Ok I decided to nring this question here after reading several other threads on losing and getting a Taurus back. Long story short I did mess up with my bull in a way that would piss any human off regairdless of sign. Basically I denied him coming over, then pushed "what we were" panicked and let him know I was scared, then made him leave my bed at an ungodly time and after he called me "his girl". Then to make it worse when he called things off I said ok and wished him the best. Left him alone radio silence 4 days. after reading threads I realized the possible error in that and left him a voicemail (which he knows I wrote down before hand and was particular on because he knows my anxiety would get the best of me) apologizing, telling him i valued him, wanted to be at least friends becauae it did hurt and he was important ib my life. didn't respond, I texted following night mentioning that i couldn't stop thinking of texting him even though he never acknowledged the voicemail. I thought he ignored it but at 6:30 sat morning he apologized said he had gotten very busy and forgot to text but would think about it. I just said ok, then I read more threads on giving time, and showing loyalty so I texted this morning have a good day like I always did before nickname and all, he responded me too. So here after that not so short story is my question...how much time to I give? I would give all of it if he would let me, but i realize there is probably a line between giving time, putting myself out there and pissing him off/making him pull away more. Also, how bold do I get or not? Do I tell him little things about my day or life like I did before in random text? Do I keep it just have a great day nice weather! Do I ask about his day and life as I did before? Do I tell him I want him in my life so I am just going to put myself out there and communicate....I mean where is the line because if he were anyone else I would have just shut them out and moved on so this is new to me.
