When you are really angry with your Taurus man

What is the right thing/things to say and/or do if you were really angry with your Taurus man ?

What would you like to say to him? You should tell the jury about why you need to have a heartfelt chat that something is wrong. Because sometimes we're not aware of things..

Posted by busyeyes88
Do not get emotional or angry but state your case in a logical non emotional way. To the point and straightforward. Do not take his bs and make him know that his bs is non acceptable! He may not like it but he will listen and if he respect you, he will take on board what you have said and state as such.

You must not get emotional or the taurus will run back to his "man cave" and will stay there till God knows when...

this is so useful .. thank u so much for making things clear to me .. i usually become so confused and don't know what to do ..
i have a question though .. should i call him and talk like nothing happened ? then later at the afternoon i'll have that logical talk about what he did .
or should i have the logical talk first thing in the morning then we get to the usual us later ?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
What would you like to say to him? You should tell the jury about why you need to have a heartfelt chat that something is wrong. Because sometimes we're not aware of things..

i often get angry with my Taurus man and i really get confused about what is the right thing to do.
nothing happened this time , it was just a general question about future fights Š

Posted by missyaa1986

Posted by busyeyes88
Do not get emotional or angry but state your case in a logical non emotional way. To the point and straightforward. Do not take his bs and make him know that his bs is non acceptable! He may not like it but he will listen and if he respect you, he will take on board what you have said and state as such.

You must not get emotional or the taurus will run back to his "man cave" and will stay there till God knows when...

this is so useful .. thank u so much for making things clear to me .. i usually become so confused and don't know what to do ..
i have a question though .. should i call him and talk like nothing happened ? then later at the afternoon i'll have that logical talk about what he did .
or should i have the logical talk first thing in the morning then we get to the usual us later ?

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Don't act like nothing is wrong if something is unless you want to spend the rest of your SHORT relationship with this Taurus guy that way. I made this mistake. Now, I'd talk it out with him and let him know my feelings. If you know his moon sign that would help you even more to make a decision.

Live and let live and yes I sometimes fret about what's wrong if I don't hear enough communication, probably opening up.

What Busy said ^^ wish i knew it before 😄 but nwm now
Be calm and say everything that bothers you..

Oh @Busy what if he is always making jokes? That really pissed me sometimes.. I was all serious, wanted to talk to him seroiusly about some problems, and he makes jokes.. Not insulting ones.. But tries to make laugh and not to be so serious.. And he menaged to do that every single time, and i forget about the problem...
@OP dont get fooled by their sweet talk!! Dont let them make you laugh!! Monsters!! 😄 JK, love bulls

I think it's very unreasonable that a person is being told that they should NEVER express their emotional selves ... rather, robotically, without feelings. this woman is being told not to feel, nor express her feelings .. she is being told to not be her, because he will refuse to deal with her being a female.


If that is the case, then all women should just stay clear ... and go find a man who appreciates and understands women.


Let all the male Bulls have relationships with other men, since it is being counselled that females should act like men (emotionally).

Posted by missyaa1986

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
What would you like to say to him? You should tell the jury about why you need to have a heartfelt chat that something is wrong. Because sometimes we're not aware of things..

i often get angry with my Taurus man and i really get confused about what is the right thing to do.
nothing happened this time , it was just a general question about future fights Š

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I often get angry with my Taurus , then that to many times, no point try to find the the achilles heel, some "try" to control the bull , emotionally or with anger, it likes the old classic fable with the wind & the sun

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Posted by missyaa1986

Posted by busyeyes88
Do not get emotional or angry but state your case in a logical non emotional way. To the point and straightforward. Do not take his bs and make him know that his bs is non acceptable! He may not like it but he will listen and if he respect you, he will take on board what you have said and state as such.

You must not get emotional or the taurus will run back to his "man cave" and will stay there till God knows when...

this is so useful .. thank u so much for making things clear to me .. i usually become so confused and don't know what to do ..
i have a question though .. should i call him and talk like nothing happened ? then later at the afternoon i'll have that logical talk about what he did .
or should i have the logical talk first thing in the morning then we get to the usual us later ?

