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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Yes it was just 3 days. Yeah I'm not feeling that either. Him being on there is cool just don't ask of me something youre not doing
Oh and he suggested you delete your app, but he's still on there. What's that about?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Yeah just didn't go that way.
@OP- What happened to going out and meeting in a public place? First.
Posted by AgentP911Exactly the reason I saw him on the site because I still have mine. 😉 yeah it usually works that way. Put them in their place and then they will get it together.
I'm not a Taurus but I am online dating again. My general rule of thumb is never go to a man's house unless you are going to have sex with him. Otherwise I think it gives off a tease vibe but not necessarily in a good way. Others may disagree which is ok. It depends on the approach and connection and what you're looking for.
I had two dates with a Taurus fella who wanted to get in my pants. He was disappointed I didn't go to his place after the date. I'd already told him it wasn't happening. I'd even told him if Daniel Craig pitched up and asked me to his that I'd take a rain check on it... And I really fancy Daniel Craig (as Bond).
He was insistent in inviting me round his after the first date. In fact, every night he invited me round and this was after I told him I wouldn't go round to some bloke's house who I had only just met. Think of the security element. Anyway, I finally told him he was asking the wrong questions! Had he asked me out, as in out out, NOT round his place which ONLY means a fuck, then I'd make time. He finally understood.
I told him if he wants to invite me out when I'm back from my current trip then great but he needs to put some effort in and if he wants an easy or quick lay then he needs to sniff elsewhere, no problem. We're in contact and we should be going out next week or following week.
Meanwhile, my profile is still active. Why? Because it's called dating and there's plenty more fish. I'm happy to keep seeing this guy and there's another two potentials in the mix. I've known this guy about 8 hours. That's not enough to fuck or exclusively date but it is enough to continue seeing and learning each other.
In some weird way, he likes my confidence and my stance. He says he'll still try to get in my pants... I said I wouldn't expect anything less ‰
My point of my own story here is hopefully you may take something from it. You need to do what you want to do. Not what some guy tells you to do.
Posted by KoniuchaI agreePosted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428He just wanted sex.
Oh and he suggested you delete your app, but he's still on there. What's that about?click to expand
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I'm a cancer he's a taurus
I missed something is it true that people make people do whatever they want, so know the actions to whatever you guys discuss and discover is shown by both. Some people can attract really fast and let go just as fast because there's no common interests or too much bullshit, or no chemistry. And purely physical attraction isn't all..
You don't know him all that much. Yes go with the flow but get to know him.
What's your sign and stuff? What's his?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I'm a cancer he's a taurus. I'm ok with him being on there right now. If we move forward in things we discussed then it'll come down. But it's really to soon to tell right now.
I missed something is it true that people make people do whatever they want, so know the actions to whatever you guys discuss and discover is shown by both. Some people can attract really fast and let go just as fast because there's no common interests or too much bullshit, or no chemistry. And purely physical attraction isn't all..
You don't know him all that much. Yes go with the flow but get to know him.
What's your sign and stuff? What's his?


Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Thanks for sharing your story.
@OP- I did that once who happened to be a Taurus male. I told him myself I took my profile down and he said we're just getting to know each other and I never told you to do that, and if he did it's controlling. I said I thought we both were on the same page. NOT.
Some shit like that. I am loyal and I will be straight into it.
So I was feeling it but obviously he wasn't just all into like I was no matter how compatible... And he also mentions to go halfway on everything. He was stuck on his ex and her ex kid, but single on my site I was on...this was all over the phone though. In a course of a few weeks to a month or so maybe. I didn't meet him. Both our work schedules clashed alittle. I left it asis. I contacted him and he was already dating another.
Posted by SensitiveBluesOh, I didn't know that was a trait of thiers. Hmm. Ok. Thanks
Earth signs build up fantasies! Wish they were more honest
Posted by busyeyes88I get it. I also see that as a balance. Meaning someone that can make you stronger as you also make them stronger, however, on different fronts. As far as the woe is me thing. Not in my case. It's not as much woe as me as show me who you are and the respect you have for others no matter what.Posted by SensitiveBluesThis is the reason I has to terminate my friendship with a cancer friend... It was always "woe is me" in her book. She could never take responsibility for her own actions and her own "manipulations".. You let the earth energy in your bed... YOU control that aspect not them!!! As for the "cohabitation ".. You also played your part!!!!Posted by busyeyes88We just want to believe in love. Earth signs are very good at manipulating our bed and energy for cohabitationPosted by SensitiveBluesCancers also need to be honest with themselves and be accountable for their own actions and the part they played in the "fantasy"!!!
