@Goldfish
11 Years
When things get tough for Taurus at work....
How Taurus Handles Work Stress and Relationship Challenges
Taurus individuals often become more withdrawn and focused on stability during stressful work situations. They may need time to process emotions and prefer consistent reassurance from loved ones. Understanding their need for space while maintaining gentle communication can help manage both work difficulties and relationship concerns.
you're being needy again. leave him to get on with it. they can be single focused sometimes. he'll come back when he has everything under control again.
The thing is the relationship is not well stabilished due to the short time we know each other and the distance. Though he is being eager to call it a BF&GF relationship and spoke about spending the winter holidays together I'm now glad I decided to take things kind of slow....which in not really my nature but just wanted to protect my heart. Maybe my intuitive was right.
Thinking about making a list with all the "cons" and leave it at ready in case I need it. 😢
Also regardless the star sign, it is always a good idea to take a break and wait and see where he really stands.
If I always initiate I will never know.
i think there are enough signs at this stage to indicate you are not compatible. you should have someone nearby who can be a constant presence in your life. you should have someone who is able to put you at the centre of their world for the most part. taurus are not like that.
they want a partner who is fairly independent. they are not the most expressive, they won't shower you with romantic prose and constant streams of their emotions and feelings towards you. they need someone who is consistent themselves and fairly self sufficent. if you need constant propping up and reassurance, they are not your people.
the distance makes it doubly hard. i think you are looking for him to be something that he is not and given their fixed nature, is unlikely to become.
You are probably right Jeane.
I was doing so well before meeting him, was single for 1 whole year, no dates, no crushes, no romance, just happy minding my own business.
Need to get back to that blissful state of mind, everything was so much simpler.
He just called me…everything ok apparently!
Posted by Goldfish
He just called me…everything ok apparently!
good. hopefully this will reassure you going forward.
Just took "The 5 Love languages" test and mine is Physical Touch. This LDR is really going to be tough for me..
http://www.5lovelanguages.com
You sound like you are trying to convince yourself that it isn't going to work. If it's that bad for you, then find someone who fits your needs. Looking at things from a negative/non-hopeful view point can affect how you act in your relationship and determine the outcome. If you're busy convincing yourself that maybe it won't work out, you'll let go a lot easier whenever the opportunity arises. That's my opinion, anyway.
I don't see this working out.
Posted by Scenic
You sound like you are trying to convince yourself that it isn't going to work. If it's that bad for you, then find someone who fits your needs. Looking at things from a negative/non-hopeful view point can affect how you act in your relationship and determine the outcome. If you're busy convincing yourself that maybe it won't work out, you'll let go a lot easier whenever the opportunity arises. That's my opinion, anyway.I don't see this working out.
gf, i would recomend looking over your previous threads to spend some time on introspection. it might help you get a better view of things.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/when-the-bull-gets-too-busy-looong-5714867/
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/no-sensuality-5808045/
and of course, this thread as well.
Posted by Scenic
You sound like you are trying to convince yourself that it isn't going to work. If it's that bad for you, then find someone who fits your needs. Looking at things from a negative/non-hopeful view point can affect how you act in your relationship and determine the outcome. If you're busy convincing yourself that maybe it won't work out, you'll let go a lot easier whenever the opportunity arises. That's my opinion, anyway.I don't see this working out.
gf, i would recomend looking over your previous threads to spend some time on introspection. it might help you get a better view of things.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/when-the-bull-gets-too-busy-looong-5714867/
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/no-sensuality-5808045/
and of course, this thread as well.
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Was this meant for OP?
Posted by Scenic
You sound like you are trying to convince yourself that it isn't going to work. If it's that bad for you, then find someone who fits your needs. Looking at things from a negative/non-hopeful view point can affect how you act in your relationship and determine the outcome. If you're busy convincing yourself that maybe it won't work out, you'll let go a lot easier whenever the opportunity arises. That's my opinion, anyway.I don't see this working out.
gf, i would recomend looking over your previous threads to spend some time on introspection. it might help you get a better view of things.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/when-the-bull-gets-too-busy-looong-5714867/
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/no-sensuality-5808045/
and of course, this thread as well.
Was this meant for OP?
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oh yes! sorry :/
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So due to problems outside his control, the Bull's business plan has been messed up and he will have to make changes before even launching it.
I know it must be very stressful and disappointing and he is probably using up all his energy with work. We have a LDR so I'm not asking much, I'm not even asking for skype calls, only one little message a day indicating he still have some interest for me left? Or maybe he doesn't........
He is sweet and quick to answer when I initiated but if I don't we don't talk....
But I don't want to feel I'm the only one pursuing the romance and if he keeps being cold I'm afraid I will get insecure and withdraw....it will be hard to get things back to normal once he is out of the cave.
Am I being too sensitive—