What should i do—

OK I'm back Libra girl ....if you wanna read my post before about a Taurus guy who was tAlking to....we still haven't met, so I'm starting to feel as though he's a waste of my time....he calls everyday up until this past weekend....four days no call no text....I didn't bother initiating either....so he call this morning but I wasn't definitely answering my phone....three hours later he text me hello there...and still I don't reply....so o get off work and I call but he doesn't answer, he calls me back within 15 min..so we talk saying hi how are each other doing...felt so weird...any how if you read my previous posts this Taurus guy is 27 with one child...why we're on the phone he tells me that he's thinking about letting his baby mom move in ...so I say oh OK....then he says she don't even keep the house clean or wash behind her self, so I ask him ate you guys back together....he says no ....so in my mind I'm put it off by this because he told me previously that they were not together...so I end up ending the conversation.....something just don't sit right with me.....I guess my question is do me and him ever have a chance because he doesn't seem to be putting in effort as far as him courting me coming to see me.....I was a little heated that I sent him this message an hour after getting off the phone with him

Hey I do understand that you and I are friends. But I don't want to be a complication in your life with your baby mom....I already know what I want and what I deserve....and that's to build off of friendship....leading to A committed relationship, I don't think we're on the same page......he didn't respond back so what now?

how old are you? 24?

I'm 26....jeane....what does my age has to do with anything?

Excuse my pronunciation.....was voice writing

@evalani290 he was suppose to because he was on a week vacation and that was the plan.....he got upset because his baby mom was putting him on child support, in which he discuss with me ...and he didn't feel like driving that day ....so I gave that a pass I know in life things happen....now after that he was still calling everyday...we actually talked about linking up ....well I just came out and ask him...are we gonna ever meet, he said yes...but no date was set up..so I'm really starting to think that I should just cut him off completely....am I wrong?...I'm willing to just walk away because I know my worth and what I bring to the table. I thought we had a lot in common but here it is September..and we haven't even met, started talking to him in middle of march.....is this normal Taurus behavior?

@nevermore no we haven't I work six days and has two jobs....he has three jobs....I was willing to meet him, so maybe he's no interested...but I refuse to be number two...not all Libra women are naive

Posted by libra24
Hey I do understand that you and I are friends. But I don't want to be a complication in your life with your baby mom....I already know what I want and what I deserve....and that's to build off of friendship....leading to A committed relationship, I don't think we're on the same page......he didn't respond back so what now?

He wants nothing more than a friendship.
He has not agreed to meet with you in person, and he has re-affirmed the fact that the two of you are just friends.

You're not a complication to his life with his child's mother...it appears as if he's already trapped in a web of lies, drama and manipulation. (My guess, part of the reason she's moving in would be to drop the child support, I'm nobody's fool).

You're entertaining the dark latter parts of his story instead of opening your eyes to the non-existent relationship that lies before you.

You're suffering from a case of hysterical blindness.

Forgive the pun, you're young, so consider this an informative response.

You can't create a fantasy in a dreamworld that seems to only exists in yours, and yours only.

Good Luck!

Posted by libra24
@nevermore no we haven't I work six days and has two jobs....he has three jobs....I was willing to meet him, so maybe he's no interested...but I refuse to be number two...not all Libra women are naive

A willing participant enters a burning fire with both eyes open.

Your eyes are closed, thus making you [in fact] very naive!

Yes thank you guys already done

Posted by libra24
I'm 26....jeane....what does my age has to do with anything?

this may be no longer valid but i wanted to say at 26 you don't need this nonsense in your life. some guy who is still embroiled with another woman and obligations to a child? at 26, you can do so much better. shit, you can do much better at any age but when you get a bit older you tend to have a fuller life with no so many expectations of the future.

@Taurusbull1977 he could've atleast responded....but it's OK becAuse he confirmed what I felt, in which any case he's not man enough to say anything....but yet for the last six months he was always calling and texting....not one time did I get clingy or act desperate.....and I totally agree about the child support, I'm so thankful that I didn't lose my self respect and can move on from this situation. Things do happen for a reason, I thank god that he didn't allow us to meet ...some people come in your life for a reason or season...I'm just glad I know.....thanks for your advice.

@Jeane thanks you're so right!!! I personally feel like its better for me to date a guy with any kids....I want to be a priority...I ll get there oneday...with age comes wisdom

@evalani290 yes maybe you're right....I don't think the line of communication is bad...but I do communication takes two people. And of course I'm not willing to wait....for him it's not that serious, if he was treating me equally will be a different story....this situation just opened my eyes to just be aware of what a person say and do...thanks for your advice....my first experience with a Taurus

@evalani290..I will definitely be doing that...so right good point..

Posted by libra24
@Taurusbull1977 he could've atleast responded....but it's OK becAuse he confirmed what I felt, in which any case he's not man enough to say anything....but yet for the last six months he was always calling and texting....not one time did I get clingy or act desperate.....and I totally agree about the child support, I'm so thankful that I didn't lose my self respect and can move on from this situation. Things do happen for a reason, I thank god that he didn't allow us to meet ...some people come in your life for a reason or season...I'm just glad I know.....thanks for your advice.

I know you've got some excellent feedback here already, but thought I'd weigh in. I can see that the last 6 months spent "talking" with the Taurus meant a lot to you (and probably to him too, as he wouldn't have spent that long on a phone talking to you). But forget about those 6 months. Take them for what they are - a good learning experience. Now just focus on the present and most importantly the future. That is obviously what he is doing, hence the no response to your last text. He's busy getting his life in order with his child and the mother of his child. You should put just as much effort, if not more, into getting your life onto the track you want. Good luck and I hope you meet the man who will put you as no.1 🙂

Taurus guy just text me hey.....why would he text me if he couldn't be man enough to to respond to me two days ago....I'm not gonna answer him....I've decided to close the door.