DMV
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taurus stormed out of my house
They can be rather bull-headed, can't they?
Taurus sun, the rest is aries. Dont know the moon sign
And I know ppl are going to say, just keep ignoring him but LOOK
when someone calls and texts you for 5 years eventually you start feeling bad and you do eventually pick up the phone. Hes a promoter, so I see him often.
This was the second time he came over and he was rine and understood the boundaries. I keep telling him that friends dont talk about sex, they dont have intimate conversations. He doesn't see anything wrong.
when someone calls and texts you for 5 years eventually you start feeling bad and you do eventually pick up the phone. Hes a promoter, so I see him often.
This was the second time he came over and he was rine and understood the boundaries. I keep telling him that friends dont talk about sex, they dont have intimate conversations. He doesn't see anything wrong.
He just got really frustrated when I wouldn't reciprocate. But im just tired of always going along with what a man wants. What about my needs.
I already got the length text and I know his pattern is to lick his wounds and then come back again. He will be sweet and nice, make me believe he can do the friend thing and then flip it on me.
I already got the length text and I know his pattern is to lick his wounds and then come back again. He will be sweet and nice, make me believe he can do the friend thing and then flip it on me.
Sometimes you can't be friends with someone after a break up. This friendship has no potential either, it's over.
Posted by Nevermorehe was a one night stand that turned out to be awesome dating experience. A friend hooked him up with me and I like what I saw, the energy and got it on within seconds of meeting eyes.
Unless your sex was a blast for him.
ive just evolved. Ive grown. Im not that much of a freak anymore. Lol. He mentioned that I just trade obsessions and he wishes I would be normal again.
he's right that I do trade obsessions lmao. He mentioned that im too extreme in my feelings. Calls me bi polar. All of which are true. But I like my sense of normalcy now. I know he just misses the good ol days, BUT. He chose another.
Normal was me always in his face, always wanting to sex him. Thats what he wants but that isnt what I want.
Posted by mysteriousTaurusI can do the friend thing with him, but that is it.
Sometimes you can't be friends with someone after a break up. This friendship has no potential either, it's over.
Posted by DMVApparently he can't. Just forget about him.Posted by mysteriousTaurusI can do the friend thing with him, but that is it.
Sometimes you can't be friends with someone after a break up. This friendship has no potential either, it's over.click to expand
Posted by DMVI am not sure I understand...... you did swingers clubs, trading partners and you wonder, why he wants to come back? I am not judging, no way, I am just curious, how you can say: "But he chose another"....
When I told him that I only wanted to be friends and had no intention on sleeping with him.
I been telling him the same shit for at least 5 years. I even ignored him for 2 years.
I told him that friends is the only thing I would ever be interested in. He keeps trying to change my mind with dates and I cant stand it.
I told him to stop trying to have mushy heartfelt conversations with me. He gets pissed off because I dont reciprocate. I told him that he would get mad and upset whenever I say the friend word and that he couldn't handle it but in the end he can't.
We dated like 7 years ago but then he got into another relationship, no biggie, and got married. But still wants to date me. Wth
I mean we had good times. Swinger clubs, trading partners. Sexually and friendship wise, he was really cool.
But he chose another.
lets be honest, there are not a lot of woman who do swingers...... he may miss that
Posted by Pandora101OOO, I see 🙂 you are trolling and I fell for it🙂 good one 🙂Posted by DMVI am not sure I understand...... you did swingers clubs, trading partners and you wonder, why he wants to come back? I am not judging, no way, I am just curious, how you can say: "But he chose another"....
When I told him that I only wanted to be friends and had no intention on sleeping with him.
I been telling him the same shit for at least 5 years. I even ignored him for 2 years.
I told him that friends is the only thing I would ever be interested in. He keeps trying to change my mind with dates and I cant stand it.
I told him to stop trying to have mushy heartfelt conversations with me. He gets pissed off because I dont reciprocate. I told him that he would get mad and upset whenever I say the friend word and that he couldn't handle it but in the end he can't.
We dated like 7 years ago but then he got into another relationship, no biggie, and got married. But still wants to date me. Wth
I mean we had good times. Swinger clubs, trading partners. Sexually and friendship wise, he was really cool.
