This Taurus has me guessing..

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sweethearts
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So slow.....is this the norm?

Still hasn't asked me out and it makes me wonder, is he actually interested and then last night after seeing a blog I put on FB, he PM's to ask is I was ok. I Pm'd my reasoning for it and it was past tense but thanked him for his concern. Then he starts texting me, just about understanding and about his day...so now he's been texting me all day just chatting...a half an hour ago he asked if I went out last night and I said no, all my friends are either working this weekend or have family over...thought he was going to ask me out. But no, not yet...*shakes head*

Guess he hasn't decided if he wants to or not yet...there wouldn't be any other reason would there? I just don't think someone would text for 8 hours and not be thinking or interested in the other person...
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Honestly, I would be 100% sure if the person in question were to say so. 😆 In my particular case, I need a reason to actually make an effort. I personally don't like wasting time if it's not going to result in anything, so I will make my move either when I know if she's attracted to women, or when my feelings are crushing me and I'm exhausted by them. At the same time, if I see some asshat trying to snatch the woman up, I will move way faster regardless of my lack of knowledge about her feelings towards women(but I only do that when she behaves in a way where she gives the impression that she's interested).
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Great insight, and also great way to do things. We Libra's rush into things too fast but with him dealing with things his way I have seen that we aren't suited. Too many red flags of difference, things that would frustrate and annoy me every time! Not sure it's a good combination anymore, just because I have Taurus rising and all my friends are Taurus...when I think about our relationship, it's not smooth sailing.
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Posted by KittyKnitter
I would say that if he is in touch, asking about your day, how you are, he is definitely interested or he wouldn't make the effort to chat. he may be shy or hesitant to make a move til he is surer that he won't be rejected or sure that you are who you say you are. i had this happen with taurus i met online who had been badly hurt a number of times. he was very attracted to my openness and i let him decide when we met and didn't fuss when he didn't want to meet for coffee when i was ready and he wasn't. there have been a number of times when he has wanted his space to deal with his feelings and he got it. the bull wants to be in control of his world so he is very careful about who he brings into it. even after he and i got together, i would see him watching me a lot. trying to figure me out i think.lol. don't wait around for him but leave the door open if you want to. do your own thing. he is attracted to you or he wouldn't be around at all. but you cannot make a taurus move. they have to do it when they are ready.

Thanks for that! I am learning this regarding my Taurus also. I've never dealt with a Taurus guy before.
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am currently going through the same thing with a taurus female. she's...wow. i want to go after her, but i dont want to go after her. i've heard the bulls dont like all the intensity. she hugs and kisses me when she greets me. she even looks after me, asking if i've eaten, what do i need, can she get me anything. ha, she even feeds me from her utensils when she's eating.

i dont think she'd do that with just anyone. i want to know if there's something between us, but i dont want to go too fast. so i step back and let her call or text me when she wishes. same thing when it comes to seeing each other. i dont believe in clinging - im a scorp and i need my me time. but i dont want to make her think im not interested. damn it...when to be hot and when to be cold...

you bulls..... smdh....you bulls....

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