This taurus guy

I'm not really making this thread to seek advice, but more so to open up about this growing relationship I have with a Taurus man. This isn't the same Taurus guy I've spoken about before; unfortunately, I don't see this taurus enough to keep up with him, and since it's close to the end of the semester, we're both pretty busy with our lives. He's still a very sweet friend and I can only hope to see him more often in the future.

Anyway, this Taurus guy I've also known for quite a while, since my freshman year to be exact (I'm about to be a senior in college). Funny enough, I don't remember formerly meeting this taurus and vice versa. We are in the same circle of people and are always at the same events and have known each other, spoken on occasion, ect, but we didn't actually start speaking to each other personally until this past winter. Our friendship is pretty interesting: we have the same strange, witty, and smartass sense of humor that draws us closer together but also makes us butt heads (but, not in the negative way). In fact, the reason why we started speaking is because I made a comment on his facebook about a documentary about serial killers lol. We connect pretty well mentally. I find it very easy to speak to him, and up until now, we often speak to each other at least once a day.

Now, this taurus has had a reputation amongst our circle of friends, and one that hasn't always been positive. It's one that I was vaguely familiar with, but I tended to not care about in the long run. In the beginning it made me wary to get to know him, but there is something about this taurus that constantly pulls me in. In general, that could describe our whole relationship. I'm not even certain what I'm attracted to about him, but even if I wanted to ignore him, it'd be very hard to. There is this unspoken magnetism between us; it's not intense like wildfire. It's more like slow and heavy and something that lingers. When we're in the same room together, we could be doing two completely different things, but we can make eye contact for a moment, and it will just stick. And sometimes I can feel him watching me when we're at parties, events, ect.

In the last month or so, our relationship began to move from platonic to something more. The thing was, neither of us were/are particularly looking for a relationship. The taurus was always trying to get me to come and hang out with him, but I would always find an excuse to not do that. I was avoiding him (and he kne

(and he knew it), but I wasn't sure why. But, the more I spoke to him, the harder it was to avoid him. He admitted to me that he thought I was cute, funny, attractive, other nice compliments, but he has bouts of low self-esteem (which he keeps hidden but has admitted to me mroe than once) and considers himself a fuck up of a guy of sorts. I told him that he could be a fuck up, but the past was just that and that I didn't see him as one.

So one day, I told the taurus I would hang out with him. Needless to say, the entire day went to shit because before we could actually hang out, he locked his keys in his car at the mall and then he had to meet his boss unexpectedly. He had dressed nicely and everything because I was going to give him the time of day for once, but nothing worked out exactly. He felt so badly and kept apologizing, saying that he didn't mean for things to go the way they did and that he sucked. To make up for it, I told him we could watch a movie together later that night. When we were together that night, I wasn't exactly sure how to handle the situation. It felt weird being with him because I had been trying to avoid him, but it felt so comfortable at the same time. Eventually, he leaned in and kissed me. It just happened, and then one thing led to another. It's like all that tension that had been building between us just exploded. Yet, I didn't regret any of it like I thought I would.

I don't know what you would call us. It's rather unusual indeed. I don't feel a desire to rush into things, but when I'm with him, it's kind of like being with your really good friend... but more all at once. I feel great with him, relaxed. I don't want to throw out any suggestions yet. This is my first time actually being with a taurus guy, and I'm not disappointed.

🙂 Earth/Earth, it's a helluva thing, isn't it? It's like your comfiest pair of yoga pants have flames all over them. They fit well, are so easy to slide into and well, let's just say ya look damned fine in 'em. 😉

^^

That's definitely a good way to put it lol. It's like, the shoe fits rather nice, so let's break them in lol.

It's funny; you wouldn't guess that he is remotely romantic unless in the right settings. And when those settings are right, he sheds this goofy, smartass demeanor and just starts oozing sensuality. It's like he becomes a whole different person. It's enough to give me chills inside. He's so very attentive in the sack, and often I just want to ask, "WHERE DID THIS EVEN COME FROM?" Like, during one conversation I had slyly told him some of the things I'm into sexually, and when things just happened, it's like he remembered every detail.

I was cuddling with him while we were watching tv last night, and he would curl up against me and sneak little kisses in here and there. And I slept over because we had gone to a party (after he finally managed to convince me to come out), and while sleeping, he would stir sometimes and wake up for a moment. And every time he did, he would softly kiss an exposed part of my body, like my shoulder, my arm, my head, and then he would fall back to sleep. It was so foreign to me, but at the same time... one of the sweetest things ever. Something you wouldn't expect from him at all...

