Hotzits020
@Hotzits020
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Taurus man seems very aloof
I'm thinking I should back off and not be so available or open to him when HE feels like it.
Posted by Hotzits020You hit the nail on the head! Here is MY scenario: I got into Tinder about two weeks ago. I have been told, "I can drive 1 hour and 40 minutes to see that 'sweet ass''" What the bleep!? Well, just this week on Monday, I added my profile description to inform the men out there, "If you are looking for a 'hook up' please by pass me"....guess what?!
I'm thinking I should back off and not be so available or open to him when HE feels like it.
You guessed it! Not ONE single "nibble" at the end of the line. Moral of the story? You have to be honest with your Taurus man and find out what HE wants! Better yet, I just realized I forgot to mention when I read when he said, "Let's hook up!" that's exactly what he meant and wants. When he tells you an excuse after excuse why you cannot come over M-F; he just wants a "weekend hook up!" I was kinda sorta in the same boat w/my ex bf. He lived an hour from me and I just didn't want to see him at him home when I've got a kid, work, laundry, house cleaning, etc,, so we'd meet over the weekend; but I knew what we wanted as we had titles "boyfriend/girlfriend". He deleted HIS account on POF and so did I. That to me, Sweetie, is a man who has found "the one" and vice versa. We were both honest as to what we were looking for at POF. When two people find their SO that's what respectable people do. We both had so many things in common it almost scared me (Saggy) until he treetrunked it and I "swam away".
Think about what I said. Just ponder this for about five whole minutes before you post a response to my post. You're tired of this and I don't blame you. If that is what YOU want go for it! If NOT, then talk to him. I think it's time YOU closed that door. You're wasting your time and energy on this Taurus man when you could OPEN another door for another man who is honest, truthful, and ready for a relationship. 100% of the time, all these men want from a woman is S-E-X.
🤗 CYBER HUG!
Love,
Eva
Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by Hotzits020You hit the nail on the head! Here is MY scenario: I got into Tinder about two weeks ago. I have been told, "I can drive 1 hour and 40 minutes to see that 'sweet ass''" What the treetrunk?! Well, just this week on Monday, I added my profile description to inform the men out there, "If you are looking for a 'hook up' please by pass me"....guess what?!
I'm thinking I should back off and not be so available or open to him when HE feels like it.
You guessed it! Not ONE single "nibble" at the end of the line. Moral of the story? You have to be honest with your Taurus man and find out what HE wants! Better yet, I just realized I forgot to mention when I read when he said, "Let's hook up!" that's exactly what he meant and wants. When he tells you an excuse after excuse why you cannot come over M-F; he just wants a "weekend hook up!" I was kinda sorta in the same boat w/my ex bf. He lived an hour from me and I just didn't want to see him at him home when I've got a kid, work, laundry, house cleaning, etc,, so we'd meet over the weekend; but I knew what we wanted as we had titles "boyfriend/girlfriend". He deleted HIS account on POF and so did I. That to me, Sweetie, is a man who has found "the one" and vice versa. We were both honest as to what we were looking for at POF. When two people find their SO that's what respectable people do. We both had so many things in common it almost scared me (Saggy) until he treetrunked it and I "swam away".
Think about what I said. Just ponder this for about five whole minutes before you post a response to my post. You're tired of this and I don't blame you. If that is what YOU want go for it! If NOT, then talk to him. I think it's time YOU closed that door. You're wasting your time and energy on this Taurus man when you could OPEN another door for another man who is honest, truthful, and ready for a relationship. 100% of the time, all these men want from a woman is S-E-X.
🤗 CYBER HUG!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
Everything you read about Taurus men says they aren't the type to juggle women at a time and that they aren't into casual arrangements, but I suppose at the end of the day they are just typical men!
I am currently accepting applications of even being in my harem. Lol
Ewwwwwwww!
Posted by busyeyes88Awwww she's all warmed up!! Go busy!!
Sorry OP, but you already knew how the outcome would end.. U were told so in yr last thread! You are simply a 'hook up' that he has on the weekend!!
His life probably runs like this:
Mandy on Monday
Theresa on Tuesday
Wendy on Wednesay
Thursday - rest day
Fri - out with the lads
Sat - YOU!!
Taurus is FIXED! When he told you 'let's "hook up" he meant just that !! Your are a 'weekend booty call'!
If you are not happy with this scenario , you tell him straight out that you are not happy and that you are looking for a relationship and that you are prepared to walk away until you find a suitable prospective partner .
A the end of the day, you are only a 20 year old kid! He is 36! You have plenty of life to live without hitching up to that 'old' buzzard!! If he saw you as a potential relationship he would have taken his profile off tinder and got to know you better as a person first without having sexual relaions with you so early on... But this is not his error ... It's yours ! He has told you from day ONE !!! Whenever a person says 'yeah, let's hook up ' try mean exactly that !!
There is no 'Reading between the lines' or 'hints' with Taurus folk ! State what you want from the get go in plain language !!
You are young and he is 'toying' with you until someone more 'suitable ' comes along... Set this stale fish free and find a young 'whipper snapper' like yourself to share good times with !!!
'Don't settle for second best, baby put your love to the test. You know you've got to make him express how he feels and baby then you know your love is real'... Says Madonna!
Hopefully that will change for me as well @Busyeyes88. It's all temporary haha.
