Wondering about Taurus man, lol what else is new?

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Like a number of women on this forum, I've found myself puzzled by a Taurus man (I'm a Cap btw). We dated briefly in the summer of 2013 when we were 21 and parted ways once school began (we attended college 1300 miles from one another and live 500 miles from one another post-grad). It was short but it must've had a deep impact for us to still be speaking regularly years later I guess. Ever since that summer he's contacted me at least every two weeks, hung out when we've been in one another's hometowns (nothing beyond kissing though I'm an old fashioned cap lol) and he's always alluded to us attending graduate school in the same place. It all just seems so odd to me, we didn't have a friendship before dating so it's not as if we had any foundation to base such frequent communication on. It should also be noted that the communication is entirely on his end, I haven't initiated talking to this man in two years yet he's always there. When we parted ways years ago he said he wanted to see what could happen with us in the future and to trust his word but like any reasonable person I called that bull**** for what it was and left it at that, yet sure enough it's 2016 and his communication remains as consistent as ever. What does he want? Is he serious or is this just a mindgame? Any similar experiences?
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Posted by busyeyes88
Yes! Yes! Yes! He really really likes you! Well done for being an "old fashioned" girl"!! Taurus males love old fashioned courtship and you are still very young and I'm glad to see it is alive and kicking!

My story is the same as yours but I am twice your age!! Lol

I met my taurus 13 months ago but he was only out of a ltr six months previously and I was not in a good place after having gone through a bad LDR break up in Dec. 14. But we hung out quite a lot he took me on dates made me feel better about myself and look after me. I left his area after four months to find work we kept in touch and only kissed once during that time and our emotional bond grew stronger. We have had our disagreements/fall outs but we remain stronger than ever and both want to share a committed relationship with each other as we feel we are ready. Even when I left his area he constantly made it known to me that he was always there for me and I will never forget how he made me feel and how he looked after me until the day i die. The mere thought of him brings water to my eyes but you would never believe it as taurus folk hide our emotions deep within.

Your taurus has such strong feelings for you which lie very deep within. The surface is cool but inside is bubbling up with emotion.

FRIENDSHIP is the best way to start with a taurus and let it gradually build as long as the two people are attracted to each other which you both obviously are and get to know each other slowly. You and your taurus made a good strong connection which we never let go of once an emotional connection has been made.

If there was no emotional connection he would not have stayed on contact with you.

Do you want an eventual relationship with the taurus? Do you plan to be closer to him locationwise?
I would love to be with him eventually, a part of me is just tied to him in the strangest, strongest way. I actually just found out that I will traveling to his city for work every two weeks starting at the end of March so it'll be interesting to suddenly be close to each other so often. I'm so nervous! And yes I am very old fashioned lol no sex unless it's in a monogamous relationship. He's 6'3, handsome, and in medical school so he's not exactly the type of man who gets turned down for sex very often, it's always given me a bit a satisfaction to know that I've never allowed him to get to that level. Whatever we have between us is so different, i would've expected this level of contact from people who'd dated for years but we barely had a month together. I just wonder what caused him to attach so deeply and of course being that he's a Taurus he's not the effusive type so I may never really know lol. Is it because I've held out physically? Or maybe because I don't contact him and he enjoys the pursuit? lol who
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Posted by TauroMale
Posted by curiouscap
Posted by BG2
He likes you.
After all this time? We've only seen each other twice in the past two years. That just seems so odd to me, is this how Taurus men operate?

Lol a long "time" to you is nothing for a Taurus
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I'm so glad a Taurus male responded to this, can you give me some more insight into how you all operate in terms of time and affection? Also, I'll be seeing him for the first time in a year at the end of March and I was wondering if you had any suggestions regarding clothing/perfume/hair. Your advice would be literally invaluable. I know everyone says Taurus men like feminine women but I need specifics, I want this man's jaw to hit the f***ing floor when he sees me.
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Posted by busyeyes88
OP, as a taurus woman and my crush being taurus, taurus males being old fashioned like their woman to look like ladies!! Venus is the sign of all things beautiful ie "glossy" eg.

Dress
Heels
Glossy hair,
hint of make up (has to look natural)
enhance your assets (big bust wear v neck dress or top not too low)
Smell great - layering (shower gel / soap, lotion and perfume in one scent which will make the scent stay on longer)
Clean shoes /matching accessories including handbag
Elegance
White teeth = great smile
If you wear trousers make sure your top is feminine (not a jumper!) with a light chiffon material (v neck if you have a big bust)

I can't highlight enough how feminine taurus males like their women to be. They are lusty visual creatures. You have to look good enough to eat!!!

Sorry I'm not a taurus male
Don't apologize!! I appreciate your detailed advice too! I should've worded my response to TauroMale a bit differently. Your responses have been absolutely amazing busyeyes