Don't act like nothing is wrong if something is unless you want to spend the rest of your SHORT relationship with this Taurus guy that way. I made this mistake. Now, I'd talk it out with him and let him know my feelings. If you know his moon sign that would help you even more to make a decision.

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I used to hide what i feel and it really didn't work
i told him exactly what bothered me today and im waiting for the results
thanks for the great advice

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Live and let live and yes I sometimes fret about what's wrong if I don't hear enough communication, probably opening up.

today we talked about what made me angry
then texted him to explain some more
i think opening up and communicating is the best approach since everything else really didn't work

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by missyaa1986

Posted by busyeyes88
Do not get emotional or angry but state your case in a logical non emotional way. To the point and straightforward. Do not take his bs and make him know that his bs is non acceptable! He may not like it but he will listen and if he respect you, he will take on board what you have said and state as such.

You must not get emotional or the taurus will run back to his "man cave" and will stay there till God knows when...

this is so useful .. thank u so much for making things clear to me .. i usually become so confused and don't know what to do ..
i have a question though .. should i call him and talk like nothing happened ? then later at the afternoon i'll have that logical talk about what he did .
or should i have the logical talk first thing in the morning then we get to the usual us later ?

I am dealing with a taurus myself and I hide nothing from him. Every emotion I feel I tell him. Even when he has pissed me off which was recent so I made it clear to him that behaviour was not acceptable to me.. We ironed out the difference there and then. He already knew he was in the "dog house" before I voiced my concerns so was already feeling guilty but I don't care. I will voice my opinions and he accepts this and I am dogmatic too. So we settled things and to my surprise he called me out of the blue the following evening. He was a tired as a dog and I could tell this from his voice he had not slept for almost 24 hours. I appreciated his call and told him so.

Never brush something under the carpet (that's what a sag does! Lol). If you have to contact him contact him for a specific reason then mention what you are unhappy about. Or if you communicate via text. Tell him via text then speak to him about it in a diplomatic mature manner in person. Open communication is important to a taurus. Lots of taurus have placements in gemini.

My taurus crush has a venus in Gem and I have Jupiter in Gem. Also look to the Moon with regards to his emotions. My taurus crush moon is in sag and mine is in leo!

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i'm never brushing anything under the carpet ever again
it really didn't work
for he asks me (what's wrong ?) like all the time
and when i answer ( nothing ) he becomes angry
today was the first time to talk about what was bothering me

Posted by hera
What Busy said ^^ wish i knew it before 😄 but nwm now
Be calm and say everything that bothers you..

Oh @Busy what if he is always making jokes? That really pissed me sometimes.. I was all serious, wanted to talk to him seroiusly about some problems, and he makes jokes.. Not insulting ones.. But tries to make laugh and not to be so serious.. And he menaged to do that every single time, and i forget about the problem...
@OP dont get fooled by their sweet talk!! Dont let them make you laugh!! Monsters!! 😄 JK, love bulls

He really did that when i talked seriously
he made jokes and laughed all the time
how do i talk to him about what makes me angry and upset when he laughes all the way ?
i still have to learn so much about my Taurus man

Posted by P-Angel

I think it's very unreasonable that a person is being told that they should NEVER express their emotional selves ... rather, robotically, without feelings. this woman is being told not to feel, nor express her feelings .. she is being told to not be her, because he will refuse to deal with her being a female.


If that is the case, then all women should just stay clear ... and go find a man who appreciates and understands women.


Let all the male Bulls have relationships with other men, since it is being counselled that females should act like men (emotionally).

but if we get angry or emotional he will not listen clearly
when i talked all calm and logical he listened and felt guilty

Posted by Impulsv
Speak ur mind n do t walk on eggshells because u didn't do it their way! Who the fuck cares about their way
What about ur way!