@Op-what's with the ewww comment?
@Op-what's with the ewww comment?
@busyeyes88 I can see why you would have your point of view on this but we have not established whether we are hooking up or what we are doing and that is my main dilemma here, he has introduced me to his close group of friends and we all hangout together and based on the things he has told me in our own privacy is why I find it difficult to think that we are just hooks up. I know how the game works and I know genuine from BS, I'm positive that his moments of bringing down his walls for me were not BS. I know for a fact that he does not spend his week with various women and I believe him when he said he has not been having sex with other women because I did not ask him in a jealous curious tone. I told him I didn't feel comfortable not using protection during intercourse and he went on to say that I am right that he was being careless for not doing that but that he has never had a STD and isn't sleeping with anyone else. This man is not the type of man to be with multiple women at once. I have not revealed as many details to him as he has to me about my past or relationships or family or whether I'm sleeping with anyone else. I don't doubt you when you say he could be toying with me, I'm aware of that and I've been aware of it since the first date. I won't be in his pocket anymore if he hits me up this weekend I will tell him I'm busy already another time, and when we do see one another I intend to just be straight forward and ask what's going on because if it's not going to be exclusive then Im going to date other people.
@Op- I have lots of air aloof placements but I still make time, effort, spend apples amount of energy if I am interested in you. I can even want you in my harem and still treat you really well.
Posted by busyeyes88Mind on the Money Mondays
Sorry OP, but you already knew how the outcome would end.. U were told so in yr last thread! You are simply a 'hook up' that he has on the weekend!!
His life probably runs like this:
Mandy on Monday
Theresa on Tuesday
Wendy on Wednesay
Thursday - rest day
Fri - out with the lads
Sat - YOU!!
Burgers and Shakes at Ruby Tuesdays
Wednesday Humpdays (Harem option 1, 2,3 or 4)
Thursdays are the Gym 'Hurt Days"...gotta look good for the harem.
Friday is the Loddie Doddie..."We like to Party..."
Saturday.."YOU"
@Hotzits,
Bulls, we have this aura about us. We make you feel safe, trusted, warm. Yes, even the hedonistic ones with the harem. It's difficult to spot the good ones from the unevolved ones. The game is the same. We move Venusian-Like, can appear quite disciplined, well-mannered, respectful, real affectionate and very sweet. We can stare at you with no intimidation, it will appear soft, childlike, innocent, enough to draw you in and make your heart stop. The main objective here is to appear as we have no agenda. The goal is to draw YOU in. He's capable of doing this because he's emotionally disciplined. Don't get it twisted. He can do this with his entire harem in his sleep.
If he considered you a possibility, chances are, it was destroyed when the FWB began. He's Fixed. His opinion of you will not change. If you want to change his mind, try to be less secretive. SHOW him who you really are.
What drives a Bull to move with caution....is not indecisiveness,,,it's an absolute need for certainty..
We need to see who you really are...and we need to see your intentions.
Your statements will have to be consistent with your actions.
This is where we find our safety net...It's really about trust.
Bulls, we have this aura about us. We make you feel safe, trusted, warm. Yes, even the hedonistic ones with the harem. It's difficult to spot the good ones from the unevolved ones. The game is the same. We move Venusian-Like, can appear quite disciplined, well-mannered, respectful, real affectionate and very sweet. We can stare at you with no intimidation, it will appear soft, childlike, innocent, enough to draw you in and make your heart stop. The main objective here is to appear as we have no agenda. The goal is to draw YOU in. He's capable of doing this because he's emotionally disciplined. Don't get it twisted. He can do this with his entire harem in his sleep.
If he considered you a possibility, chances are, it was destroyed when the FWB began. He's Fixed. His opinion of you will not change. If you want to change his mind, try to be less secretive. SHOW him who you really are.
What drives a Bull to move with caution....is not indecisiveness,,,it's an absolute need for certainty..
We need to see who you really are...and we need to see your intentions.
Your statements will have to be consistent with your actions.
This is where we find our safety net...It's really about trust.
Posted by TaurusBull1977I agree with this consensus.
@Hotzits,
Bulls, we have this aura about us. We make you feel safe, trusted, warm. Yes, even the hedonistic ones with the harem. It's difficult to spot the good ones from the unevolved ones. The game is the same. We move Venusian-Like, can appear quite disciplined, well-mannered, respectful, real affectionate and very sweet. We can stare at you with no intimidation, it will appear soft, childlike, innocent, enough to draw you in and make your heart stop. The main objective here is to appear as we have no agenda. The goal is to draw YOU in. He's capable of doing this because he's emotionally disciplined. Don't get it twisted. He can do this with his entire harem in his sleep.
If he considered you a possibility, chances are, it was destroyed when the FWB began. He's Fixed. His opinion of you will not change. If you want to change his mind, try to be less secretive. SHOW him who you really are.
What drives a Bull to move with caution....is not indecisiveness,,,it's an absolute need for certainty..
We need to see who you really are...and we need to see your intentions.
Your statements will have to be consistent with your actions.
This is where we find our safety net...It's really about trust.
As a Scorpio, you may be driven by passion and the expression of that passion more than Taurus. If worst comes to worse here, at least you will have learned a valuable lesson moving forward. Hard as it may be now, that's important.
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