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any ladies get turned on when a man refers to himself in private as daddy?

is this a daddy issue?

my man does this and admittedly it turns me on. kind of a rare thing when he does it, but every time, it's a lil shocking to me that i like it.

what's this say about the men who do it?

men who've wandered from the cave, feel free to chime in.

No. It doesn't turn me on. I actually, find it creepy. Not only does it make me think of father/daughter molestation, but it's also like talking about himself in the third person, which is weird.

That said, it doesn't mean I think you're wrong for getting excited by it. I don't have a problem when other couples use it, just saying it doesn't turn me on.

Now, when referring to the father of the family, I see it's common place and natural. Like the wife and kids calling him Big Daddy and the mom is called Momma by the husband and kids - that's the natural progression of a family.

Posted by truecap
No. It doesn't turn me on. I actually, find it creepy. Not only does it make me think of father/daughter molestation, but it's also like talking about himself in the third person, which is weird.

That said, it doesn't mean I think you're wrong for getting excited by it. I don't have a problem when other couples use it, just saying it doesn't turn me on.

Now, when referring to the father of the family, I see it's common place and natural. Like the wife and kids calling him Big Daddy and the mom is called Momma by the husband and kids - that's the natural progression of a family.

makes sense. i never, to my memory at least, called my own dad "daddy." and the thought of calling my dad "daddy" weirds me out. really really weirds me out. i'm sure this has something to do with it.

Posted by Fox
i want to kiss the birdy in your pic on the head.

😛 lil bugger looks like he needs a kiss, right?

Posted by e11e
It offends me and secretly turns me on at the same time.

It's so offensive...I think that's why. *shrugs*

I don't have any 'daddy issues' that I'm aware of.

it is a lil twisted. i don't think i have daddy issues either. my dad and i have had a great relationship always, save for those teenage years, but who didn't struggle with their parents then?

i think if my bf were much older than me, i'd be creeped out, but he's a yr n a half older than me, so for us... there's less freudian undertone i guess and more novelty.

Posted by Fox
I love little birds ugh. Whenever I see a wee robin my heart melts.

awe, you n me both! i see more and more of them as we get further into spring. makes my entire day when i hear them sing too.

I can see myself being referred to as "Father", in the same way a preacher or Yahweh of the bible is referred to. But only to the public, not as some sort of sexual thing or a pet name or whatever. And not "daddy". First off it's "cute", and I aint cute. Secondly it's just weird to me all around.

I think it's disgusting to sexualize the relationship a father and daughter (and vice versa) have. Even if it is for fun.

Very interesting responses. So what about every other couple that refers to each other as baby or my baby?

How is this different?

it sounds gross to be honest.

i saw it on films and stuff, "who's your daddy?" kind of thing. it's dumb.

and doesn't even 'secretly' turn me on at all. it grosses me out completely.

hm now that i think of it, my husband Always calls me "honey". Never baby. Sometimes, in foreign languages that means, "sweetheart"

Posted by CreepyPants

Posted by Fox
I love little birds ugh. Whenever I see a wee robin my heart melts.

awe, you n me both! i see more and more of them as we get further into spring. makes my entire day when i hear them sing too.

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AWW that is so cute. i wuv birdies and all animals. they're so lovable and sweet.

should sing a song, "chirp chirp lovey dovey" singing to your lover. lol

bird 2: "no i got you, babe."

bird 1: "we got no daddies."

bird 2: "we got no mommies."

both birds: "but we got eachother!!!"

what happened to the vid?

I've never thought of "daddy" in a relationship as meaning literally your daddy.

More like the boss, leader, etc.

Guys I know say this to each other during competition. I'm your daddy = I own you (my bitch).

I think y'all are reading into this way too much with the incest angle.

Posted by CapTenn
I've never thought of "daddy" in a relationship as meaning literally your daddy.

More like the boss, leader, etc.

Guys I know say this to each other during competition. I'm your daddy = I own you (my bitch).

