Virgo man has too much baggage

After reconnecting with Virgo man after he disappeared now I’m seeing why we drifted apart in the first place. I keep hearing that Virgo man always go back to their ex or never get over their ex. My Virgo man told me that he hates his ex wife because of her parenting skills but he get so worked up and it seems like he thinks the situation is hopeless. I feel love for him but I just don’t like his past relationships or even talking about it. We talk about everything but I can’t stand the situations he is in and his ex and her inability to raise their kid. She 40+ and he pays half of her rent! He talks about her profession but she just lost her job it’s irritating. Do Virgo man really like woman who are this messed up?

I feel like I have a strong personality but the difference is her life is a mess! So she constantly has a sob story for him and put him in situations where he has to take care of the situation or figure out a way. It’s crazy I really hate it. He speaks well of her as far as the job she has but in my mind I’m like this bitch is a failure she can’t survive even after half her rent in being paid its so frustrating but he puts down my ex like my ex is bum. I’ve had to tell him multiple times even though me and my ex was not together he was the first man that taught how a man is suppose to treat a woman. I don’t know if he goes back to her then it is what it is but it’s his lost! She is a bum

He says that he doesn’t want her because he can’t tell when she is lying. To me that’s sign he is in love with her he blindly trust her

I have kids and is currently divorced the point is why talk about someone who is a failure in a way to make them seem better. She is 40+ and can’t maintain a household we are just friends at this point I don’t want to be with someone who has these types of issues she is grown he already pay half of her rent but now she lost her job and he has to pay everything it’s disgusting in my opinion you learn a lot about a person through their past relationships and to me it’s a weakness to date a woman like that

Posted by FknTrash
If he wanted to be with her, he would be. He has to take responsibility for her because he has a kid with her. What do you want him to do? Have his kid get taken away from her? You just sound jealous because he's not willing to abandon the people that are his family... Thats how that works. Date people who havent been married or dont have kids if you cant handle it.

His mars is in cancer

Posted by FknTrash
Does he have any strong cancer placements? Those people keep their baby momma/daddies in their life and support them when they can.

You really understand me! I’m a grown ass woman its no way I would live off my ex I have children and I was a stay home mom for seven years but now that I’m single I take care everything my ex helps but for the main part is me being an independent person doing my job I can’t understand somebody who is not so that’s my problem she have to find her own way he can help but But I don’t feel comfortable with him paying all her bills to help her

Posted by Impulsv
So many divorced men who are not tied to exes
Even with children it is minimal contact
I’d find me that one
She can’t afford her place she can move in with her mother like many woman do. Or relative

Posted by FknTrash

Posted by Scorpiogirl30
His mars is in cancer

Posted by FknTrash
Does he have any strong cancer placements? Those people keep their baby momma/daddies in their life and support them when they can.

Nice. I love cancer mars men. Theyre a lot like cancer moon women. Once you have their kid, youre stuck with them in your life forever.

Today we talked and I told him my frustrations I just feel like I want to protect him from this it’s crazy but I see his point of view I appreciate that he is the type of man who wants better for his kids he stressed that he didn’t ask for this and now in a hopeless situation he has to do what’s best for his son. I totally get it but it’s a ugly situation that he feels stuck in this position he said he don’t want her and I get it but with his kid she has so much power over him and that’s what I can’t accept