What does this Taurus guy want??

I wouldn't worry about it right now. We are known for falling into that black hole that is work..


Best of luck to you.

Ugh. I hate these patterns with some guys. It's as if they put in all the effort in the world to get the woman right where they want her, and once they get what they want you start hearing "been super busy at work" etc.

I can't say exactly what's going on through his head since I'm not a male or Taurus, but a suggestion is to not sweat him. Not saying that you are, but I wouldn't reach out to him. At all. I'd let him make the effort, all the effort he initially made.

Idk, maybe some guys fear that after the intimacy comes the expectations and they pull back to pace it much slower and to get it to where much isn't expected. Who knows, but don't worry yourself over it. I bet he'll be back full speed again.

Thank you, Taurguy. Yeah, have known him to be real focused on something when he sinks his teeth into it. But gosh...i just sometimes wish he wud snap out of it and realize someone's on the other side waiting for him to get back to real life!

@lnana04, yeah, I haven't contacted him in more than a day. I do see him online, but not going to ping him. Will wait for him to do so.

An update - He just called me up...and was as normal as can be. Spoke for quite some time and we ended the call with him saying he'll keep me posted on when he's coming this side. I never asked. 🙂 But now feel sooo much better! 😄

I envy you bacause at least you have contact again with your taurus man. Happy for you. I wish anyone could help me, with my taurus guy. He broke up with me and he wants us to be friends after all that just happened. A big question mark for me.

I wouldnt worry about it I agree witb Taurguy relax. When I tell a woman i'm going to work i'm going to be there until my back breaks no reason to put any negative feelings into this at all. If it were the days a woman could have sex and not worry about the guy disappearing like a kid going to Chuckie Cheeses alot of women would be happy. Sadly that is a rarity if you want this to last keep your legs closed. Otherwise we will be seeing a Shit ton more of you as you pop up and go omg what did I do wrong.

Seeing how it is with Taureans, one needs truckloads of patience, alrite. I resisted the need to behave like the typical Virgo and give into worrying. I actually busied myself..went to the spa, watched a lotta mpovies, read...I actually had fun. Guess it had the dude wondering why I didn't send him one of those odd smses am used to sending him. 🙂

And from what I've seen of him, when he gets all focused, there's nothing that can steer him from that path, be it work, food or even coming after me. And he did the last one so subtley I didn't even know when he had me eating out of his hands!

Then again, he has his moments...so am learning to take it easy. Given my impatience, it's hard to sit back and let him take his own sweet time. Sigh...

Dumbele, I do hope things work out for u. Just cool it and give ur guy a chance to think thru things and come back to you. All the best, girl!

There ya go just be patient.

-Pats you on the head- 😛

Thanks virgoinlove!! Will do...but i won't expect anymore. If there would be another chance, well and good, i'd be more than happy.

Virgoinlove, you are on the right track. Just go with the flow. Cheers!

And the game of peek-a-boo continues. But patience wins all the time..and how! But gosh...wonder if patience is going to see me to my early grave! We finally get into some sort of a back and forth game of smses yesterday and in the midst of it all he says, 'Missing u....'. I was stunned doesn't even begin to describe what I felt. Took me a while to react to that one! Messaged him back that I issed him too and wanted so much to be with him all curled up. No response after that. What was that all abt now?

Oh well...I'll take what li'l i can get...in the meantime am gonna do what i want to while he drags this on. Strangely, am having fun waiting and watching too..never knew i had it in me...U Taureans are soooooo worth all the acidity attacks and sleepless nights.. LOL!

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I wouldnt worry about it I agree witb Taurguy relax. When I tell a woman i'm going to work i'm going to be there until my back breaks no reason to put any negative feelings into this at all. If it were the days a woman could have sex and not worry about the guy disappearing like a kid going to Chuckie Cheeses alot of women would be happy. Sadly that is a rarity if you want this to last keep your legs closed. Otherwise we will be seeing a Shit ton more of you as you pop up and go omg what did I do wrong.

Um, no, when a man is upfront right away and says I just wanna f**k you, then it would be like a kid going to Chucky Cheese. But thats not what happened here. He called and texted daily. Took her shopping. Made it like he was dating her, then he gets a little and "Bam" he's gone. Busy at "work", etc etc. Unfortunately, men are not honest with their intentions, so a woman who is sweet, maybe a little naive, is going to fall for it.

Maybe he should be chasing the women he knows just want sex.or pay for it. Then he doesn't have to worry about the girls who "fall" for his games.