Speaking my mind really worked
i wasn't afraid or confused
i just did it
thanks ðŸ‘

Posted by TaurusGirlRas
Logic only

its really the best advice
thanks ðŸ‘

Posted by Koniucha

Posted by missyaa1986

Posted by hera
What Busy said ^^ wish i knew it before 😄 but nwm now
Be calm and say everything that bothers you..

Oh @Busy what if he is always making jokes? That really pissed me sometimes.. I was all serious, wanted to talk to him seroiusly about some problems, and he makes jokes.. Not insulting ones.. But tries to make laugh and not to be so serious.. And he menaged to do that every single time, and i forget about the problem...
@OP dont get fooled by their sweet talk!! Dont let them make you laugh!! Monsters!! 😄 JK, love bulls

He really did that when i talked seriously
he made jokes and laughed all the time
how do i talk to him about what makes me angry and upset when he laughes all the way ?
i still have to learn so much about my Taurus man

Smack him

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oh that will make me so happy ‚‚‚‚‚

Posted by missyaa1986

but if we get angry or emotional he will not listen clearly

when i talked all calm and logical he listened and felt guilty

there's a difference between expressing your emotions and being emotional or angry.

If a guy cannot handle that a woman NEEDS to be expressive in how she feels, then that's his bad, and not her duty to morph into another person to suit his inability to cope.

What is being proposed by the responders is that the female MUST change who she is emotionally, and how she needs to process through her emotional life with him on his terms only .... or the consequence to pay for not adhering to this demand is ignorance of you.


How absurd and what kind of entitlement issues is that fucked up shit.


I'm married to an Earth man, and he would NEVER put a threat of relationship and security on me simply because I am female and so have to process the happenings of my life as such. If this is how a Taurus is ... then they're a fucked up bunch. They cannot even manage to allow a woman to feel her way to him, and express herself as such?


That is, assuming that you have control over yourself, and not a naggy miserable bitch, needing constant valdation, and approval from him.

missyaa1986 - yes I think logical and calm if possible and the main thing is to get it out - don't hold it in - I think Taurus can deal with it no matter what

not sure anyone needs to be afraid to speak what is on their mind - ever -

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Posted by missyaa1986

but if we get angry or emotional he will not listen clearly

when i talked all calm and logical he listened and felt guilty

there's a difference between expressing your emotions and being emotional or angry.

If a guy cannot handle that a woman NEEDS to be expressive in how she feels, then that's his bad, and not her duty to morph into another person to suit his inability to cope.

What is being proposed by the responders is that the female MUST change who she is emotionally, and how she needs to process through her emotional life with him on his terms only .... or the consequence to pay for not adhering to this demand is ignorance of you.


How absurd and what kind of entitlement issues is that fucked up shit.


I'm married to an Earth man, and he would NEVER put a threat of relationship and security on me simply because I am female and so have to process the happenings of my life as such. If this is how a Taurus is ... then they're a fucked up bunch. They cannot even manage to allow a woman to feel her way to him, and express herself as such?


That is, assuming that you have control over yourself, and not a naggy miserable bitch, needing constant valdation, and approval from him.

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It is so true what you said .. all of it .
expressing your emotions and feelings is the healthy way
otherwise it will be impossible to continue a relationship

Posted by tcta
missyaa1986 - yes I think logical and calm if possible and the main thing is to get it out - don't hold it in - I think Taurus can deal with it no matter what

not sure anyone needs to be afraid to speak what is on their mind - ever -

true
we should get it out
holding things in made me sad and miserable

I'm the worst person to ask because I'm a Taurus and my ex was a Taurus and it was a massive explosion of anger when one would get mad, the other would follow. But he always made peace.. Me not so much.

Love and hate relationship with a cow and bull, it's nice..

But so similar however you still wish to open communication when shit hits the fan and compromise. A friendship should be two sided anyways.

@Op - hope you guys work it out, if not stay friends. Or move on because you have had the chance to talk to him and see where his mind is and yours..

Attitude is everything. .