Will he come back?

Ive been talking to this Taurus guy for awhile but we've only hung out twice as we're both very busy. Last night was our second time hanging out. As we were watching a movie,he tried to kiss me, and I just turned my head. Eventually he tried again and I did the same thing. Honestly, I was just so nervous that I couldn't do it...he was really offended. If i could show you guys the look on his face.He immediately took me home, I tried to explain in the car but he said we shouldn't hang out and he's "all set". I texted him to explain again but he hasn't answered. I feel so bad. What should I do?

You weren't ready to kiss him.
He is 'punishing you' because you didn't feel ready to kiss him, and the reason doesn't matter.
Don't allow him to groom you. Better yet? Consider that a Red Flag and end the connection.

Move on. lol. Especially if you didn't explain to him already that you were really nervous and that was the reason for rejection.

Posted by FixedWater
You weren't ready to kiss him.
He is 'punishing you' because you didn't feel ready to kiss him, and the reason doesn't matter.
Don't allow him to groom you. Better yet? Consider that a Red Flag and end the connection.

I definitely agree with this. Just because he can't kiss you at the time, he won't see you again? Weird.

could he be serious? weirdest thing ever..

How do you folks not understand this? If you are hanging with a chick and you think you are both into each other, then you go in for a kiss and they reject you twice? Well, there's your answer. Seems to be "I'm not into you like *that*".

*IF* its really just that she was scared, and she hasn't communicated that to him, that's on her. But so far, I would respond exactly like he did.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
How do you folks not understand this? If you are hanging with a chick and you think you are both into each other, then you go in for a kiss and they reject you twice? Well, there's your answer. Seems to be "I'm not into you like *that*".

*IF* its really just that she was scared, and she hasn't communicated that to him, that's on her. But so far, I would respond exactly like he did.

Thats the thing...I did explain..

no

Posted by mgmtlove

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
How do you folks not understand this? If you are hanging with a chick and you think you are both into each other, then you go in for a kiss and they reject you twice? Well, there's your answer. Seems to be "I'm not into you like *that*".

*IF* its really just that she was scared, and she hasn't communicated that to him, that's on her. But so far, I would respond exactly like he did.

Thats the thing...I did explain..

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We hate rejection. We are susceptible to begging/pleading for forgiveness though. Just sayin'....

TLS, seriously? You'd stop dating a girl just because she can't kiss you just yet? And saying you are susceptible to begging/pleading for forgiveness, do you mean to say she must, just to get him back into dating her?

Posted by osiris626
TLS, seriously? You'd stop dating a girl just because she can't kiss you just yet? And saying you are susceptible to begging/pleading for forgiveness, do you mean to say she must, just to get him back into dating her?

depends on the reason behind the refusal, as stated....and how well that was communicated, as stated...

and why is everyone so against begging? Its just an intensely emotional form of asking. Guess it depends on how deeply you desire the person.

Posted by Impulsv
Tests!

lol....its not, really....in her case it would be going the extra mile in expressing remorse and desire...and it would be to heal the deep rejection he feels....its almost more akin to an apology in this case...

They have just hanged out TWICE. And last night was the second time they did. What does he think of himself then? Is a 'kiss' a measure of being into someone? Last time I checked, it isn't.

Who does not hate rejection? Of course it hurts to be rejected. Even I will be hurt if I am rejected. But he could at least think of the reason why he was. Not just throw his tantrums away for not being kissed on the second date. It seems to me the guy just thinks of his hurt feelings and not even listen why the girl rejected him.

I'd expect this kind of behaviour from a teen age guy with 0 maturity, or untrained Leo Venus (oh yes I admit it) 😛

Anyhow, mgmtlove whatever you do, do not breake yourself in attempt to please him by explaining yourself. If he is a gentlemen and knows how to treat a lady and respect her, even if he is ofended with your refusal(which is to be expected), he should not acted as he did. Imo

I already explained and he didn't answer. I'm not sure if I should continue to text him a.nd continue getting ignored or worse, make him mad...

In my own opinion, this guy seems so full of himself. It is just me though.

Posted by osiris626
They have just hanged out TWICE. And last night was the second time they did. What does he think of himself then? Is a 'kiss' a measure of being into someone? Last time I checked, it isn't.

Who does not hate rejection? Of course it hurts to be rejected. Even I will be hurt if I am rejected. But he could at least think of the reason why he was. Not just throw his tantrums away for not being kissed on the second date. It seems to me the guy just thinks of his hurt feelings and not even listen why the girl rejected him.

I don't know. I can't really judge the situation based on so little info. It really all depends on how it went down, and how things were communicated at the time. Just sounds like a whole bunch of awkwardness. I think I hate rejection more than any other person I have ever met. I think bulls are really sensitive in that regard, and that's one of the reasons we *really* take our time in getting to know someone; we want to be sure its in the bag, and avoid risk. I've said here before that I've never really pursued a girl for that reason.

This story DID remind me of ONE time I tried to make an early move on a girl. Aries girl in college, and I was hanging with her in my apartment....I kept trying to creep closer to her on the couch as we were talking, and I was drinking because I was nervous and eventually had a little too much. For some strange reason, I was thinking I was going to slide up on her and put my arm around her, maybe even kiss her. And this is really the first time we were even talking. She literally slid over on the couch as I got closer. Hhahahahaha....It was so embarrassing. We actually became really good friends, but after that, even when I thought she did like me later on, I felt so insecure around her and could never even consider her as anything but a friend. Just the awkwardness of it....

What else could you need to know though? I also apologized this morning around 9...no answer. My manager told me he came to my job, to buy something, not for me. Guess he's not insecure. Idk I'm gonna leave it for now since I've already messaged him.