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I wouldnt worry about it I agree witb Taurguy relax. When I tell a woman i'm going to work i'm going to be there until my back breaks no reason to put any negative feelings into this at all. If it were the days a woman could have sex and not worry about the guy disappearing like a kid going to Chuckie Cheeses alot of women would be happy. Sadly that is a rarity if you want this to last keep your legs closed. Otherwise we will be seeing a Shit ton more of you as you pop up and go omg what did I do wrong.

Um, no, when a man is upfront right away and says I just wanna f**k you, then it would be like a kid going to Chucky Cheese. But thats not what happened here. He called and texted daily. Took her shopping. Made it like he was dating her, then he gets a little and "Bam" he's gone. Busy at "work", etc etc. Unfortunately, men are not honest with their intentions, so a woman who is sweet, maybe a little naive, is going to fall for it.

Maybe he should be chasing the women he knows just want sex.or pay for it. Then he doesn't have to worry about the girls who "fall" for his games.

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Sense I dont see any post saying he got a little allot or some your whole post is void as the space between Stevie Wonders eyes. Btw if I do everything said in this thread then go to work and you annoy the fuck out of me you wouldnt be around. Period. Every person has a life before a new person arrives you imposing your standards on him is completely different then the one he has for you. This is where communication comes in hopefully as smart people generally do she's.....communicating hopefully peek-a-boo is satisfying. If not a irrational or rational decisions will be made and eithier we will hear or not. Emotions move faster then threads.

Mmm....I love Stevie wonder...

Err...LadySag, he didn't get any...yet...and no, a not naive...at this day and age after a failed marriage and the lessons i've ;earnt,m doubt am that naive not to figure out if a guy's out for FWB or something else. FWB, it definitely ain't. A relationship...? Too soon. We'll explore that when the time's right i think. But till then, I intend to go with the flow. I just got off the phone with him. We spoike for more than an hr. Every time we talk i feel this connect with him. Guess he does too cos no matter what he's doing be it watching tv, driving or shopping with another friend, he just contonues talking to me and refuses to hang up. we sort of seem to have gotten extremely comfortable doing whatever it is we're doing and talking to each other at the same time. It's really nice.

I admit that he does confuse me at times though much lesser than before since i've been going thru all the threads on this forum andbelieve i do hve some understandng of him. He has been in relationships before and from what he's told me he was serious abt each one of tem. I don't know what went wrong and i don't really care. I know he isn't into casual flings. And from all that I've seen of him being with him he does care. Might not show the way I would like him to, but I know he does. And that's going to see me through all his disappearances, I think. 🙂 He's worth it.

Good luck.

Jus realized jut how many typos are in here! Am sorry, folks....rather distraught to do a spell check. Sigh... 😢

If some man told me he wasn't feeling me, I would not...

Cook for him.
Invest my time in him.

Definitely not:

Blow him.

One phase kept running through my mind when I found myself in a relationship with a Taurus man. "your patience is torturous ". When his mind is fixed on you, HOLY COW is it fixed! To the point where once they have gotten their ego-boosting fill they take a break. Leaving you to obsess over it. Feels a lot like a power game doesnt it? If you are willing to play this game, sometimes even changing how you would normally act just to be the calm, cool and collected women hes looking for when he goes in the zone then just wait quitely. They will always come back if you do so. This is how they roll. You have to have a lot of confidence to endure this time after time. You have to fit into his already established life without rocking the boat because they dislike change so much. So many posts here express confusion surrounding the Taurus man. It's not you. Its just who they are. Neediness is a huge turn off. Youll gain respect in their eyes for doing your own independent thing.

lol@his reaction to other guys, he has to protect those free flowing blow jobs...

He lied, that's enough not to invest your energy into just him, clearly him not revealing that he's dating other women is a huge deal for you.

I guess I'm wondering why are you dating only him when it's clear he's dating other women. This kind of behavior between 2 people creates doubt, uneasiness for the person that isn't dating around and plus you lose a significant amount of leverage and power in your relationship when you focus on one guy whose leaving his options open because you become the needy one in the dynamic when you put all of your eggs (hopes) in his basket while he's out there still looking for the one, neediness can kill off a potential relationship from developing real fast.

Mentioning other guys is a sure indicator that you are looking for reassurance and you looking for reassurance means you are becoming needy and this isn't good for you because no matter how many cues he gives that you're special there is still an issue of him dating someone else, don't be naive, you most likely aren't the only one giving him blow jobs.