But he chose another.
lets be honest, there are not a lot of woman who do swingers...... he may miss thatclick to expand
If I learned anything during this year, it's that guys who like you romantically and/or sexually accepting "friendship" after you've had something going on (even if it was just a kiss) but you ultimately decide to turn them down is a very rare scenario. And even if they do, there's a good chance that they're going to just keep and keep trying to have something with you. Is it too hurtful to hang out with someone who doesn't return their feelings or doesn't feel any physical attraction towards them, is it their pride and ego reacting to the rejection, I don't know. Could be just my experience, but I don't think so. Actually, I can imagine the same thing happening the other way around. With a man rejecting a woman after having something with her, I mean. That's just not as usual of a scenario. But no one is a fan of someone they like getting their hopes up just to let them down in the end.
DMV,
What positive affect does this person have on your life?
What positive affect does this person have on your life?
Posted by Pandora101yep we did all thise things and more. However, he married someone totally opposite of me, but someone who isnt sexually fulfilling him.Posted by DMVI am not sure I understand...... you did swingers clubs, trading partners and you wonder, why he wants to come back? I am not judging, no way, I am just curious, how you can say: "But he chose another"....
When I told him that I only wanted to be friends and had no intention on sleeping with him.
I been telling him the same shit for at least 5 years. I even ignored him for 2 years.
I told him that friends is the only thing I would ever be interested in. He keeps trying to change my mind with dates and I cant stand it.
I told him to stop trying to have mushy heartfelt conversations with me. He gets pissed off because I dont reciprocate. I told him that he would get mad and upset whenever I say the friend word and that he couldn't handle it but in the end he can't.
We dated like 7 years ago but then he got into another relationship, no biggie, and got married. But still wants to date me. Wth
I mean we had good times. Swinger clubs, trading partners. Sexually and friendship wise, he was really cool.
But he chose another.
lets be honest, there are not a lot of woman who do swingers...... he may miss thatclick to expand
Posted by Pandora101no, not a trollPosted by Pandora101OOO, I see 🙂 you are trolling and I fell for it🙂 good one 🙂Posted by DMVI am not sure I understand...... you did swingers clubs, trading partners and you wonder, why he wants to come back? I am not judging, no way, I am just curious, how you can say: "But he chose another"....
When I told him that I only wanted to be friends and had no intention on sleeping with him.
I been telling him the same shit for at least 5 years. I even ignored him for 2 years.
I told him that friends is the only thing I would ever be interested in. He keeps trying to change my mind with dates and I cant stand it.
I told him to stop trying to have mushy heartfelt conversations with me. He gets pissed off because I dont reciprocate. I told him that he would get mad and upset whenever I say the friend word and that he couldn't handle it but in the end he can't.
We dated like 7 years ago but then he got into another relationship, no biggie, and got married. But still wants to date me. Wth
I mean we had good times. Swinger clubs, trading partners. Sexually and friendship wise, he was really cool.
But he chose another.
lets be honest, there are not a lot of woman who do swingers...... he may miss thatclick to expand
Posted by beautifulsoul74He is indeed fun to be around. Good energy.
DMV,
What positive affect does this person have on your life?
Posted by busyeyes88I am actually not friends with everyone. Im pretty selective.
Sags, want to be friends with EVERYONE... That's a sags problem. Don't know how to "amputate "!!!!
Posted by GreyWizHow do you mean? Is this not a place where I can share whats going on with me? No one is forcing you to read any of my threads.
can't someone do something about this woman?
the BLOCK option does wonders.
Posted by busyeyes88Aries dont chase for 5 years. Besides this bull is hitched.Posted by NevermoreI would say it's not really the "taurus" in.him but the Aries placements. Aries like a challenge and a thrill of.the chase!! Maybe the taurus in him can't that the sex he wants and the Aries parts of him are hunting down DMV to have those sexual variations!Posted by Ands2016Only question is.. what made him wanting her for 5 years?! Even though he got rejected a lot from her and being spouted like a brat.. Yet returned again.Posted by DMVthere should be no going back after that.
But he chose another.
Like a obsession thing going on (only a lot of more daring than usual).click to expand
Posted by Theatrumthe shoe has been on the other foot so I know how he feels. That is why im continually turn him down in a respectful but clear way. I tell him all the time to not be misled by me.
If I learned anything during this year, it's that guys who like you romantically and/or sexually accepting "friendship" after you've had something going on (even if it was just a kiss) but you ultimately decide to turn them down is a very rare scenario. And even if they do, there's a good chance that they're going to just keep and keep trying to have something with you. Is it too hurtful to hang out with someone who doesn't return their feelings or doesn't feel any physical attraction towards them, is it their pride and ego reacting to the rejection, I don't know. Could be just my experience, but I don't think so. Actually, I can imagine the same thing happening the other way around. With a man rejecting a woman after having something with her, I mean. That's just not as usual of a scenario. But no one is a fan of someone they like getting their hopes up just to let them down in the end.