Earth signs build up fantasies! Wish they were more honest
Earth signs also do and want to be believe in love.. But they are also "realists "... We love fantasy too.. But reality will always live amongst us. The other party has to take the fair share of blame...
Every action has a reaction. Taurus is not actionary but reactionary... You set your standard.. We will oblige them as you have set them....click to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesExactly our needs emotionally... not bed. Anyone can do that and not that I myself would go to bed with anyone, however, it takes more than that.
Our need... Not bed
Posted by SensitiveBluesExactly our needs emotionally... not bed. Anyone can do that and not that I myself would go to bed with anyone, however, it takes more than that.
Our need... Not bed
Posted by busyeyes88Not at all true. His hymn was monogamy and growing together as one and my was the same.
My only changes would be
P-Angel does have a valid point though... he shouldn't really be heavy petting on a first date unless sex is all he are after and he should not be expecting to be taken seriously by the woman if this is his behaviour."
Then you are both singing from the same hymn sheet OP... SEX!!!

Posted by SensitiveBluesWow, he said today he was with a woman for 10 yes 10 years without ever marrying her. No no for me.Posted by busyeyes88We just want to believe in love. Earth signs are very good at manipulating our bed and energy for cohabitationPosted by SensitiveBluesCancers also need to be honest with themselves and be accountable for their own actions and the part they played in the "fantasy"!!!
Earth signs build up fantasies! Wish they were more honestclick to expand
Posted by AgentP911I can understand that. It's more a probability thing to him. Thank you
In answer to your two original questions:
Sometimes some guys will say anything to get in your knickers.
He's still on the dating app, not because you left him hanging, but because he's looking at his options.
What does he say he's looking for?
I've seen loads of guys with profiles saying they want relationships yet they message specifically wanting sex.
Many guys will send out messages to say ten girls, inviting them round, let's say six respond positively and go round of which two won't do anything sexual other than kiss, two give him a hand job/blow job and two will have sex with him. Not all at the same time obviously!
It's a hit rate. He's gonna get girls biting and ultimately he'll get lucky.
Posted by ListenlearnteachOh and he doesn't say he's looking for anything. After talking to him one on one his profile is all about his previous relationship. Of course I didn't know that before speaking with him one on one. "Stop taking care of these men and let someone spoil you" is the jyst of his profile.Posted by AgentP911I can understand that. It's more a probability thing to him. Thank you
In answer to your two original questions:
Sometimes some guys will say anything to get in your knickers.
He's still on the dating app, not because you left him hanging, but because he's looking at his options.
What does he say he's looking for?
I've seen loads of guys with profiles saying they want relationships yet they message specifically wanting sex.
Many guys will send out messages to say ten girls, inviting them round, let's say six respond positively and go round of which two won't do anything sexual other than kiss, two give him a hand job/blow job and two will have sex with him. Not all at the same time obviously!
It's a hit rate. He's gonna get girls biting and ultimately he'll get lucky.click to expand
Posted by ListenlearnteachMeeting him in person he says he is looking for a wife.Posted by ListenlearnteachOh and he doesn't say he's looking for anything. After talking to him one on one his profile is all about his previous relationship. Of course I didn't know that before speaking with him one on one. "Stop taking care of these men and let someone spoil you" is the jyst of his profile.Posted by AgentP911I can understand that. It's more a probability thing to him. Thank you
In answer to your two original questions:
Sometimes some guys will say anything to get in your knickers.
He's still on the dating app, not because you left him hanging, but because he's looking at his options.
What does he say he's looking for?
I've seen loads of guys with profiles saying they want relationships yet they message specifically wanting sex.
Many guys will send out messages to say ten girls, inviting them round, let's say six respond positively and go round of which two won't do anything sexual other than kiss, two give him a hand job/blow job and two will have sex with him. Not all at the same time obviously!
It's a hit rate. He's gonna get girls biting and ultimately he'll get lucky.
Meeting him he told me about his last gf. She was married and he didn't know it she was taking the money he gave her to support another man, her husband that is pysically abusive and willing to let him hear her beat downs if he ever calls again all the while she was Enjoying the mortgage payments and shopping trips he provided.
