y do you guys randomly ignore people your dealing with? You could think about that person all day everyday & they could contact you but yet you still ignore them. What is the purpose??
Tauruses!!!!!
Posted by MagicPowas100% accurate it's scary.
Tauruses are stubborn and they like to be chased and begged before they cooperate. Then again random ignoring doesn't necessarily mean they are in this mood for reasons that involve you. They could be taking a hiatus from the day to day of life or reflecting. Or they don't like you and want you to take the hint to stay away.
1) I love to be chased and have people love me while I rarely show interest in them.
2) if we are ignoring you we either are busy, do not care about u at all, or we just LOVE u chasing us 😄
Posted by PV&Jellay
Never chase em.
I still love and adore Pisces even doe u don't like us *throwing mad love at you*
Posted by PV&JellayWhy?
Never chase em.
Posted by PV&JellayWhy 😢
Never chase em.
Posted by PV&JellayLesbian Seagulls!?Posted by mysteriousTaurusNot me. I love receiving mad love. 😛Posted by PV&Jellay
Never chase em.
I still love and adore Pisces even doe u don't like us *throwing mad love at you*click to expand
Posted by PV&Jellay+10000000 That is so truePosted by HoneyD1They don't appreciate what they don't work for.Posted by PV&JellayWhy?
Never chase em.click to expand
we love being chased... no way around it,, we want attention but don't want to outright demand it, so we passive aggressively ignore until we get what we want lol.
Posted by RoseAngelThis ^^^^
I dont know how to proceed or if I should proceed.
I call this the assessment period.
For me it's not a wanting of attention it's more like a wanting of affection instead and were not gonna ask someone for affection so we just go silent.
Posted by LentoBull91yep
For me it's not a wanting of attention it's more like a wanting of affection instead and were not gonna ask someone for affection so we just go silent.
Posted by LentoBull91This....
For me it's not a wanting of attention it's more like a wanting of affection instead and were not gonna ask someone for affection so we just go silent.
Posted by b3kk_rAnd this ^^^
we we passive aggressively ignore until we get what we want lol.click to expand
All this is part of the assessment period... also to add
3. Fact Checking (Consistencies vs Inconsistencies)
4. Are there any other issues (that have nothing to do with the other person) that might be a deterrent to resume with a relationship. (personal family issues, money issues, etc.)
true true, i may have worded it incorrectly, not attention but affection or both.. when i like someone i like to observe them, analyze interactions that they have and compare them, sometimes i might give a cold shoulder just to see if the person notices because if they notice then that indicates that they care.
or may care!
@OP-
There will be more Taurus men to pipe in and offer their point of view on chasing...
You know...
Taurus men in real life.
But if you want a man who is probably more aggressive, try an Aries or an Aries dominant, they're much more different than Tauruses.
They react first, and think later.
A cautious man is a' thinking' man.
There will be more Taurus men to pipe in and offer their point of view on chasing...
You know...
Taurus men in real life.
But if you want a man who is probably more aggressive, try an Aries or an Aries dominant, they're much more different than Tauruses.
They react first, and think later.
A cautious man is a' thinking' man.
OP-
This was posted in one of your threads...
I prefer Virgos for that EXACT same reason.
This was posted in one of your threads...
Posted by LentoBull91I think this is the BEST response!
Yeah that's right girls go after guys who chase women that's real smart wth makes you think that he will stop chasing girls when he has hooked you? And girls wonder why there bf's cheat it's plain and simple their chasers they will chase anything that has two legs that catches their attention. When the smart girls will hook a non skirt chaser who won't chase or even look twice at females or even give them the time of day because all he wants/needs is you and he knows this which will make him more passive to other girls advances. Continue going after chasers and see how long they go before they chase the next meal.
I prefer Virgos for that EXACT same reason.
^^^You see OP^^^
I told you that the Taurus men will soon pipe in to offer their views on chasing.
*LMAO!*
I told you that the Taurus men will soon pipe in to offer their views on chasing.
