Lurverlurver
@Lurverlurver
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Taurus reactions!
They will go away. No mess, no drama.
Yeah they'll go away.
I go away even when I haven't been told to go away...because I'm too hurt to start in touch usually.
I go away even when I haven't been told to go away...because I'm too hurt to start in touch usually.
Thanks, I actually feel better now. I do have very strong feelings for him, but u know there is a point where u have to move on cos it's for the best.
Having no contact will make this so much easier for me
Having no contact will make this so much easier for me
Please write some more then? Lol
Ok, if I am prepared I can deal with it! By that point I will be in a much stronger place so can deal with
How long do I have to prepare myself? A couple of months? A couple of weeks?
Ok, if I am prepared I can deal with it! By that point I will be in a much stronger place so can deal with
How long do I have to prepare myself? A couple of months? A couple of weeks?
Maybe I haven't explained myself clearly enough? He told me he loved me and then we made out-the other night
He texted me offering an uncommitted relationship, and I said that's not what I wanted in my future. I would be happy to take it slow but not years and years like he was suggesting. He went all cold and moody and no matter how i tried to talk to him the guy who was talking the night before had gone and this detachable man was left.....again....and said he would contact me whenever
A that point I felt I just couldn't take anymore. I have tried and tried and tried as I love this man like I have loved no other. But his moods and coldness reduce me to a shivering wreck where I am unable to cope. Where I question everything and I just can't take no more. To the point where I have lost myself.
So I took the most hardest decision of my life and made a choice that I couldn't go through all this pain anymore-and ended it.
But with it being so hard and the love I have for him I just need to pick myself up and everytime I see or hear off him I breakdown
So.....I just wanted to ask the question, as this is hard enough as it is
He texted me offering an uncommitted relationship, and I said that's not what I wanted in my future. I would be happy to take it slow but not years and years like he was suggesting. He went all cold and moody and no matter how i tried to talk to him the guy who was talking the night before had gone and this detachable man was left.....again....and said he would contact me whenever
A that point I felt I just couldn't take anymore. I have tried and tried and tried as I love this man like I have loved no other. But his moods and coldness reduce me to a shivering wreck where I am unable to cope. Where I question everything and I just can't take no more. To the point where I have lost myself.
So I took the most hardest decision of my life and made a choice that I couldn't go through all this pain anymore-and ended it.
But with it being so hard and the love I have for him I just need to pick myself up and everytime I see or hear off him I breakdown
So.....I just wanted to ask the question, as this is hard enough as it is
Sounds like you've made the right decision to move on. He loves you enough to do it the way he wants, with no respect for your needs/wants. When someone treats you like an option, help them narrow their choices by removing yourself from the equation. This may help him miss you. Let him go for now. Time will help your hurting. Distract yourself with other activities.
The Taurus I was with didn't go away. He actually kept calling and texting. Then I tried the mean approach. He would give me a few days and ask if I was still mad. He was more persistent after I dissolved the relationship.
Maybe because he was a late May Taurus
Maybe because he was a late May Taurus
Hi Lurverlurver,
Mine was acting the same way you describe your man. My taurus and I met last sunday. as He invited
me to come up and have lunch together to his unit. I brought some presents for him as I was the caused
of our break up. As we discussed over matters... there are several time he came across of not wanting
me anymore other than friend. I quickly say my point right away telling him. I am fine with that.
then he followed it like....a lot of suggestions. Bottom line: He twist into other thing as OPEN
Relationship...as much as I respect him I told him directly.. I don't wanna be alone. if I can find a
man now to marry me then I will do it. and I fought hardly with all our discussion. He was afraid of
me. lol. I am dominant type of woman. He wanted to see me again next week....
I hope it all works out for u!
Personally for me, I am done. He wants it his way or the high way and I have been in such a turmoil with him I am completely over with whatever it was we had. My feelings are still there on a huge scale but I know I can find someone who will treat me so much better than he did. I do deserve much more.
I hope his feelings stay the same and he doesn't mess u around this week.
Bloody hell I never realised taurus were so.......emotionally draining?! Lol
I am sure he will leave me alone, I have made my peace and got my closure and it was nice. Nothing nasty and I wished him all the best in his life. As sure as hell he going to need it! Pmsl!
I just want to stay strong in case he takes me by surprise and starts to contact me. There is a possibility in the future we will see each other as we have friends and some family in common. But by then hopefully it will all be history!
Keep me updated with u and your taurus - I wish u luck! X
Personally for me, I am done. He wants it his way or the high way and I have been in such a turmoil with him I am completely over with whatever it was we had. My feelings are still there on a huge scale but I know I can find someone who will treat me so much better than he did. I do deserve much more.
I hope his feelings stay the same and he doesn't mess u around this week.
Bloody hell I never realised taurus were so.......emotionally draining?! Lol
I am sure he will leave me alone, I have made my peace and got my closure and it was nice. Nothing nasty and I wished him all the best in his life. As sure as hell he going to need it! Pmsl!
