Ladies would you ever platonically say......

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to another female friend of yours that you liked them from the very beginning?

I had a close friend tell me this once.. at the time I didn't put much weight on it in terms of indicating any real romantic interest on her part.....

now I'm having seconds thoughts about it.
Platonic friend? No I won't. I'm straight tho...

I would say something like that ONLY if I want them to know I feel something more than friendship with them... It's a light flirty way of showing interest imo.

Do you like her?
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Not anymore.

I had strong romantic feelings for her in the very beginning of our friendship

but I never wanted to have sex with her.

she tried to initiate something a couple of times throughout our 10 yr long friendship...mostly when she was drunk or under the influence of something else.

i always just wanted to cuddle though.

during our the first two years of friendship

we'd tell each other i love you a lot...talk about being soulmates...etc
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Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
to another female friend of yours that you liked them from the very beginning?

I had a close friend tell me this once.. at the time I didn't put much weight on it in terms of indicating any real romantic interest on her part.....

now I'm having seconds thoughts about it.
Platonic friend? No I won't. I'm straight tho...

I would say something like that ONLY if I want them to know I feel something more than friendship with them... It's a light flirty way of showing interest imo.

Do you like her?
Not anymore.

I had strong romantic feelings for her in the very beginning of our friendship

but I never wanted to have sex with her.

she tried to initiate something a couple of times throughout our 10 yr long friendship...mostly when she was drunk or under the influence of something else.

i always just wanted to cuddle though.

during our the first two years of friendship

we'd tell each other i love you a lot...talk about being soulmates...etc
Awww

I feel people show a side of themself that they are afraid to show otherwise when drunk... Being drunk is just an excuse

Looks like she wanted more than a romantic relationship... Must have been difficult for her then!

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Yeah maybe that's why she isn't talking to me anymore