Ive been cruel to the men of my past when im over them but imtrying to do better.
Posted by busyeyes88I know he misses the sex but thats not my problem. He doesnt have to get all bent outta shape cause im not hoping on him anymore.Posted by DMVNo disrespect DMV, but because taurus is traditional, he will never consider a woman who he did the sexual things you did with him ie swingers clubs, trading partners etc a woman he would want to marry or consider having a serious relationship with which is why he married someone else. But the majority of taurus if they have a mutable venus like a VIG or a VIP they like a variety of many different kinds of sex even hardcore kinky sex which is hard to find in many relationships. So the taurus is not getting the kind of sex he wants in his relationship which only reminds him of the sex he likes and what he did when he was with you. He misses your sex...Posted by Pandora101yep we did all thise things and more. However, he married someone totally opposite of me, but someone who isnt sexually fulfilling him.Posted by DMVI am not sure I understand...... you did swingers clubs, trading partners and you wonder, why he wants to come back? I am not judging, no way, I am just curious, how you can say: "But he chose another"....
When I told him that I only wanted to be friends and had no intention on sleeping with him.
I been telling him the same shit for at least 5 years. I even ignored him for 2 years.
I told him that friends is the only thing I would ever be interested in. He keeps trying to change my mind with dates and I cant stand it.
I told him to stop trying to have mushy heartfelt conversations with me. He gets pissed off because I dont reciprocate. I told him that he would get mad and upset whenever I say the friend word and that he couldn't handle it but in the end he can't.
We dated like 7 years ago but then he got into another relationship, no biggie, and got married. But still wants to date me. Wth
I mean we had good times. Swinger clubs, trading partners. Sexually and friendship wise, he was really cool.
But he chose another.
lets be honest, there are not a lot of woman who do swingers...... he may miss that
click to expand
if he wanted me, he would have chose me. Since he didnt, oh well. It doesnt hurt my feelings that he married the virgin mary.
I guess i am realizing that he wont ever be able to seperate sex and friendship. I mean im not the only one who we asking for a friendship. He begged me for years wanting to be friends!! Saying its not about the sex, its the 2 way connection blah blah blah.. He was quite the broken record.
I finally believed that he was really just looking for friendship until he flipped out on me cause I was treating him like a friend and not a lover.
I finally believed that he was really just looking for friendship until he flipped out on me cause I was treating him like a friend and not a lover.
Posted by MAGOG92lmao.
Brb
Taurus breaks through bathroom door while OP is showering
Posted by capricornmoonnope way off.
It doesn't hurt your feelings. But you put up a thread about him. You are slightly annoyed that even after playing into his baser fantasies of lust and kinky sex, he still chose the demure type. It bugs you a little no? You really wanted him to marry you, and you denying him sexual affection is payback, not so much out of morals for not cheating with a married man, no?
DMV was quite the party girl before him. I turned him out, O.K.
Posted by Infinite8thanks. This is what I was looking for.
Got cut off^^^^
It sounds like he compartmentalizes his life. Perfect virgin-life wife promising stability: CHECK, DMV promising adventure: CHEEEE... HEY, where are you going?!?!?! YOU belong to me, property doesn't leave me!!! You are pissing me off!!! Stop thinking and just do as I say!!!
How dare you not follow his direction. 😉
Advice for you: He does NOT see you as a friend and never will. He saw you as property fulfilling his selfish need. IF he were REALLY your friend, he would have LISTENED to you. If he doesn't come back and acknowledge your NEEDS... YOU have your answer, and it's up to you to amputate.
Damn that "stop thinking and just do as I say" attitude that he always has toward me. That is exactly what it felt like. All the time.. everything goes smoother until I say no to him.
even when we had an hour long discussion as to why I stopped talking to him. He said he understood but it seems like my NEEDS and what I said went in and out of his ears.
Hes slick 2. He trying to manage my acting, even came by to talk about it and pick up my headshots. All that was just a trick.
Posted by MAGOG92I tell you what, he slammed my front door and I almost got off the couch to give him a piece of my mind but eh I dont run after children.
