Your favorite courting style?

I find that I prefer a guy to be aloof at first.
Then it progresses to him being very direct and straightforward.
A charming, gentlemen who opens doors and shows common courtesies.
Not openly affectionate in the beginning.
Then progressing to constant touching.
Smiling and giving direct eye contact.

I like to give direct eye contact and sometimes sit in silence.
At first I am not very affectionate, I will be very aloof and observant.

Then I will disappear for a few days after he makes his interest apparent.
I will come back, more direct and straightforward, leaning toward sexually suggestive and openly interested.
At this point I will be extremely affectionate, warm and verbal.

Then disappear for a few days and come back shy, quiet, demure and aloof....
Rinse, repeat.

Sun - Cancer
Venus - Leo
Mars - Aries

State your Sun, Venus and Mars.

So you like coquettish flirting style Ands?

Yea I am a combination of both direct and indirect.
Depending on the chemistry with the guy.
It's not something I plan it's just my personality.
Being moon ruled yet fire dominant.

I like starting off with an unsaid but super obvious interest to date like 'Man, you're really cute, here, let me text you all the time and say cute things'. Frequent talking and hanging out is preferable rather than a 'i'm going to wait a certain amount of time and then act'. Spending a lot of time with/on me is a good sign that you're actually serious and the not waiting tells me that you're unlikely to be in to playing games and prefer open, honest communication (unless the waiting was actually unintentional). Then, verbalizing your feelings and intentions (I like you, will you go out with me?), unless I get to it first.

Overall, I like plans plans plans and knowing things, not wondering about them. If a guy can appease those parts of me regardless of whether he follows the above scenario, it's likely he'll be good in my book!

Sun pisces, venus aries, mars cancer

I like the 'bad guy but secretly good guy' movie type romance. Unfortunately, it doesn't always work like that, people ruin it by being too interested. JUST PLAY MY GAME DAMN IT.

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Posted by JROI
I like the 'bad guy but secretly good guy' movie type romance. Unfortunately, it doesn't always work like that, people ruin it by being too interested. JUST PLAY MY GAME DAMN IT.

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Too interested? What's your sun, venus and mars?

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Haha, yeah, I can't chase them if they're not running. 😛

Sun Aries, Venus Taurus and Mars Gemini