy. I don't look at anyone else when I'm out with someone. That's just rude. Might need to be more affectionate but that comes with time!

Enjoy your trip, where you orf to??

Took about an hour yesterday and it's honestly creepy how accurate this stuff is.

Sun in Taurus
Moon in Gemini
Mercury in Gemini
Venus in Cancer
Mars in Aquarius
Jupiter (my favorite planet) in Taurus
Saturn in Capricorn
Uranus in Capricorn
Neptune in Capricorn
Pluto in Scorpio
Lilith (Which I'm assuming is the dark side of the moon) in Birgo
North Node in Pices/South Node in Virgo

Went down the list one by one and eerily smiling as I read through my own personality traits and behavior....

@Inf8,

The Scorp text me back this morning. We are meeting up this Sat afternoon. He said (again) that he's happy to come to me so we are meeting up in a town near me (not my own town) and going for a wander about as he's not been over this way before, grab some lunch and a drink too. Sounds ok.

I'm calling either catfish or emotionally unstable. Now she claims she didn't sleep very good last night due to hemorrhoids and doesn't know if she'll make it. I told her last chance, keep your word or gtfo. She doesn't seem to concerned at all. Even asked me if her leaving around 3 instead of staying all day will "piss me off".

Seems like mind games tbh.

Posted by Hemispheres
Seems like mind games tbh.

Yup, sounds like a game. Dig up your Taurus pride and dignity and move a long. I think Taurus are in pretty high demand, so don't sweat it. She does not sound like she's worth the time!

@OP- What is a catfish? Oh and if I give excuses I might be preoccupied...work, sick, and simple don't feel like it..

Pretty much. She eventually calmed down and said we'd meet at the original place after me telling her if her issue was bothering her that much we could meet somewhere less strenuous (movie, dinner). I may just not even show tomorrow to give her a taste of her own damn medicine. In the mean time there's a new girl at work that's seems to have a bit of a crush on me, she's cute as hell too... Then there's the customers who come in and flirt with me on a daily basis.

I can't stand womanizers...Lol and trust me when I say if you ever do a no call no show. Forget, don't even bother..

She texted me to tell me she's flaking again. I wasn't even mad, I was expecting it. Told her take care and good luck (she's gonna need it, no dude is gonna stick around for this bs). I'm off to Busch Gardens to enjoy my day without any sort of procrastination whatsoever.

Good for you!

You're so done with her. Without a shadow of a doubt.

Ooooh girl at work sounds good!

Lol yeah we're done. Not catfish, not mindgames, grown ass woman with serious emotional baggage from past relationships. I honestly believed she liked me but was afraid to meet. When she pulled the hemorrhoids excuse yesterday and kept ignoring my request to meet somewhere closer to her where she'd be more comfortable in the case that her roids were real, I got a messege in all caps. It read. "THEN GO FIND SOMEONE WHO YOU CAN BE WITH 24/".

I calmed her down and then she agreed again, this morning she was acting like she was ashamed of herself. "I can't make it and I know you're going to be pissed, so I'm just saying goodbye". I responded, "Yeah I can't date someone who keeps cancelling them at the last minute, goodbye and good luck" Numbers been deleted as well as the chain of texts. She sounds like she needs therapy.

24/7.

It was the haemorrhoids but that did it for me...