Vent... I don't want to cut anymore people out of my life

But... My sibling makes me want to stop talking to her. She doesn't like m e and or harbors resentment against me. I feel like shes makes notes of my weakness and if i upset her , shes waiting to take me down

Shes sweet snd caring but egotistical arrogant bossy and i feel like shes assigned a value to me and decided that im not eorth her respect.



I dont want t o ralk to her because it leads to the same fight.

Posted by andstrollbot
i do

you can always find new people

Ive done it all in my twenties. Now there is a stigma t h at i just d t op people typically family

Posted by andstrollbot
oh siblings are hard i'm an only child technically

Yup... Im willing to be a friend shes not interested.when she does dhe spends more money than time.

Posted by littledreamer
Wants and needs can be entirely different from one another, in my opinion.

Well she ignores me when i speak and since i started working she avoids me and has been snippy.

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Posted by VenusStar
But... My sibling makes me want to stop talking to her. She doesn't like m e and or harbors resentment against me. I feel like shes makes notes of my weakness and if i upset her , shes waiting to take me down

Shes sweet snd caring but egotistical arrogant bossy and i feel like shes assigned a value to me and decided that im not eorth her respect.



I dont want t o ralk to her because it leads to the same fight.

Yep i had a situation with a sibling too. When i realized they constantly had an attitude and would turn anything into an argument and were going no where in life, basically not feasible to deal with because who has time for that, I had to leave them alone. It happens. I guess its about figuring whats worth what.

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she starts arguementsbut iguess she feels like im going nowhere in life. And she is beyond me.

We got into an atguement because she said that i should n o longer mop the floor and i leave too much water behind. I saw red.

I mop when shes not home or late at night. In the 4 years she been with she has not cleaned outside her personal space. No sweeping, wiping , bathroom or kitchen



Since i started working she leaves the toom if i enterr. I dont want to befriend someone who does not like me.

She helped me out ehen i was broke. Once i started working she c went back b to ignoring me. She wont admit that she doesnt like me.

Living together creates a lot of tension with siblings sometimes. Trust me, I know. My sister probably thought I didn't like her, when truth is..I just wanted my own space and couldn't handle someone in my space that I couldn't tell what to do, honestly.

She clearly loves you because she helps you when you are down. That's a positive and something she doesn't have to do. Its also not something people to for those they dont like. She may not just like your current situation.