Here's his chart (no clue on his rising yet)

Sun Taurus 8.06
Moon Aquarius 2.26
Mercury Taurus 28.24
Venus Taurus 14.10
Mars Gemini 29.31
Jupiter Gemini 8.59
Saturn Capricorn 13.54 R
Uranus Capricorn 5.11 R
Neptune Capricorn 12.20 R
Pluto Scorpio 13.58 R
Lilith Libra 8.52
Asc node Pisces 2.4

He really is an unusual bull. Spontaneous yet laid back. A wiseass yet romantic. Outgoing yet vulnerable.

I'd say he's quite a wonderful Bull it seems. And this one is smiling. Because I'm pretty positive he did indeed remember every detail of that and every other conversation. Tis what we do when someone is in our sights. Not one thing is missed. Whether it shows on our face or not, internalize everything ( all the better to please you with mah deah.. ).

It's interesting. While I didn't think taurus men and women were inattentive, I didn't really how attentive they could actually be. You guys are definitely not something to take at face value. Then again, I should know. My brother is a taurus 😛

😄 We are watchers, surely as Virgo is. Take in everything around us with a thoughtful ( and at times even vacant ) look on our face. Bwahahahahaaaa.

Posted by Candeh15
It's interesting. While I didn't think taurus men and women were inattentive, I didn't really how attentive they could actually be. You guys are definitely not something to take at face value. Then again, I should know. My brother is a taurus 😛

I agree with Tauruses not being people to take at face value. I'm rarely ever attracted to Taurus guys, but being in a work environment where I'm surrounded by Tauruses, I've gotten to know them a little better, and I've been loving it. Even with this Taurus co-worker, I thought he was kinda cute at first but nothing more than that. He did not seem like my type at all. But now, as time has went on, I've been falling for him in ways that I've never fell for a guy before. He makes me want to open up and be romantic, which I wasn't even aware that I had a romantic side to me. I've actually learned a little about myself just from him being so unafraid to hold back attention and affection.

My Virgo sister is dating her Taurus guy now. She's been attracting them a lot lately, and I thought she was crazy over Scorpios, but these Taurus guys have gotten a hold of her and she's experiencing new things herself.

Id say go for it, especially since it's such a compatible match.

🙂

Comfort is definitely the key word here. And you know, I've been comfortable with a lot of guys, and this kind of comfort is really any different, but it's just... nice. I'm comfortable with whatever we're doing, at least more comfortable now. It is a nice surprise.

I'm still really curious about this attraction we have for each other. It really is in all sense of the word... magnetic. It's not easily seen by most, and we don't even comment on it, but it's just there. Big and bright, but hidden as well.

Posted by venusianbull
🙂 Earth/Earth, it's a helluva thing, isn't it? It's like your comfiest pair of yoga pants have flames all over them. They fit well, are so easy to slide into and well, let's just say ya look damned fine in 'em. 😉

LMAO.well said VB. 🙂

😉 🙂

Posted by CancerMoon
Ugh, Moon in Aquarius...might get difficult. As a fellow water Mooner I must warn you: he ticks hella different than you.

Oh, I know lol.

That aqua moon does help in one way: we have the same sort of smartass humor, so we keep each other on our toes.

His moon is in aqua, but his venus is in taurus. So he really is pretty harmless. Makes it easier to mess with him.

Posted by TyDyed

Aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

Taurus & Virgo - fantastic match!

All the Bulls I know are stoic, but secretly big-hearted romantic softies on the inside.

Good Luck!

Lol thanks Dy. We'll see how it all goes. It's still an awkward stage of friendship/getting closer to each other, but I'm not complaining. He manages to bring a smile to my face regardless.

Posted by CancerMoon
Ugh, Moon in Aquarius...might get difficult. As a fellow water Mooner I must warn you: he ticks hella different than you.

Oh, also, I've been noticing that if I did want anything to work, I'd have to evaluate my own emotional make up compared to his. I know I can get a little overboard with my feelings, but ironically, I'm also pretty aloof when it comes to my emotions just like he is. He doesn't verbally express things, but when together, he becomes highly affectionate (which could be his venus in taurus). And even when I'm with him, I don't necessarily respond emotionally because I'm not very open with them. So, I can't expect him to be open with his feelings if I'm not either.

I also know that sometimes I can get attached, but when I start to feel that way, I just have to tell myself to calm down and to realize that he needs space just as much as I do. And I say this in terms of a romantic or platonic relationship.

So yeah, it's probably gonna irritate the hell out of me, but either way, I have to learn something through all this lol.