Taurus Male Question

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Posted by libralioness
Last time I blew him off, he came back, with a baby step, only to go cold again. I didn't tell him I was done though, just acted nonchalant with him, and ignored his advances. This time, I said the words, I'm moving on. Will he accept this and move on himself?



I REPEAT

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Try to attempt this anyway....

I double-dog dare you. 😉
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libralioness
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Posted by venusianbull
Do the man a kindness and make a clean break. That is if you are sincere. False hope is game. If you don't want the man after all....



I do want the man, or I wouldn't even be asking...I just can't deal with the bs! It's been 11 months...I guess to the Taurus that isn't long enough to make up his mind. He runs like a scared cat with every single baby step. I'm going to have to make a clean break, or lose my mind!
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I know you want the man girl and I am telling you straight up: He knows it too. Your shooing motions are like wet tissue paper.
I am not being unkind. If you mean it, stand behind it.
Plain English works too:

Dear Bohunk,

I want to be your woman. I want you to come correct. If you cannot then stand down. No further contact. No wiping my eyes with my stuffed bunny, no waiting around and hoping you'll come to your senses and no clutching my phone and willing you to ring or text.

Live long and prosper,

A. Libra


No hiding behind an internet connection knowing that you'll bend like a reed in the breeze either. He knows that too. Time for courage and those big girl pants.
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Dear Bohunk,

I want to be your woman. I want you to come correct. If you cannot then stand down. No further contact. No wiping my eyes with my stuffed bunny, no waiting around and hoping you'll come to your senses and no clutching my phone and willing you to ring or text.

Live long and prosper,


WAIT!!! Did a Virgo write this? This is a perfect letter. WELL DONE!!!

*If you cannot then stand down* *Live long and prosper* I love every part of it.

*Saves it just in case I ever need to use it on my bull*
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libralioness
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Posted by fembot
Dear Bohunk,

I want to be your woman. I want you to come correct. If you cannot then stand down. No further contact. No wiping my eyes with my stuffed bunny, no waiting around and hoping you'll come to your senses and no clutching my phone and willing you to ring or text.

Live long and prosper,


WAIT!!! Did a Virgo write this? This is a perfect letter. WELL DONE!!!

*If you cannot then stand down* *Live long and prosper* I love every part of it.

*Saves it just in case I ever need to use it on my bull*



I told mine "I hope for the best for you and wish you a happy and fulfilling life."
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Posted by libralioness
Posted by fembot
Dear Bohunk,

I want to be your woman. I want you to come correct. If you cannot then stand down. No further contact. No wiping my eyes with my stuffed bunny, no waiting around and hoping you'll come to your senses and no clutching my phone and willing you to ring or text.

Live long and prosper,


WAIT!!! Did a Virgo write this? This is a perfect letter. WELL DONE!!!

*If you cannot then stand down* *Live long and prosper* I love every part of it.

*Saves it just in case I ever need to use it on my bull*



I told mine "I hope for the best for you and wish you a happy and fulfilling life."
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Yea unfortunately mine would see right through a stmt like that. Particularly because I say things like that to him all the time (in a not breaking things off sort of way). He'd know that I still care and if I care he can still have me. VB's letter was concise and stuck to the point, which is essentially- Get on board or kick rocks! I like that...

But honestly you could say just about anything...he's still going to try to keep you around. The only thing that convinces anyone of any sign is ACTION. So you said it...now you have to back it up with your actions, even if he tries to come back. Can you really do that?
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Posted by libralioness
Posted by fembot
Dear Bohunk,

I want to be your woman. I want you to come correct. If you cannot then stand down. No further contact. No wiping my eyes with my stuffed bunny, no waiting around and hoping you'll come to your senses and no clutching my phone and willing you to ring or text.

Live long and prosper,


WAIT!!! Did a Virgo write this? This is a perfect letter. WELL DONE!!!

*If you cannot then stand down* *Live long and prosper* I love every part of it.

*Saves it just in case I ever need to use it on my bull*



I told mine "I hope for the best for you and wish you a happy and fulfilling life."



Yea unfortunately mine would see right through a stmt like that. Particularly because I say things like that to him all the time (in a not breaking things off sort of way). He'd know that I still care and if I care he can still have me. VB's letter was concise and stuck to the point, which is essentially- Get on board or kick rocks! I like that...

But honestly you could say just about anything...he's still going to try to keep you around. The only thing that convinces anyone of any sign is ACTION. So you said it...now you have to back it up with your actions, even if he tries to come back. Can you really do that?
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Well, as far as caring goes...I'm not sure that I agree. I don't want to give the impression that I do not care, I want to give the impression that I am a strong, independent, beautiful woman who deserves to be treated with the respect and love that I deserve.
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Posted by libralioness

Well, as far as caring goes...I'm not sure that I agree. I don't want to give the impression that I do not care, I want to give the impression that I am a strong, independent, beautiful woman who deserves to be treated with the respect and love that I deserve.



Just because you think you're worthy of it (no pun intended)...
It doesn't mean that he thinks you're worthy of it.

As I stated earlier, Hot & Cold behavior stems from uncertainty.

We do not have the entire story.



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Posted by venusianbull
I know you want the man girl and I am telling you straight up: He knows it too. Your shooing motions are like wet tissue paper.
I am not being unkind. If you mean it, stand behind it.
Plain English works too:

Dear Bohunk,

I want to be your woman. I want you to come correct. If you cannot then stand down. No further contact. No wiping my eyes with my stuffed bunny, no waiting around and hoping you'll come to your senses and no clutching my phone and willing you to ring or text.

Live long and prosper,

A. Libra


No hiding behind an internet connection knowing that you'll bend like a reed in the breeze either. He knows that too. Time for courage and those big girl pants.



LOL - this is sexy. I recommend something like this.
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Posted by libralioness

Well, as far as caring goes...I'm not sure that I agree. I don't want to give the impression that I do not care, I want to give the impression that I am a strong, independent, beautiful woman who deserves to be treated with the respect and love that I deserve.

I know how endearing those little Ferdinand??s can be. All the while fucking you over. Its OK that you care, you always will but stay strong. It is hard and its OK if you wipe your tears with your stuffed bunny??_only you know about it. Taurus men are wonderful and stupid all in one. If its meant to be then it will work out
you go girl! 😉