I think y'all are reading into this way too much with the incest angle.

i was thinking about this too yesterday. similar to any other pet name, like "baby," the terms aren't used for any literal definition. It's not like I respond back to my bf calling myself his daughter, lol. He doesn't have kids, so he's not an actual father, but one day he and i are hoping to make a parent out of the other. IF there were any literal reference, it would be that.

Ironically it irks me only when I hear it in the right context, doesn't bother me as pillow talk.

E.g. every time I hear it in a movie or whatever in the right context, I always find myself thinking for a microsecond, "hmm where are they going with this?" "why is a 15-year old girl calling her Dad 'daddy'?" Annoying... especially if she sounds like Britney Spears on bubblegum.

??

I do not think it is "that" weird.
I guess almost all forbidden stuff can be more attractive to some people just because the are not allowed to do that.
Mostly only in your fantasies, sometimes in your real life as well.

I think it's kinda icky myself. I'm a grown woman and don't want or need a "daddy", especially in the bedroom. Ewww.

Posted by Prince_Pisces
Yes, it's hot

lmao. 😄

It's probably weird to go,

"I'm your equal baby!!! yeah EQUALITY!! sooo hot!"

Hid the above comment because it didn't post right.

That kind of interaction would have me running full speed the other direction. And what you described is EXACTLY a father/daughter dynamic, I don't care what you call it. Nope, not for me. I like when a man can be a man, but he MUST respect my own sense of authority over myself.

That's just too much, and if he tried to do that shit with me in the bedroom, I'd probably laugh my ass off, get dressed, and go home.

Dominant

Posted by CreepyPants
any ladies get turned on when a man refers to himself in private as daddy?

is this a daddy issue?

my man does this and admittedly it turns me on. kind of a rare thing when he does it, but every time, it's a lil shocking to me that i like it.

what's this say about the men who do it?

men who've wandered from the cave, feel free to chime in.

lol… maybe the moment called him to say that, especially if it’s a rare occasion thing.

If the sexual vibe calls him to say such a thing, I think I’d focus more on the pleasure he gets from saying it and it would excite me to get on the same wavelength.

It’s good to explore on your sexual dynamic. Don’t be afraid of it and just enjoy it.

it prob would feel weird if my dad's still alive 🤔🤔

but that's what my husband prefers to be called 🤷🤷

and growing up, that's what my Virgo aunt called my Aries uncle

also more sensible since we have a child who copies what we call each other

Posted by CreepyPants
any ladies get turned on when a man refers to himself in private as daddy?

is this a daddy issue?

my man does this and admittedly it turns me on. kind of a rare thing when he does it, but every time, it's a lil shocking to me that i like it.

what's this say about the men who do it?

men who've wandered from the cave, feel free to chime in.

Not if he is my age. But older men like men that remind me of ... the 50s

Like men 60-65-70 plus... it erm hits a nerve. Any younger tho .. ew. He has to be smooth tho. And well preserved. Nothing weird like surgery tho and deffo has to have white hair. Erm yeah it hits a nerve. 😛

It's like i think men this age are going to be the perfect gentleman for some reason. I dunno they like talking more and .. are easier to talk to.

I think they would be more romantic at that age. That is my fantasy anyway. I think they would be safe drivers on the road. And older men are easier to talk to I feel more relaxed like there is less judgement they are just nicer.

Think Frank Sinatra and Mia Farrow. Lol

Or Andy Williams.

AHEM.... Yeah it erm hits a nerve.. ahem..

in real life tho older men are probably just as bad as younger ones if in diff ways lol

In my experience it's when "daddy" turns to "dad" that things get weird

As some one with real daddy issues (looked for my father in partners and friends etc) no. This is a turn off. In fact, the idea that I subconsciously looked for my father in partners and friends is cringe enough. The truth is tough. Being self aware and catching yourself in the act of searching for your parents and partners Etc is the first step to realizing how f****** cringe and disgusting it is

Yeah it's a near deal breaker for me. I've noticed there's certain personalities that will like it. Also any role playing or anything fantastical gives me bad vibes. I'm more of a realist.

If you're mentally 12 and have no kids.

'Who's your daddy'.

'Fuck me daddy'.

Nah