Tauruses and making the move

I am not a Taurus but I have been involved with two. Both of the Taurus males I know withdrew somewhat after the first few sexual encounters. The first Taurus guy I know basically told me that he needed to get his thoughts together because he was catching feelings for me within the first month.

He started to watch me closely and observe me whenever we were together, everything from my hair, nails, clothes etc. He explained it that people put on a front when they first meet but he wanted to get to know the real me and he wasn't gonna let sex cloud his judgement because a man could get sex from anywhere and what he was looking for is something serious.

I think most taurians when they meet someone and start to get to know them think about whether there is potential for the future right away and if there isn't, even if sex or something physical has occurred they re-evaluate there stance.

They are extremely slow even more so if they have been hurt in the past. However when they have figured that they want you the charge straight at you and if you aren't ready they don't give in. Its almost like they will continue trying because they are patient. Don't know if this will be of help but this what I have seen from my experiences. Don't worry he is just trying to get to know you. He is observing you.

I'm a Taurus &.............."you're the most real person i've met in a while"....... "i feel like my souls going to explode theres so much i want to say and express."

He likes you.....ALOT, get ready to be charged at 🙂

charged at? what does this entail! i couldn't see him making the first move.!

Have patience ... Taureans like to take things slow and hate being rushed. In fact, if you rush him, he'll most likely pull back.

i not rushin him, im just wondering if he likes me more then frienzzz iss allll

^^ If he is very typical of his sign its possible that you might be in for a lot of taurean subjectivity.

Aries is a given natural in the "initianting" dept afterall this is a Cardinal sign but if you are a pretty chick I don't think taurus will resist.

he hasn't resisted at all.. i just want him to initiate physical contact.. he'll like make plans n stuff..but not know what to do with me when i get there.. i dunno maybe i'll start to pull away and let him come to me, but thats what i did last time i saw him, and nothing happened!

If you pull away that may have the opposite affect.....He may begin to think you lost interest in him and not come running after you??..Taurus usually does not initiate, however, they are very physical so touching and being affectionate is something they like to do.....Don't over react... Enjoy your time with him for what it is, because after all he is making and keeping plans with you.... He could be ignoring you or standing you up....

They are slow and don't like to be emotionally frazzled...Just chill and enjoy the ride....If you feel like touching him, then do it.... He will show you signals as to whether you he wants you to continue or isn;t in the mood... Taurus is one man that doesn't mind a woman to be forward....

I think it puts them at ease with whether the woman wants them, and please believe the ones I know want to be wanted by the one they are interested in.....

yesterday wasn't friday. oops!

My taurus was dating me and someone else initially. I didn't care cuz that was our relationship at the time. I lived here he lived there... i couldn't be there all the time so i figured, while were at this stage, he can do that cuz i can't be anything more right now. That went on for some months, and he ended up having to make a choice. We moved further along and as we progressed, he basically chose me. But that was how our relationship was. Alot of people would think i was crazy for staying with him knowing this. But i knew him and how he was, and i also was secure about me and him. he ended things with her when he needed to with out me pushing him to do that. And i truely feel that he waited to end it with her until he was sure of what he wanted.

My point to that was it seems that they like having options but when they make a choice, it's what they stick to. He has since moved and we are doing wonderfully. One of the things he said he loved about me was my security with myself and how i didn't push him and allowed him to figure things out on his own. He had been married and didn't really want to rush into a seriously committed relationhip right away. I understood as i had been married previously as well. I also know that i wanted him to do what he had to do to after his divorce and when he was ready, i knew i was the woman he wanted. I just played my position.
I don't think the ending would have been the same had i pushed him and tried to make him make a choice. they don't seem like the sign where you get much success out of that.

we've hung out like 6 times so far.. and he keeps asking me to hang out.. but even STILL he won't make the first move WHAT THE POOP. i always initiate and then he follows.. this is ridiculous lol. i just want him to be aggressive! .....im still worried hes playing the field. would a taurus tell you if they were dating someone else while dating you? aren't they real upfront about that sorta thing?

lol i'm definitely the aggressor in our relationship. don't know if that's the bull thing going on lol but i too wish he would "take it when he wants it". i mean he doesn sometimes, but i'd say 10% of the time. and he told me about the other chick immediately. never lied bout it and told me when it was over.

I'm a Taurus and I am up front about stuff with the people I'm seeing; whether they like it or not. They can never say they didn't know. It's not always well received, but people are always clamoring that they want to know the truth. Well, here ya go! I don't throw stuff in their face, but if they ask me I will tell them. Now, with this being said, I only mess around with more than one person if I'm just "dating." If I'm into someone, I just want to be with them, and trust me, they will know they are the only one!

ughn. i dont wanna ask him about it.. i just wish he would tell me.. i dont want him to think im the pushy type..we've been talking a little over 3 weeks now.

This seems to be a recurring theme with these guys...