*LMAO!*
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I posted this in the other thread...
So I agree with your statement wholeheartedly.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by jeaneYour comment was very informative.
cut me and i bleed libra TB 🙂
apologies that earlier message wasn't directed to you specifically TB. i think you and i posted at the same time. the "but" was in response to Impulsv saying she is never comfortable unless the man initiates.
A woman does have a great deal of power in certain situations.
Being Venusian does have its rewards.
I had to learn to master this when dealing with Virgos (apparently Tauruses are not the only signs in the 'caution' department, so are Cappies and Virgos)...LOL
Being proactive in reeling them in can be both challenging and rewarding at the same time.
Flirting, and eye contact can be a form of chasing...
(although I hated chasing).
The men are truly worth it!
I have dated other signs in the past when I was younger, of course for the fun and excitement and the way I was chased. I felt loved and desired, but this was just an illusion....a smokescreen. Reality set it in, I came off my 'high', and they exposed their real intentions, which was never genuine. A real man doesn't chase 'skirts' for the ego boost, a real man uses caution when he seeks out a potential partner for longevity, and can take or leave the undesirables.
I had to learn this lesson the hard way.click to expand
What ever you say dumb c**t
If I ignore you its most likely because
A) Not interested/Taken but enjoying the attention/And as of lately you're obviously jailbait and your persistant flirting is making me uncomfortable.
B) Busy inside my own head
C) You've pissed me off and I'm working on cutting you out of my life
A) Not interested/Taken but enjoying the attention/And as of lately you're obviously jailbait and your persistant flirting is making me uncomfortable.
B) Busy inside my own head
C) You've pissed me off and I'm working on cutting you out of my life
Posted by Rachelannthepiscesi would try and turn down the neediness dial.
What about a Taurus guy that doesn't necessarily "ignore" you, but will go like a day or two all over you and the chemistry is amazing and the conversation is absolutely amazing and then he won't speak to you for a few days...unless you initiate the contact? See that's my problem with my Taurus. I feel desperate whenever I message a guy first, but he rarely initiates contact. He will sometimes but it's definately me most of the time and it annoys me so badly. But I don't want to be a drama queen and tell him this and start something over something minute. But sometimes I seriously just wanna say "why haven't you said anything to me in a few days!?"
are you in a relationship with this guy?
Posted by Rachelannthepiscesi'm trolling you because by your own admission, i called you desperate?Posted by jeaneNeediness? Lol...are you trolling me? How am I needy when I'm not running after him? I just said I don't want to because I don't want to seem desperate. Sounds like the opposite of needy to me...see this is why I don't post in the Taurus group. There's always rude people on here that will assume things too quickly before they even know the whole story. How is judging someone helping them? Geeze...I should stay in the water threads...Posted by Rachelannthepiscesi would try and turn down the neediness dial.
What about a Taurus guy that doesn't necessarily "ignore" you, but will go like a day or two all over you and the chemistry is amazing and the conversation is absolutely amazing and then he won't speak to you for a few days...unless you initiate the contact? See that's my problem with my Taurus. I feel desperate whenever I message a guy first, but he rarely initiates contact. He will sometimes but it's definately me most of the time and it annoys me so badly. But I don't want to be a drama queen and tell him this and start something over something minute. But sometimes I seriously just wanna say "why haven't you said anything to me in a few days!?"
are you in a relationship with this guy?click to expand
fly off the handle much?
a) i'm not trolling you. i don't think i have ever responded to you.
b) i feel needy at times. i suspect a lot of people do. you said you feel desperate to hear from him. two days is not a lot of time not to hear from someone if you are not in relationship, especially when that person is a taurus.
c) my advice would be to calm down. make yourself busy with other people and other things and then you won't be so focused on him and the time periods when you are not speaking to one another.
ok? no need to be defensive. i suspect a lot of people (myself included) have been where you are. and i'm not a taurus. if you enter with a certain mindset that is all you are going to find.
b) i feel needy at times. i suspect a lot of people do. you said you feel desperate to hear from him. two days is not a lot of time not to hear from someone if you are not in relationship, especially when that person is a taurus.
c) my advice would be to calm down. make yourself busy with other people and other things and then you won't be so focused on him and the time periods when you are not speaking to one another.
ok? no need to be defensive. i suspect a lot of people (myself included) have been where you are. and i'm not a taurus. if you enter with a certain mindset that is all you are going to find.