Salutes to any broken dishes left behind in this altercation
Posted by DMVI get that completely...but look at the big picture. It appears, at least, that the bad is outweighing the good. I understand being friends but that is not what he's looking for. The reason you're asking is that you know at your core that this is wrong.Posted by beautifulsoul74He is indeed fun to be around. Good energy.
DMV,
What positive affect does this person have on your life?
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Not faulting you at all but he needs to direct that energy in what he's trying to get from you towards his wife. That is what comes with his choice in marrying her and you're preventing that from happening by keeping this guy around. This is not one of those situations where you "hope he gets it" because obviously he's not. You're only giving him hope and validating(in his mind) his actions by maintaining the friendship...that's reality and the lesson for you.
Posted by beautifulsoul74I repeat, HE was the one looking for friendship. I was swell.Posted by DMVI get that completely...but look at the big picture. It appears, at least, that the bad is outweighing the good. I understand being friends but that is not what he's looking for. The reason you're asking is that you know at your core that this is wrong.Posted by beautifulsoul74He is indeed fun to be around. Good energy.
DMV,
What positive affect does this person have on your life?
Not faulting you at all but he needs to direct that energy in what he's trying to get from you towards his wife. That is what comes with his choice in marrying her and you're preventing that from happening by keeping this guy around. This is not one of those situations where you "hope he gets it" because obviously he's not. You're only giving him hope and validating(in his mind) his actions by maintaining the friendship...that's reality and the lesson for you.click to expand
I just know now that he had other motives. Like the other poster said, him wanting to be friends had zero to do wigh anything. Sex is and will be the only thing he is after.
So now that I know the truth about what he wants, he cant use any other past excuse as a reason for us to keep talking.
in his text he said that he did appreciate me trying to be his friend again. But hes dense cause I told him that it was obvious we cant be friends because he keeps trying to screw me lol. But he DID acknowledge that he cant seperate the 2 given the history.
I just know all his epiphanies will be a distant memory in a few days when he starts right back up again
in his text he said that he did appreciate me trying to be his friend again. But hes dense cause I told him that it was obvious we cant be friends because he keeps trying to screw me lol. But he DID acknowledge that he cant seperate the 2 given the history.
I just know all his epiphanies will be a distant memory in a few days when he starts right back up again
(golf clap)...... good read as always DMV🙂
@scorpx3:
Understood. I speak from actual experience as well with an ex Pisces years back. I do get that she has little to do with his behavior. I was speaking from a standpoint of her controlling her environment...protecting herself and what you expressed is absolutely correct.
I'm not at all blaming her for his actions and what I meant by "it isn't right" is him pursuing something with her outside of friendship...just to clarify. In these situations, it's always best to simply end things and back away for the same reason as trying to make it work if things were different...out of love and respect not only for ones self but for everyone involved even though they may not see it or refuse to open their eyes.
Simply, he needs to be left free to figure it out because she's told him multiple times how she feels and most likely he's not gonna change. At this point, for all involved, it's about peace of mind.
Understood. I speak from actual experience as well with an ex Pisces years back. I do get that she has little to do with his behavior. I was speaking from a standpoint of her controlling her environment...protecting herself and what you expressed is absolutely correct.
I'm not at all blaming her for his actions and what I meant by "it isn't right" is him pursuing something with her outside of friendship...just to clarify. In these situations, it's always best to simply end things and back away for the same reason as trying to make it work if things were different...out of love and respect not only for ones self but for everyone involved even though they may not see it or refuse to open their eyes.
Simply, he needs to be left free to figure it out because she's told him multiple times how she feels and most likely he's not gonna change. At this point, for all involved, it's about peace of mind.
Why couldn't i get one of those disappearing taurus men??
He says fuck you, slams my door, but wants to take me out to dinner.
Im on holiday and he comes by my house and wants to know where i am.
He says fuck you, slams my door, but wants to take me out to dinner.
Im on holiday and he comes by my house and wants to know where i am.
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I been telling him the same shit for at least 5 years. I even ignored him for 2 years.
I told him that friends is the only thing I would ever be interested in. He keeps trying to change my mind with dates and I cant stand it.
I told him to stop trying to have mushy heartfelt conversations with me. He gets pissed off because I dont reciprocate. I told him that he would get mad and upset whenever I say the friend word and that he couldn't handle it but in the end he can't.
We dated like 7 years ago but then he got into another relationship, no biggie, and got married. But still wants to date me. Wth
I mean we had good times. Swinger clubs, trading partners. Sexually and friendship wise, he was really cool.
But he chose another.