how to win over this taurus male? help me

Ok so I'm dating this taurus male for over a month now. Just fyi, he chased after me first. But then it got soooo.. confusing!
One moment he'd be all over me doing all the right things, a moment later just *poof* he's gone and I wouldn't hear anything from him for next couple days.

What is it with taurus guys— Also what should I really do if he disappeared like that? I mean does he want me to try contact him a little or should I just leave him alone until he come back??

I reaaaaaaaaally like this guy so I'll do whatever it takes to win him over. Spare me some tips, maybe?

It has to happen without fixing too much of a person to get with a Taurus. You don't have to be perfect persay. Just have some respect, morals, values, and stick to it when it gets hard..only time can tell...lots of time.

Does he have an air mercury or moon? Do you have a fixed mercury or moon?

@Op- Are you really dating a month and already wondering why he's disappeared? Are you sure he asked you out to be his gff? Because we don't play disappearing acts when interested or your my SO?

I go for the obvious, maybe he has other things in his life, maybe he thought your actions made the chase a one way street , if he feels your a attention seeker for males,he will back off, but would tell to,if you make time for a taurean,they will appreciate that, i can only speak for myself but if I took a lady out to dinner and she spent most of her time on her mobile, that relationship long term is dead, taureans took at the big picture, they put alot into someone, they need indication, the ground is secure.Send him a message not by mobile, by card would by classy to an event,nothing embarrassing.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Op- Are you really dating a month and already wondering why he's disappeared? Are you sure he asked you out to be his gff? Because we don't play disappearing acts when interested or your my SO?

Yes. He asked me to be his girlfriend bold and straight. I agreed to it.
He's really gentle with me and treated me like his precious person but then he disappeared then reappeared again like no big deal and then he'd disappear again so on and on.

He did talk about future with me a lot. He told me about how serious he is with me and so I made it clear that I'm as serious as he is. So I'm not sure why he distancing himself once a while... any thoughts? :/

Posted by 2putITmildly
I go for the obvious, maybe he has other things in his life, maybe he thought your actions made the chase a one way street , if he feels your a attention seeker for males,he will back off, but would tell to,if you make time for a taurean,they will appreciate that, i can only speak for myself but if I took a lady out to dinner and she spent most of her time on her mobile, that relationship long term is dead, taureans took at the big picture, they put alot into someone, they need indication, the ground is secure.Send him a message not by mobile, by card would by classy to an event,nothing embarrassing.

Oh he made that clear on the first date. He told me he hates smart phone and would appreciate it if mine stays on my purse whenever I'm with him and honestly I like that idea. I got to get to know him way better that way so it's good.

Have you been intimate with him on the first date?

Posted by 2putITmildly
Have you been intimate with him on the first date?

No. We agreed to take things slow on that area

Cool.

Is this a LDR? Or do you guys live close to each other? And how long have you've know him before coming a couple?

Have you talked to about your situation? When's the last time you guys been on a date or hang out?

take it easy...dont push him, try to respect and understand him...dont make it look like you want to spend 24/7 with him...they like strong independent women, love yourself, respect him and his time, take it slow, be nice and polite, a lady
you are still in the beginning of a relationship...
what sign are you?

M presently texting a Taurus guy... He is soooooo grounded .... Hahahaha I m really enjoying his company.... Idk How its gonna work out.... Coz I hv serious trust issue... But he seems so serious n bcoz of that I let my guards down.. N we tlk abt everything starting from heaven to hell lol.... Is taurus n libra a good match?

Oh he will test you now so what have you learned on the Taurus board so far?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Is this a LDR? Or do you guys live close to each other? And how long have you've know him before coming a couple?

We live close but his job requires him to travel a lot. Last time we met was a week ago and he asked me to go see a movie tmr if he didn't get a call from his work.

I've known him for 9 years before we're dating. But we're not like close friends... just classmates in junior high and casually talking like once every couple weeks or so.

Keep it casually and go see that movie.

Posted by hera
take it easy...dont push him, try to respect and understand him...dont make it look like you want to spend 24/7 with him...they like strong independent women, love yourself, respect him and his time, take it slow, be nice and polite, a lady
you are still in the beginning of a relationship...
what sign are you?