I just want to stay strong in case he takes me by surprise and starts to contact me. There is a possibility in the future we will see each other as we have friends and some family in common. But by then hopefully it will all be history!
Keep me updated with u and your taurus - I wish u luck! X
Posted by Lurverlurver
Maybe I haven't explained myself clearly enough? He told me he loved me and then we made out-the other night
He texted me offering an uncommitted relationship, and I said that's not what I wanted in my future. I would be happy to take it slow but not years and years like he was suggesting. He went all cold and moody and no matter how i tried to talk to him the guy who was talking the night before had gone and this detachable man was left.....again....and said he would contact me whenever
A that point I felt I just couldn't take anymore. I have tried and tried and tried as I love this man like I have loved no other. But his moods and coldness reduce me to a shivering wreck where I am unable to cope. Where I question everything and I just can't take no more. To the point where I have lost myself.
So I took the most hardest decision of my life and made a choice that I couldn't go through all this pain anymore-and ended it.
But with it being so hard and the love I have for him I just need to pick myself up and everytime I see or hear off him I breakdown
So.....I just wanted to ask the question, as this is hard enough as it is
Good for you that you were strong enough to make a decision for yourself. All jokes aside there is only so long a person can be patient and I don't mean rushing someone fast but when you're talking about years, that is crazy. I gave up on my Taurus over he weekend also. I had to do some soul searching and felt that I need to keep my options open. Keep us posted on how you're doing!
Aww I am sorry to hear you gave up on your taurus too.
If you experienced anything like the pain I did, you have probably made the right decision 😢
But like you said, it's taken me a while but I have seen the light and now I have decided to move on I feel so much better in myself. I know I have been true to myself and given everything I possibly could.
Like the song says whatever doesn't kill you, makes you stronger and I am stronger now, mentally and emotionally.
I will keep you all posted, everyone in the taurus forum are lovely and have been so supportive!
Keep me updated how your doing too, you will find your inner strength to deal with your situation, whichever way that may be :-)
If you experienced anything like the pain I did, you have probably made the right decision 😢
But like you said, it's taken me a while but I have seen the light and now I have decided to move on I feel so much better in myself. I know I have been true to myself and given everything I possibly could.
Like the song says whatever doesn't kill you, makes you stronger and I am stronger now, mentally and emotionally.
I will keep you all posted, everyone in the taurus forum are lovely and have been so supportive!
Keep me updated how your doing too, you will find your inner strength to deal with your situation, whichever way that may be :-)
Posted by Lurverlurver
Aww I am sorry to hear you gave up on your taurus too.
If you experienced anything like the pain I did, you have probably made the right decision 😢
But like you said, it's taken me a while but I have seen the light and now I have decided to move on I feel so much better in myself. I know I have been true to myself and given everything I possibly could.
Like the song says whatever doesn't kill you, makes you stronger and I am stronger now, mentally and emotionally.
I will keep you all posted, everyone in the taurus forum are lovely and have been so supportive!
Keep me updated how your doing too, you will find your inner strength to deal with your situation, whichever way that may be :-)
Thank you! You are right about what doesn't kill you does make you stronger. I love Taurus people, no doubt. My best of 21 yrs is a Taurus. I just realized I can't do it. I'm in my early 40's and I've been through the back and forth; chasing boys/young men when I was in my teens, 20's and a little in my 30's and it has gotten me nowhere. I feel I'm too old now and passed all of the back and forth and very long periods of waiting by yourself left in limbo. I will get stronger each day and if he comes back I will always be nice but I will mentally have him in the friend zone.
Posted by IamawineloverPosted by Lurverlurver
Maybe I haven't explained myself clearly enough? He told me he loved me and then we made out-the other night
He texted me offering an uncommitted relationship, and I said that's not what I wanted in my future. I would be happy to take it slow but not years and years like he was suggesting. He went all cold and moody and no matter how i tried to talk to him the guy who was talking the night before had gone and this detachable man was left.....again....and said he would contact me whenever
A that point I felt I just couldn't take anymore. I have tried and tried and tried as I love this man like I have loved no other. But his moods and coldness reduce me to a shivering wreck where I am unable to cope. Where I question everything and I just can't take no more. To the point where I have lost myself.
So I took the most hardest decision of my life and made a choice that I couldn't go through all this pain anymore-and ended it.
But with it being so hard and the love I have for him I just need to pick myself up and everytime I see or hear off him I breakdown
So.....I just wanted to ask the question, as this is hard enough as it is
Good for you that you were strong enough to make a decision for yourself. All jokes aside there is only so long a person can be patient and I don't mean rushing someone fast but when you're talking about years, that is crazy. I gave up on my Taurus over he weekend also. I had to do some soul searching and felt that I need to keep my options open. Keep us posted on how you're doing!click to expand
' and then he tries to ring me?! ARGH..............'