I think his intentions are good but just a little clouded because of what he been through. No one is perfect, undoubtedly.
I think he is in a place of hurt and hasn't taken time to heal/reflect.click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88Beautiful. What's for you is for you. Lessons and arrival. Thank you for sharing.Posted by ListenlearnteachMy Taurus ex gf was with him for 12 years and she was a cancer and they never married!!!Posted by SensitiveBluesWow, he said today he was with a woman for 10 yes 10 years without ever marrying her. No no for me.Posted by busyeyes88We just want to believe in love. Earth signs are very good at manipulating our bed and energy for cohabitationPosted by SensitiveBluesCancers also need to be honest with themselves and be accountable for their own actions and the part they played in the "fantasy"!!!
Earth signs build up fantasies! Wish they were more honest
This forum is awesome. The lessons and stories are so insightful.
My female.friend who.is a bull was in a relationship for 15 years and never married.. Her ex went off with someone else. A year later she met another bull and three years later they married!!click to expand
Posted by xoxoRainYes. True. No offense taken. Thank you
Also OP
According to stereotype, Taurus males are Slore's. Slut-whores.
Which is completely opposite of female taurus's.
Apparently, Lots of Taurus guys run game on females.
Check the taurus board for threads attesting to that.
So be careful, Cancer. I know yal are sensitive & easily ti manipulate. Sorry for being blunt.
But yall gotta learn to be smarter.
I have nothing against cancer woman, but yu guys care for others more than you care for yourself.
That needs to change.

Posted by ListenlearnteachYuk! I hate reading those profiles where guys say they want someone to spoil. On the face of it, it sounds great, ideal infact but in reality they are usually the doormat variety who already have tread marks all over their dicks!Posted by ListenlearnteachOh and he doesn't say he's looking for anything. After talking to him one on one his profile is all about his previous relationship. Of course I didn't know that before speaking with him one on one. "Stop taking care of these men and let someone spoil you" is the jyst of his profile.Posted by AgentP911I can understand that. It's more a probability thing to him. Thank you
In answer to your two original questions:
Sometimes some guys will say anything to get in your knickers.
He's still on the dating app, not because you left him hanging, but because he's looking at his options.
What does he say he's looking for?
I've seen loads of guys with profiles saying they want relationships yet they message specifically wanting sex.
Many guys will send out messages to say ten girls, inviting them round, let's say six respond positively and go round of which two won't do anything sexual other than kiss, two give him a hand job/blow job and two will have sex with him. Not all at the same time obviously!
It's a hit rate. He's gonna get girls biting and ultimately he'll get lucky.
Meeting him he told me about his last gf. She was married and he didn't know it she was taking the money he gave her to support another man, her husband that is pysically abusive and willing to let him hear her beat downs if he ever calls again all the while she was Enjoying the mortgage payments and shopping trips he provided.
I think his intentions are good but just a little clouded because of what he been through. No one is perfect, undoubtedly.
I think he is in a place of hurt and hasn't taken time to heal/reflect.click to expand

Posted by busyeyes88Possibly or maybe each person has a person that works best for themPosted by xoxoRainThe thing I find strange is I know four taurus males and they seem as "mushy" as mushy peas so how on earth they can look like players or run rungs around certain women is beyond me... The ones I know are nothing like the image portrayed, but these women need to learn to play the game of chess then they will figure out how to work a taurus male...
Also OP
According to stereotype, Taurus males are Slore's. Slut-whores.
Which is completely opposite of female taurus's.
Apparently, Lots of Taurus guys run game on females.
Check the taurus board for threads attesting to that.
So be careful, Cancer. I know yal are sensitive & easily ti manipulate. Sorry for being blunt.
But yall gotta learn to be smarter.
I have nothing against cancer woman, but yu guys care for others more than you care for yourself.
That needs to change.click to expand

Posted by ListenlearnteachUltimately everyone is looking for a wife or husband or a life long partner or whatever floats your boat. That's more of a blanket statement. What he's looking for right now and how he's going about it speaks volumes so pay attention!Posted by ListenlearnteachMeeting him in person he says he is looking for a wife.Posted by ListenlearnteachOh and he doesn't say he's looking for anything. After talking to him one on one his profile is all about his previous relationship. Of course I didn't know that before speaking with him one on one. "Stop taking care of these men and let someone spoil you" is the jyst of his profile.Posted by AgentP911I can understand that. It's more a probability thing to him. Thank you
In answer to your two original questions:
Sometimes some guys will say anything to get in your knickers.