I never really pushed him but I'm a worrier so if I hadn't heard from him for more than two days I'd try to call him once or twice just to check if he's okay. Also, I never really get all upset whenever he disappeared and reappeared. I just acted and talked to him normally. I'm doing the right thing, right?

I'm Pisces btw (hence the worrier).

One trust each other. Seriously not going to lead you on if I asked you to be mine. 2. Yeah work is everything to us and communicate while busy still.
3. Definitely worth it. You just have to be patience, loyal, and trust.

Posted by Libra8751
M presently texting a Taurus guy... He is soooooo grounded .... Hahahaha I m really enjoying his company.... Idk How its gonna work out.... Coz I hv serious trust issue... But he seems so serious n bcoz of that I let my guards down.. N we tlk abt everything starting from heaven to hell lol.... Is taurus n libra a good match?

I heard taurus and libra is difficult match but my current bf used to date a libra for over 3 years. So maybe give it a shot?

Awe it's okay to worry but if he is working alot it can be such a great feeling that you support him and he does for you.

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Posted by hera
take it easy...dont push him, try to respect and understand him...dont make it look like you want to spend 24/7 with him...they like strong independent women, love yourself, respect him and his time, take it slow, be nice and polite, a lady
you are still in the beginning of a relationship...
what sign are you?

I never really pushed him but I'm a worrier so if I hadn't heard from him for more than two days I'd try to call him once or twice just to check if he's okay. Also, I never really get all upset whenever he disappeared and reappeared. I just acted and talked to him normally. I'm doing the right thing, right?

I'm Pisces btw (hence the worrier).

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slow down, dont think so much 😄 go to the movies, have fun together 🙂 send him a msg from time to time 🙂 be positive ... it'll be fine 😄

as @FirstDecanTaurianWoman0428 said: patience, loyal and trust...

Thank you FirstDecan!
That's somehow reassuring. I really appreciate that 🙂

And yes I tried to be supportive of his job as I can. After all, the fact that he's such a hardworking man makes me fall for him even more .

and as for Libra - Taurus match...its what you make of it... 🙂

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Posted by bubblypisces

Posted by hera
take it easy...dont push him, try to respect and understand him...dont make it look like you want to spend 24/7 with him...they like strong independent women, love yourself, respect him and his time, take it slow, be nice and polite, a lady
you are still in the beginning of a relationship...
what sign are you?

I never really pushed him but I'm a worrier so if I hadn't heard from him for more than two days I'd try to call him once or twice just to check if he's okay. Also, I never really get all upset whenever he disappeared and reappeared. I just acted and talked to him normally. I'm doing the right thing, right?

I'm Pisces btw (hence the worrier).

slow down, dont think so much 😄 go to the movies, have fun together 🙂 send him a msg from time to time 🙂 be positive ... it'll be fine 😄

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Thank you! That's reassuring. I feel like I definitely can win him over 😄

Okay I have another question...

Are tauruses liars? Not like cheating but lies about things they did or will do?

YOU already have him, you guys are a couple. Lol.

Speaking since you are in a relationship already with this guy. Hm ask the right questions we will just never volunteer unless asked.

You mean do people lie to avoid hurting others or just not important enough to tell because everything is great.

@bubblypisces: hahah okie... One more question... Are Taurus ppl boastful— Lyk he boasts a lot(idk if he is trying to impress me or its his nature) .... N he does test me frm tym to tym.. Lol is that how Taurus ppl are—?
I can see right through it but honestly I don't mind.. Bt just curious... 🙂
P. S. He is the first taurus I have been frnds with... M surrounded with aries leos n libras... He stands out frm everyone else

FirstDecan: lol I mean like win him over completely.
Anyway, lie as in told me he's telling me he's going to do something but he actually won't do it.

Posted by Libra8751
@bubblypisces: hahah okie... One more question... Are Taurus ppl boastful— Lyk he boasts a lot(idk if he is trying to impress me or its his nature) .... N he does test me frm tym to tym.. Lol is that how Taurus ppl are—?
I can see right through it but honestly I don't mind.. Bt just curious... 🙂
P. S. He is the first taurus I have been frnds with... M surrounded with aries leos n libras... He stands out frm everyone else

My boyfriend did that before we started dating! He boasted about being able to do this and that, having dogs (I love dogs), and he boasted about his previous jobs, and everything to impress me indeed. Lol so yes, I think taurus are boastful.

