Should I ask out my Virgo Male Crush?

Even at 59 these guys are shy to ask a woman out on a date.

He is scared of rejection but you guys are still building a friendship. So you have two options wait for him to ask you out or ask him out yourself.

Yes you need a lot of patients but I am certain he likes spending time with you 🙂

*at 50

Posted by LibraBalance

..... I should just ask him out but from everything I keep reading on Virgo I'm afraid that might send him running.

That's absurd.

Asking a Virgo out would NEVER send him running, so I'm clueless as to what kind of jackass you're listening to.

Could it be that that is what you WANT to believe? ... so if he declines then you'll have an excuse to believe you haven't misjudged? After all, you've already stated the fear that you might just be nothing more than a buddy.

If you plan on dating a person, you're best bet is to STOP reading about other people's bullshit.

Have the wits to realize that happy people aren't coming here ... only the female chucklefucks who have such entitlement issues that they can't past their own nose, come here to post their bullshit because they haven't the ability to rationalize.

It's the fucked up women who come here to say this kind of shit about men .... you'd be wise to know that. And furthermore, why are you in your 40's and you don't know that?

Posted by VirgoFlirt
you know get the mutual friend to come up to both of you and say, hey you guys look good together—??

wtf?

Now, that's ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ a person who plays head games, right there !!!

Posted by LibraBalance

..... I'm scared of actually doing it but I'm also scared it's a turn off for a Virgo.

YOU are the one who is in fear. then you turn around and proclaim that it's him, who must fear.

How insecure of you.

A Virgo isn't turned off by a confident woman .... who the fuck are you listening to?

You could start by using some brain cells. Because if he catches wind of how ridiculous you are in this passive aggressive bullshit ... he'll run. But, not because he's afraid .. he'll run to get away from a fool.

If you plan on being with a Virgo, I would suggest you stop listening to the bitter women losers, who project their bullshit out, rather than actual Virgo traits.

Just KISS.

P.S. Keep It Simple Silly!

Should I ask out my Virgo Male Crush?

NO

I wish I had a dollar for every Libra woman I've heard of approaching a Virgo man - I could retire early. WTF? Your IDEA of him is not the reality, trust me; if you manage to snag him, you'll both be sorry for it later. IF you can keep it casual, the sex can be great: He's sharp enough to read your fantasies, and is willing to please - often.

Posted by ShakenNotStirred
Should I ask out my Virgo Male Crush?

NO

I wish I had a dollar for every Libra woman I've heard of approaching a Virgo man - I could retire early. WTF? Your IDEA of him is not the reality, trust me; if you manage to snag him, you'll both be sorry for it later. IF you can keep it casual, the sex can be great: He's sharp enough to read your fantasies, and is willing to please - often.

That's depressing. It sounds to me like the OP is looking for more than just a physical relationship to satisfy her sexual needs! What is with people suggesting sexual relationships over actual relationships that may involve sex?! Gosh darnit.

Posted by LilyBlossom
Just KISS.

P.S. Keep It Simple Silly!

spoken like an aries 😛

I feel like Virgo men prefer to be approached...you will be waiting quite some time if you want him to make the move...what's the worst that can happen, rejection...you'll survive...read the signs, if you think he's interested...just ask him out...