Aqua bf didn't text me back AT ALL....

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by 1thgirls on Sunday, May 10, 2015 and has 14 replies.

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@1thgirls
11 Years

We're in a Long distance relationship
We planned to see each other in the next 2 weeks. My bf texted me tonight if we can meet this Friday bc he can't wait.
I told him that I can't wait either, but I will attend my friend's waiting on this Friday, but we can see each other before I'm going to the wedding.
He said, "No. it's useless"
Me: "seeing me is useless? 😢"
He: Yes, for driving all the way there. We can see each other on Skype though."
Me: "you're right. I thought we're going to be in the same town (Cleveland) on Friday, that's why I asked"
He: Yes, I will be in town on Friday if I won't go to see you at "my town name"
Me: Then we can see each other in Cleveland before I go to the wedding 🙂
He: I will be there late afternoon, Not in the morning.
Me: We can see each other before the wedding. I will be there late afternoon too. The wedding won't start until 5pm. Well, up to you though.
+++++ He didnt' reply at all for 5 mins. Then I texted him again
Me: Did I make you upset, honey? I totally cannot wait either. Don't misunderstand me ok? 😭

++++ He still hasn't replied.

Why he doesn't reply me? Did I say something wrong?
What should I do?

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@1thgirls
11 Years

Thanks guys!!!

I'm just scared that if I said something wrong or hurtful to him... It's his 1st time that he showed me he really wanna see me.
But ... unfortunately, I turned him down.

My friend told me that my words are kinda too strong. I should say something that is sweeter than this 😢
I'm scared that it might irritate him somehow.

DAMN! I keep thinking!

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@ccaqua
11 YearsAquarius

Yes yes!!! Calm down lol! He cant see you before the wedding for whatever his reasons are, You were being pretty heavy there and you were not listening. Im not surprised he didnt text back. He got fedup saying no and explaining! All will be fine, just leave him be for a little bit :-) xx

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@1thgirls
11 Years

i didn't try to push him at all... that's why i told him that is up to him.
I tried to work things out so we can see each other like what he wants.

Should i wait until he replies my text?
what should i do if he still hasn't reply me today?

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@aquapiscescusp
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Red flag.

He will be in the same area as you and won't make the time to meet? That's your problem right there.

The fact that he's not replying is because he just doesn't want to meet.

How long has this "relationship" been going on?

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@1thgirls
11 Years

yep, we met before. We were friends.
we met in college... but i already graduated and i move back home.
Everything is fine. He texts me everyday. But it's just the beginning of the dating stage i guess.

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@1thgirls
11 Years

Thank you everyone! I really appreciate you guys' advices.
However, I ended up text him in the morning... telling him that I didn't try to push him to see me. And I can't wait to see him next week either.
He didn't respond from what I wrote in text. He, instead, ask me if I'm free this weekend bc he's going to book the hotel that is close to my house for 2 days.
So I helped him booked the hotel but it's 30 mins far from my house. He told me I don't need to go see him if it's hard for me driving 30 mins to see him. We will see each other next week.

So... do you guys think we're ok now?

Also, he has been a little bit aloof for the past 4 days... I mean, he doesn't text me during the day like before; he replied me with short messages and stickers... no asking questions.

So yesterday, we didn't text for a whole day and I gave him space. He finally texted me at midnight before he's going to bed. We texted for 20 mins and I said "good night" to him.