He's still on the dating app, not because you left him hanging, but because he's looking at his options.
What does he say he's looking for?
I've seen loads of guys with profiles saying they want relationships yet they message specifically wanting sex.
Many guys will send out messages to say ten girls, inviting them round, let's say six respond positively and go round of which two won't do anything sexual other than kiss, two give him a hand job/blow job and two will have sex with him. Not all at the same time obviously!
It's a hit rate. He's gonna get girls biting and ultimately he'll get lucky.
Meeting him he told me about his last gf. She was married and he didn't know it she was taking the money he gave her to support another man, her husband that is pysically abusive and willing to let him hear her beat downs if he ever calls again all the while she was Enjoying the mortgage payments and shopping trips he provided.
I think his intentions are good but just a little clouded because of what he been through. No one is perfect, undoubtedly.
I think he is in a place of hurt and hasn't taken time to heal/reflect.click to expand
Posted by AgentP911Posted by ListenlearnteachYuk! I hate reading those profiles where guys say they want someone to spoil. On the face of it, it sounds great, ideal infact but in reality they are usually the doormat variety who already have tread marks all over their dicks!Posted by ListenlearnteachOh and he doesn't say he's looking for anything. After talking to him one on one his profile is all about his previous relationship. Of course I didn't know that before speaking with him one on one. "Stop taking care of these men and let someone spoil you" is the jyst of his profile.Posted by AgentP911I can understand that. It's more a probability thing to him. Thank you
In answer to your two original questions:
Sometimes some guys will say anything to get in your knickers.
He's still on the dating app, not because you left him hanging, but because he's looking at his options.
What does he say he's looking for?
I've seen loads of guys with profiles saying they want relationships yet they message specifically wanting sex.
Many guys will send out messages to say ten girls, inviting them round, let's say six respond positively and go round of which two won't do anything sexual other than kiss, two give him a hand job/blow job and two will have sex with him. Not all at the same time obviously!
It's a hit rate. He's gonna get girls biting and ultimately he'll get lucky.
Meeting him he told me about his last gf. She was married and he didn't know it she was taking the money he gave her to support another man, her husband that is pysically abusive and willing to let him hear her beat downs if he ever calls again all the while she was Enjoying the mortgage payments and shopping trips he provided.
I think his intentions are good but just a little clouded because of what he been through. No one is perfect, undoubtedly.
I think he is in a place of hurt and hasn't taken time to heal/reflect.click to expand
A guy looking to 'spoil' a woman is saying things he thinks a woman wants to hear. He puts himself in the 'knight in shining armour' bracket but he has no armour or sword, and definitely no steed! He's the 'I'm a nice guy really'. It's the male equivalent of 'where are all the nice men?' Which is what many females whine about.
Talking about ex's is fine if it's in a more matter of fact way or for information/background purposes. Making a profile on a dating site which is about your ex in the hope of gaining a new person is just contr
Posted by AgentP911My sentiments exactly. Paying attention to actions vs words.Posted by ListenlearnteachUltimately everyone is looking for a wife or husband or a life long partner or whatever floats your boat. That's more of a blanket statement. What he's looking for right now and how he's going about it speaks volumes so pay attention!Posted by ListenlearnteachMeeting him in person he says he is looking for a wife.Posted by ListenlearnteachOh and he doesn't say he's looking for anything. After talking to him one on one his profile is all about his previous relationship. Of course I didn't know that before speaking with him one on one. "Stop taking care of these men and let someone spoil you" is the jyst of his profile.Posted by AgentP911I can understand that. It's more a probability thing to him. Thank you
In answer to your two original questions:
Sometimes some guys will say anything to get in your knickers.
He's still on the dating app, not because you left him hanging, but because he's looking at his options.
What does he say he's looking for?
I've seen loads of guys with profiles saying they want relationships yet they message specifically wanting sex.
Many guys will send out messages to say ten girls, inviting them round, let's say six respond positively and go round of which two won't do anything sexual other than kiss, two give him a hand job/blow job and two will have sex with him. Not all at the same time obviously!
It's a hit rate. He's gonna get girls biting and ultimately he'll get lucky.
