AngieLove
@AngieLove
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Posted by jeaneSorry that was a typo on my part - he is Sun in Taurus, Moon in Cancer, Mercury in Aries, Venus in Taurus and Mars in Aries.
i'm sure others will respond to you but i don't think taurus can have a cancer venus.
Posted by tizianiThank you for your post - yeah that makes sense - weird that every guy I've dated/who has tried to date me has always been constantly texting me so I thought that was what everyone did lol.
If you value texts as a sign of attention and he does not then it's just a difference between how you both see things.
I would say don't let anxiety screw it up but failing that, talk with each other about it assuming you're both wanting to be in a relationship.

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Met a taurus male (cancer moon, mercury venus and aries mars) recently online. We are both in our mid-20s. He was very eager to meet up and has taken me out on 3 dates to nice places after chatting online for about 3 or so days.. he'd bring me little gifts like chocolates etc. and seemed very eager, always arranging to see me again right at the end of each date and if anything, wanting to hang out even more frequently than I do.. but recently, he's very very quiet.. he has a lot on with working on presentations (he's a uni lecturer) but it's not a full time thing and I know he also goes to the gym every day.. he'll ask me how I am and I'll answer within 20 mins and he'll take another 7 hours to reply.. this is on whatsapp (I can see his last online and he hasn't been online during that time so not exactly ignoring me), he only seems to be on whatsapp for 2 or 3 mins, 4 or 5 times a day, that's it.
In the past, I've only ever dated gemini guys who were insanely chatty and would send over a 100 texts each day totalling to several thousand by the end of the relationship.. I mentioned one of my ex sending over 11,000 texts during the time I was with him and he seemed surprised and said he probably hasn't even sent that many texts in total over his whole life, let alone to one person...I did mention a few times, I didn't like guys being all clingy and controlling over texts as my exes tended to go overkill on texting so maybe he took a hint from that & backed off? (I wouldn't have said it if I knew he'd hardly text) I'm not sure really.. he is very ambitious and has achieved more than people double his age would have achieved...
Is it a case of slow & steady wins the race (typical taurus way) or he's not too serious about us? Anyone have any stories of things starting off super slow and becoming serious eventually?
Despite his cancerian moon, he always seemed super arrogant (in a positive way lol) and confident so I don't think it's a shy thing.. but he's only dated a handful of people before me.. he says. He also said for the first 3-4 months, it's just "seeing each other" and not officially bf/gf which is fair enough but I'm so used to every guy I've been with bugging me with 100s of silly texts per day so I'm not sure what's normal anymore?