Taurus man and his ego

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by sunshine0077 on Tuesday, May 10, 2016 and has 6 replies.

How to Reconnect with a Taurus Man After Offending Him

To regain his trust, give him space and show genuine remorse without being clingy. Be patient and calm, allowing time for his ego to heal. Demonstrate kindness and consistency, which appeals to Taurus's need for stability. Avoid emotional pleas and focus on positive interactions to help him come back naturally.

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@sunshine0077
10 Years

I offended my taurus guy and now he does not speak to me. What should/can I do? What kind actions from me would be most desirable? What kind of attitude makes him come back again?
I have left him some time to be alone, then I apologized (although, I did not explain my feelings in detail - men do not like it?), then I just said "hi" and told some lines about I am doing. But again... no reply. I do know he had feelings for me, although, I do not know whether there are any feelings left, because I offended him.
To be honest, I would really like to get him back, only as friend will also do. 🙂 He is such a wonderful person.
Should I be clingy? Should I be emotional? Should I be calm? What should I do in order to get him back? Only positive feedback is appreciated. 🙂
And how long tauruses usually want to take time off? What would make him smile again? 🙂

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@sunshine0077
10 Years

And should I from time to time still write to him (just to let him know I am here) or should I just let him be? What could make him come back?

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@Sssupes
10 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Have you not read anything in the past 2 days of us picking on the Bulls and their love of food? Bake that dude a nice pie and send him a pic of it. He will come drooling

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@Season
10 Years1,000+ Posts

I'd be honest and apologize for offending him. Tell him you had a major problem that day and you just weren't yourself so you said things you didn't mean. Or make something else up. Usually I don't condone being dishonest, but this is an emergency and you're in a mess. If he sees you're genuinally contrite, he may come around. He'll understand stress as Taureans find stress pretty upsetting themselves. Taurus may not like pesty clingy people, but Taurus guys do like to help women. It makes them feel chivalrous and masculine.

I wish you luck. Let us know what happens.

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@sunshine0077
10 Years

Thank you for the feedback! The problem this time is, that I said it two times - one time he overlooked it, second time he did not.
The problem I have is, I am insecure, I was afraid - that omg, this is really happening - He really likes me, but maybe he thinks that I just played with him, which I did not do.
How could i prove him, that I will not do that again.
He is really smart person and values intelligence and mature behaviour very much.

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@sunshine0077
10 Years

And also one more thing - should I just let him be for a while or should I try to make contact on a regular basis (yes, I know I should not do that too much - there is always a time when I just have to say - I give up), but I was wondering maybe if I give him too much time (i do not contact him for a long time) - can he think that I only contact him when I get bored? i really do not want him to have that impression.

And secondly - do they like more big apologizes or do I just try to be more upbeat and talk about regular things (you know, more like forgetting we had an argument and try to move on with our relationship)?

I do know, I ask silly questions but I really want to make things right!