Posted by LurverlurverPosted by IamawineloverPosted by Lurverlurver
Maybe I haven't explained myself clearly enough? He told me he loved me and then we made out-the other night
He texted me offering an uncommitted relationship, and I said that's not what I wanted in my future. I would be happy to take it slow but not years and years like he was suggesting. He went all cold and moody and no matter how i tried to talk to him the guy who was talking the night before had gone and this detachable man was left.....again....and said he would contact me whenever
A that point I felt I just couldn't take anymore. I have tried and tried and tried as I love this man like I have loved no other. But his moods and coldness reduce me to a shivering wreck where I am unable to cope. Where I question everything and I just can't take no more. To the point where I have lost myself.
So I took the most hardest decision of my life and made a choice that I couldn't go through all this pain anymore-and ended it.
But with it being so hard and the love I have for him I just need to pick myself up and everytime I see or hear off him I breakdown
So.....I just wanted to ask the question, as this is hard enough as it is
Good for you that you were strong enough to make a decision for yourself. All jokes aside there is only so long a person can be patient and I don't mean rushing someone fast but when you're talking about years, that is crazy. I gave up on my Taurus over he weekend also. I had to do some soul searching and felt that I need to keep my options open. Keep us posted on how you're doing!
' and then he tries to ring me?! ARGH..............'click to expand
Just when you give up. LOL, they will get you every time. So now that you have told him how you felt, this is when he calls? That's what I am talking about. You have to almost be close to the edge and then that's when it dawn on them. That's too much for me.
Can you believe it? He pushes me to the edge, the brink and then he calls? Wtf is that all about mr taurus? Really?
Well like you iamawinelover that's just too much to deal with!
I missed the call, decided not to ring back, like I said I am done.
I am also an aries so when I decide something that's usually it, so unless he arrives here with flowers begging at my door I'm done!
I ended it on really good yes wishing him well and don't wish him any harm, but I am outta here! LOL!
Well like you iamawinelover that's just too much to deal with!
I missed the call, decided not to ring back, like I said I am done.
I am also an aries so when I decide something that's usually it, so unless he arrives here with flowers begging at my door I'm done!
I ended it on really good yes wishing him well and don't wish him any harm, but I am outta here! LOL!
Posted by Lurverlurver
Can you believe it? He pushes me to the edge, the brink and then he calls? Wtf is that all about mr taurus? Really?
Well like you iamawinelover that's just too much to deal with!
I missed the call, decided not to ring back, like I said I am done.
I am also an aries so when I decide something that's usually it, so unless he arrives here with flowers begging at my door I'm done!
I ended it on really good yes wishing him well and don't wish him any harm, but I am outta here! LOL!
LOL, I hear you gf! Do you! Life is too short. I've heard about Aries women and once you make up your mind. I've tried to contact mine sporadically for several weeks and giving him that space but I realize that the longer the space, the more my feelings are starting to change. Can't keep holding on to false hope while days turn into weeks into months before you speak again. So I'm done! No need for me to keep trying. I'm not mad at all, I just know the kind of behavioral patterns that I would like in a man. This isn't it.
LOL, I hear you gf! Do you! Life is too short. I've heard about Aries women and once you make up your mind. I've tried to contact mine sporadically for several weeks and giving him that space but I realize that the longer the space, the more my feelings are starting to change. Can't keep holding on to false hope while days turn into weeks into months before you speak again. So I'm done! No need for me to keep trying. I'm not mad at all, I just know the kind of behavioral patterns that I would like in a man. This isn't it.
It's so hard, you give them space, but that space is frustrating as they not communicating while there in there own little bubble!
I hear you too, and it will be hard but stick with it gf! If its toxic, and it's driving you up the wall just like mine was your doing the right thing. Just be prepared for them to then chase you! Omg you may have to keep me strong lol!
Lurverlurver,
Saturn retrogade scorpio meaning when you quit you are doom when you pursue and fight meaning it will
bloom soon.
By the way, My taurus wanted me to move in with him next week. this week we will spend together.
Last sunday as I've said. It was an argument again but I fought hardly and state my intentions.
clear and loud. Then he can't handle me and told me he is afraid of me. lol. I said I am not a violent
woman just give me the exact answer to my resolve and I will let you go... which he define me as
EXTREME. I said yes I am extreme. If it dropping my things then drop it and leave. I don't need extra
negative emotional pressures... and the funny thing is that, He surrendered to me...
which is I grab... so we can make up again and live harmoniously.
In your case, for now, Do not contact him.... just leave it all even if it is painful.
I did that to this taurus... He never heard anything from me after throwing me out to his apartment.
Then he emailed. lol... which is a good sign as he told me before I left that day to NOT CONTACTING
HIM... which is scorpio will respect for that.
Taurus can't stand being ignored. So use the dosage he give you...
Keep up and be strong.
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