The entire concept of 'real' masculinity is so misconstrued. Perhaps, the influence of pop culture has many individuals living in a delusional fantasy of knight and shining armors, princesses and castles. No different from what is portrayed in music (especially in 'some' rap music), the 'aggressor' seen as masculine, is adorned in jewels, a nice house, a nice car, hand on his crotch, confident, assertive, promising the woman a life of security and luxury.
This is not real life.
A result of this fantasy is a warrant for outstanding child support, infidelity, no accountability, single parent households, irresponsibility, poverty, a lack of education, a lack of respect...and the list goes on.
Keep in mind, this is everything that a Taurus man stands AGAINST!
A Taurus man will advocate moral responsibility, integrity, discipline, accountability, values and family structure.
This is the real definition of a real man. Caution doesn't equate to effeminate. It equates to the wrong decision can have a lifelong impact on the outcomes for the future...so to assume otherwise is absurd.
As a Taurus woman, I would have to admit, I love being chased. I dislike chasing. But some men are worth it. Earth sign men are definitely worth it!
To be honest, I would take a cautious, selective man over a thirsty man any day.
As LentoBull asserted previously, a chase is simply just a chase. Eventually it loses it's spark, and it's on to the next. There is nothing special about someone who chases. I have a Venus in Aries, so I can relate.
This is not real life.
A result of this fantasy is a warrant for outstanding child support, infidelity, no accountability, single parent households, irresponsibility, poverty, a lack of education, a lack of respect...and the list goes on.
Keep in mind, this is everything that a Taurus man stands AGAINST!
A Taurus man will advocate moral responsibility, integrity, discipline, accountability, values and family structure.
This is the real definition of a real man. Caution doesn't equate to effeminate. It equates to the wrong decision can have a lifelong impact on the outcomes for the future...so to assume otherwise is absurd.
As a Taurus woman, I would have to admit, I love being chased. I dislike chasing. But some men are worth it. Earth sign men are definitely worth it!
To be honest, I would take a cautious, selective man over a thirsty man any day.
As LentoBull asserted previously, a chase is simply just a chase. Eventually it loses it's spark, and it's on to the next. There is nothing special about someone who chases. I have a Venus in Aries, so I can relate.
Also wanted to add...
Hot air is usually blown from the impatient, exasperated types.
Often stemming from their own personal experiences.
I have read plenty of obsessive (continuous, non-stop) threads on the Virgo Board.
The term 'effeminate' has been used to describe them, too. (LMAO)...
When in reality, people often ridicule or throw tantrums for individuals they can't have.
There was a Taurus who made obsessive visits to the Virgo board, creating non-stop threads...of course making my eyes bleed at her hypocrisy....and laughing at her sudden shift from knight-whiting water signs to obsessing over a slow-moving Virgo.
But as I stated earlier, hot air is blown for the impatient, exasperated types.
*People think you forget.*
Hot air is usually blown from the impatient, exasperated types.
Often stemming from their own personal experiences.
I have read plenty of obsessive (continuous, non-stop) threads on the Virgo Board.
The term 'effeminate' has been used to describe them, too. (LMAO)...
When in reality, people often ridicule or throw tantrums for individuals they can't have.
There was a Taurus who made obsessive visits to the Virgo board, creating non-stop threads...of course making my eyes bleed at her hypocrisy....and laughing at her sudden shift from knight-whiting water signs to obsessing over a slow-moving Virgo.
But as I stated earlier, hot air is blown for the impatient, exasperated types.
