Was that the end of our ride together?

Him:
Sun taurus
Rising leo
Moon aquarius
Mercury taurus
Mars taurus
Venus gemini

Me:
Sun cancer
Rising scorpio
Moon aries
Mercury leo
Mars taurus
Venus gemini

We met on an app (not tinder) and went on a date at a bar Tuesday night. From the moment we met everything was easy. Conversation flowed. Our second date was us going to his friend of a friend's bday party Friday night. Besides his two friends I was the only person he knew at the party. All of his friends would speak Hebrew to each other and he'd translate even when it had nothing to do with me. Later on he told me he was impressed with how easily I assimilated into the culture. Every time I'd laugh to myself or stare off for a second he'd ask me to tell him what I was thinking. Once we had our first kiss he was really affectionate. He would randomly kiss me, hold my hand, wrap his arm around my waist, kiss my forehead, etc. He told me I was a really good kisser and that he was having fun with me. I jokingly told him he was an ok kisser. He was like ok? And went back in for another kiss then pulled away and said I was an ok kisser now lol. I once joked that was he was getting an erection, and he vehemently denied it and seemed to get offended. Whenever I'd leave him and comeback he would be with his friends. I'd stand back and let them continue talking. Once he'd see me he'd leave his friend to come to me. He asked me why'd I have to leave so soon and for so long. Since he knew I was leaving for 3 months starting the next day (Saturday) I started worrying that he was being so touchy feeling hoping he'd get lucky in the end. In the uber back to his place I asked the driver to drop me off after dropping him off because I didn't want to be in a guy's apartment alone at that time of night. Of course they're hoping for sex. My date said we didn't have to have sex, but that he wanted to spend time with me since I was leaving. All we did was make out, and then he got my uber. Before I left we kissed and he said to text him. I didn't know if he meant once I got home, but I ended up not texting him and falling right to sleep. The next day he texted me "have a safe flight. I had fun with you yesterday..." I said "thanks! I had fun with you too 🙂 " and that was the end. Since we met he's texted me every day, but today he didn't.

So I said all of that just to know if that was the end of our ride together. Are taurus men that affectionate and into PDA with someone they just met? It fel

Continued: it felt like we'd known each other for years, but he seems to have that kind of personality. Do they move on easily when the person they enjoyed spending time with will be gone for so long?

I'd just keep it casual and not worry so much its only been a day without talking? Maybe txt in a couple days keep it light...you are away for awhile.

Thanks for the response. You're right. Keeping it light isn't always easy for me. I think way too much. I'll send him a voice note in Hebrew in a few days. He'll like that 🙂

Hahaha yes I need attention, and I'm an only child. So that doesn't help. I usually date multiple guys at one time to combat the neediness. I'll try to take it easy and focus on myself until we're back in the same city. 3 months is so long!!!

Posted by busyeyes88
OP. Take it easY And casual interaction. Cancers can come across as quite needy at times...

What's wrong with being needy?
I don't find my needs or that of Cancers that I have known to be entirely unreasonable.
If a guy is meeting your needs I don't see a problem with it.
Cancers are very intense with strong desires and we need to feel like we are apart of you.

The best thing for a Crab to do is find someone who meets those needs and understands them.

Posted by CancerAries
Hahaha yes I need attention, and I'm an only child. So that doesn't help. I usually date multiple guys at one time to combat the neediness. I'll try to take it easy and focus on myself until we're back in the same city. 3 months is so long!!!

Hahahaa I thought I was the only one who dated multiple guys to avoid getting attached too soon.

To be honest with you, I have found dating multiple guys defeats the purpose.
There has to be a goal, an end game.
Not just out having fun with various guys.
Unless you are not looking for anything serious.
But dating multiple guys to avoid feeling vulnerable tended to produce a fear of intimacy.
Can be confusing at times.

Venus in Gemini does not do well in long distance arrangements. Stay in contact and see what happens when you return. If you are really interested in him, then text him. He is probably testing you.