Meeting him he told me about his last gf. She was married and he didn't know it she was taking the money he gave her to support another man, her husband that is pysically abusive and willing to let him hear her beat downs if he ever calls again all the while she was Enjoying the mortgage payments and shopping trips he provided.
I think his intentions are good but just a little clouded because of what he been through. No one is perfect, undoubtedly.
I think he is in a place of hurt and hasn't taken time to heal/reflect.click to expand
Posted by xoxoRainDoing just that leaving it behind. I agree all are not the same period. (Redundant lol ..)Posted by SensitiveBluesThis is untrue.
Earth signs build up fantasies! Wish they were more honest
One, I've never met an earth sign to "create fantasies"
Two, I'm an earth sign. Earth dominant actually in my chart and I'm VERY honest. I have no times for the bullshit & lies.
I'm genuinely sorry the Virgo broke ur heart SB,BM,CC. -lol
But not all earth signs are the same.
IMO Virgo's are crazy.
My first BF was a virgo & it didn't turn out well. He actually ended up being abusive. Sorry 4 tmi.
You deserve better! Its a New Year! Leave his mess behind â¤
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Posted by xoxoRainHe definitely built up fantasies, not to say all do, but this one. Yep. It sounded well and dandy but so empty and no other way to say it he just wanted sex.
OP, sensitiveblues is just sad over her earth sign ex.
I am an actual earth sign, and we do not build up fantasies.

Posted by ListenlearnteachWell now you know what guys want when they invite you round. This Taurus dude tried to palm it off as being more 'convenient' and 'comfortable' and it was 'raining outside' and all that shit. It's the UK. It ALWAYS rains! I just gave him one of my unimpressed looks and told him not to be so fucking lazy!Posted by xoxoRainHe definitely built up fantasies, not to say all do, but this one. Yep. It sounded well and dandy but so empty and no other way to say it he just wanted sex.
OP, sensitiveblues is just sad over her earth sign ex.
I am an actual earth sign, and we do not build up fantasies.click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88Have to pat myself of the back for this one and thank you all as well 3 - 4 days versus tears and years. Well alright.Posted by ListenlearnteachMy Taurus ex gf was with him for 12 years and she was a cancer and they never married!!!Posted by SensitiveBluesWow, he said today he was with a woman for 10 yes 10 years without ever marrying her. No no for me.Posted by busyeyes88We just want to believe in love. Earth signs are very good at manipulating our bed and energy for cohabitationPosted by SensitiveBluesCancers also need to be honest with themselves and be accountable for their own actions and the part they played in the "fantasy"!!!
Earth signs build up fantasies! Wish they were more honest
This forum is awesome. The lessons and stories are so insightful.
My female.friend who.is a bull was in a relationship for 15 years and never married.. Her ex went off with someone else. A year later she met another bull and three years later they married!!click to expand
Posted by AgentP911Now I knowPosted by ListenlearnteachWell now you know what guys want when they invite you round. This Taurus dude tried to palm it off as being more 'convenient' and 'comfortable' and it was 'raining outside' and all that shit. It's the UK. It ALWAYS rains! I just gave him one of my unimpressed looks and told him not to be so fucking lazy!Posted by xoxoRainHe definitely built up fantasies, not to say all do, but this one. Yep. It sounded well and dandy but so empty and no other way to say it he just wanted sex.
OP, sensitiveblues is just sad over her earth sign ex.
I am an actual earth sign, and we do not build up fantasies.click to expand
Posted by xoxoRainOhhh ok. Slore. Ok.Posted by ListenlearnteachI understand.Posted by xoxoRainHe definitely built up fantasies, not to say all do, but this one. Yep. It sounded well and dandy but so empty and no other way to say it he just wanted sex.
OP, sensitiveblues is just sad over her earth sign ex.
I am an actual earth sign, and we do not build up fantasies.
That's why i said according to stereotype taurus guys are slore's. Slutwhore lmfaooo.
I get what you mean tho, Not every sign is the same. Not all do the same things exactly.click to expand
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Had a good evening. Lot of heavy petting and genuine conversation. He ended up telling my I'll make you fall in love with me, you're my future wife, etc. As I said earlier we met online a dating site so he suggested/well pretty much told me to remove my page.
So basically by the time I left his home he was a blue balls victim. I'm not having sex with a man I just met for the first time I don't care how much of the world you promise.
So my questions to you taurus men:
do you say these types of things to women with ease?
He's still on the dating app and active is it because I left him "hanging"?