*People think you forget.*
Posted by TaurusBull1977i would agree with you tb. there are lots of plastic men and the ones you want to genuinely hang on to are a little harder to spot sometimes.
The entire concept of 'real' masculinity is so misconstrued. Perhaps, the influence of pop culture has many individuals living in a delusional fantasy of knight and shining armors, princesses and castles. No different from what is portrayed in music (especially in 'some' rap music), the 'aggressor' seen as masculine, is adorned in jewels, a nice house, a nice car, hand on his crotch, confident, assertive, promising the woman a life of security and luxury.
This is not real life.
A result of this fantasy is a warrant for outstanding child support, infidelity, no accountability, single parent households, irresponsibility, poverty, a lack of education, a lack of respect...and the list goes on.
Keep in mind, this is everything that a Taurus man stands AGAINST!
A Taurus man will advocate moral responsibility, integrity, discipline, accountability, values and family structure.
This is the real definition of a real man. Caution doesn't equate to effeminate. It equates to the wrong decision can have a lifelong impact on the outcomes for the future...so to assume otherwise is absurd.
As a Taurus woman, I would have to admit, I love being chased. I dislike chasing. But some men are worth it. Earth sign men are definitely worth it!
To be honest, I would take a cautious, selective man over a thirsty man any day.
As LentoBull asserted previously, a chase is simply just a chase. Eventually it loses it's spark, and it's on to the next. There is nothing special about someone who chases. I have a Venus in Aries, so I can relate.
maybe because of my libra side i don't mind a bit of chasing. i certainly don't like being chased by someone i have no interest in. so it goes to reason that if i want the object of my desire to respond, i sometimes have to make it obvious that i want him to take up the baton.
and besides it seems like such a waste to let a good guy slip through your fingers because you refuse to make it a little easier for him. or maybe you taurus gals are beating them off with a stick so have the luxury of being choosy!
Posted by HoneyD1I'm going through this problem on and off and its been going on for nearly 2 years now. He will randomly message me within gaps of few weeks/2 months max. I have read posts and let it be and carried on doing what I normally do. I've even dated 2 guys during this time and that just didnt work out. I some how just end up curious about my Taurus guy. I randomly messaged him on Mon and its Wed now.. no response what so ever.. and that annoys me thinking why ignore somone asking how you are? It comes across rude and you end up questioning if you did something wrong. I do what something to happen with this guy but clearly hes not going to make any move.. i mean its been 2 years.. i know they take there time but come on..really??!? this long?? LOL
y do you guys randomly ignore people your dealing with? You could think about that person all day everyday & they could contact you but yet you still ignore them. What is the purpose??
Posted by TaurusBull1977This is some very good deep advice. Thank you x
The entire concept of 'real' masculinity is so misconstrued. Perhaps, the influence of pop culture has many individuals living in a delusional fantasy of knight and shining armors, princesses and castles. No different from what is portrayed in music (especially in 'some' rap music), the 'aggressor' seen as masculine, is adorned in jewels, a nice house, a nice car, hand on his crotch, confident, assertive, promising the woman a life of security and luxury.
This is not real life.
A result of this fantasy is a warrant for outstanding child support, infidelity, no accountability, single parent households, irresponsibility, poverty, a lack of education, a lack of respect...and the list goes on.
Keep in mind, this is everything that a Taurus man stands AGAINST!
A Taurus man will advocate moral responsibility, integrity, discipline, accountability, values and family structure.
This is the real definition of a real man. Caution doesn't equate to effeminate. It equates to the wrong decision can have a lifelong impact on the outcomes for the future...so to assume otherwise is absurd.
As a Taurus woman, I would have to admit, I love being chased. I dislike chasing. But some men are worth it. Earth sign men are definitely worth it!
To be honest, I would take a cautious, selective man over a thirsty man any day.
As LentoBull asserted previously, a chase is simply just a chase. Eventually it loses it's spark, and it's on to the next. There is nothing special about someone who chases. I have a Venus in Aries, so I can relate.
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