Although they really do know what they are talking about. So it doesn't comes off as annoying to me, it's rather interesting.

🙂

Like what? What are some examples that have happened already? Haha boast maybe little bit.

Actually I have air moon so yeah I don't mean to but it's like life stories of experiences that we spread..boastful if you say so.

Hahaha! All of these threads about Taurus guys. My younger brother is a Taurus, and I can already tell he is going to be a heartbreaker. He's SUCH a handsome cutie (talk, dark, dimples...), and the girls will no doubt be chasing after him. He's very introverted and extremely focused (guitar, Japanese lessons - he loves anime, video games.) He has ZERO tolerance for stupid girls or girls who act stupid. Amazingly, when he's in a social setting, like when he's brought along to go somewhere, he socializes like a pro.

He's going to do great in life. *^___^* #proudbigsis

And, yes, he can boast a lot, but he sees it as just stating facts. He's quick to give other's credit where due. But he doesn't see it as boasting; he's actually rather humble and critical of himself. He has a cancer moon.

We boast if we know it's truth, or news feed, or knowledge, or parent's know best and share it with our SO and hope you guys do that tomorrow it is called getting to know some one and learning, adapting and a great connection to open up to one another.

Istg, while they are very charming, Taurus are also all confusing people!

My two best friends are both tauruses and now my boyfriend too but somehow I'm still failing to understand their behaviors.

Hahahahahaha..ya he is adorable.. With all that stories. He keeps on telling me...
Bt y the hell he keeps testing me.. Lyk m loyal or not... Do I have self respect or not.... If I m mature or not lol blah blah...so far passed all the tests lololol
Bt the test thing is really funny for me.. It's that their nature too?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
It has to happen without fixing too much of a person to get with a Taurus. You don't have to be perfect persay. Just have some respect, morals, values, and stick to it when it gets hard..only time can tell...lots of time.

she said stick to it when it gets hard ... remember that - because it will get hard - darn Taurus ... grabs me by the throat all the time and I hate that ... ! my bb Libra male says I over think things ... I need to tell him to tell me when I do that so I can see for myself what I am doing ... aha!

@tcta- Hm what kind of things do you over think about him? See I have Virgo in my 3rd house and an air moon, not to mention Gemini in the 12th. So boy do I over think myself hell yes but it helps to have someone say slow your roll. Lol.

Patience is a virtue..

Libra are air signs? Right@Busyeyes88??

@busyeyes88 yes. Yes pisces are clingy people, mostly. I was just worried if something bad happened to him if I hadnt heard from him. Pisces is anxious about almost anything as well.

It's not that I want him to be with me 24/7, at least text me or call me once every couple days so I'll know he's fine. I mean, doesn't he wanna know how I'm doing as well or those things aren't important to tauruses?

@busyeyes88 okay. noted. I wonder why taurus - pisces has really high compatibility when both signs are the exact opposite.

@busyeyes88: he has Pisces moon... N I have aries moon.... Bt he is the one who intitate our conv... N he talks a lotttttttttt........and I m a clingy person 😆
(I m trying to improve myself lololol).....What type of person are Pisces moon?
Oh bdw he is kind of baby sitting me lol... I didn't ask for it.. Bt he still does it.

@Op - Pisces and Taurus are rare I think the both of them can learn from each other if you are clingy, taurus will embrace it.

If you aren't showing your interests then TAURUS go abit nostalgic feelings of should I reciprocated been there done it before type. .

I don't meet Pisces alot and they are supposed to be top 3 compatible with Taurus if you look at all the astrology sites going around. And thanks to the ask a Pisces thread I am keeping my eyes open probably just for that one, followed by Capricorn...

@Busyeyes88- It's still an air sign haha. I have some planet's in Libra so not only am I earth/air anyways. It takes very minimal to set me off the wrong way right away, however I do have the dig my heels in approach and be patient and see what if and give people lots of chances before I go stone cold and leave in the dust..

Hm I have cancer rising but I want some one special to me just be there..and not cheat, no baby sitting, a little possessive is fine though... I can spot the bullshit and recognize game. You learn to recognize these traits as you get older and by the people you meet and talk to on a daily basis. So I'm very selective and limited edition always evaluating ..