
**StringsAttached**
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Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by ilove2bATaurus
What should I do to assure him that I support him in this.click to expand
IL2BAT, are you serious?? If I'm dating a man who says he loves me (forever) and he's . . . doing what with his ex-wife and kids? Going to ball games? Going to school plays? Having pizza? (Please specify.) At any rate, this is outrageous. It's one thing for a child to have a school event and for both parents to show up (separately) in support of their child (and he loves you forever but . . . you ain't invited??) But it's quite another for him to be off cavorting with his ex-wife and children (like a family, for Pete's sake) with you nowhere around. I'd slam a lid on that faster than he could think up a reason!
As someone mentioned on the other thread, yes, he will always be connected to his ex-wife through his children, but that doesn't mean they have to operate as a unit, especially to the exclusion of you. And, yes, Virgos may be strongly oriented toward their families but that's just it. THEY AREN'T A FAMILY ANYMORE. The "ex"-factor sort of takes care of all that quite automatically. I'd be highly suspicious and wanting some answers PDQ. In fact, I'd want a lot more than mere answers. I suspect (a) he's either sleeping with her, (b) she's very controlling and still has him wrapped around her finger and he doesn't want her to know about you because he fears consequences, (c) he's still emotionally attached to her/the whole "family" thing, or (d) any number of reasons, none of which I would accept as valid.
When you end a relationship and begin another, you don't "do things" with your ex and your kids as a unit (comparable to how you once operated as a family), let alone without your new lady in tow. That just turns my gut. It's nice they get along for their children's sake and that they've remained amicable. But he's off "doing things" with her and you haven't even met her? Here, sniff this. (I'm passing smelling salts under your nose.)
Again, if what they're "doing together" is visiting the lawyer to discuss legalities or speaking to the school teacher at a conference regarding their child's welfa

Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by ilove2bATaurus
What should I do to assure him that I support him in this.click to expand
IL2BAT, are you serious?? If I'm dating a man who says he loves me (forever) and he's . . . doing what with his ex-wife and kids? Going to ball games? Going to school plays? Having pizza? (Please specify.) At any rate, this is outrageous. It's one thing for a child to have a school event and for both parents to show up (separately) in support of their child (and he loves you forever but . . . you ain't invited??) But it's quite another for him to be off cavorting with his ex-wife and children (like a family, for Pete's sake) with you nowhere around. I'd slam a lid on that faster than he could think up a reason!
As someone mentioned on the other thread, yes, he will always be connected to his ex-wife through his children, but that doesn't mean they have to operate as a unit, especially to the exclusion of you. And, yes, Virgos may be strongly oriented toward their families but that's just it. THEY AREN'T A FAMILY ANYMORE. The "ex"-factor sort of takes care of all that quite automatically. I'd be highly suspicious and wanting some answers PDQ. In fact, I'd want a lot more than mere answers. I suspect (a) he's either sleeping with her, (b) she's very controlling and still has him wrapped around her finger and he doesn't want her to know about you because he fears consequences, (c) he's still emotionally attached to her/the whole "family" thing, or (d) any number of reasons, none of which I would accept as valid.
When you end a relationship and begin another, you don't "do things" with your ex and your kids as a unit (comparable to how you once operated as a family), let alone without your new lady in tow. That just turns my gut. It's nice they get along for their children's sake and that they've remained amicable. But he's off "doing things" with her and you haven't even met her? Here, sniff this. (I'm passing smelling salts under your nose.)
Again, if what they're "doing together" is visiting the lawyer to

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Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by ilove2bATaurus
What should I do to assure him that I support him in this.
When you end a relationship and begin another, you don't "do things" with your ex and your kids as a unit (comparable to how you once operated as a family), let alone without your new lady in tow.click to expand
Wow! So cool! I can actually shorten it!
Anyway, Sanity 101 for all us Virgs that y'all so adore. 🙂


Posted by **StringsAttached**
I can do that all day or:
Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by ilove2bATaurus
What should I do to assure him that I support him in this.
When you end a relationship and begin another, you don't "do things" with your ex and your kids as a unit (comparable to how you once operated as a family), let alone without your new lady in tow.
Wow! So cool! I can actually shorten it!
Anyway, Sanity 101 for all us Virgs that y'all so adore. 🙂click to expand

Posted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
I can do that all day or:
Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by ilove2bATaurus
What should I do to assure him that I support him in this.
When you end a relationship and begin another, you don't "do things" with your ex and your kids as a unit (comparable to how you once operated as a family), let alone without your new lady in tow.
Wow! So cool! I can actually shorten it!
Anyway, Sanity 101 for all us Virgs that y'all so adore. 🙂
You mean like that?click to expand

Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
I can do that all day or:
Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by ilove2bATaurus
What should I do to assure him that I support him in this.
When you end a relationship and begin another, you don't "do things" with your ex and your kids as a unit (comparable to how you once operated as a family), let alone without your new lady in tow.
Wow! So cool! I can actually shorten it!
Anyway, Sanity 101 for all us Virgs that y'all so adore. 🙂
You mean like that?
Or, do you mean like this?click to expand

Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
I can do that all day or:
Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by ilove2bATaurus
What should I do to assure him that I support him in this.
When you end a relationship and begin another, you don't "do things" with your ex and your kids as a unit (comparable to how you once operated as a family), let alone without your new lady in tow.
Wow! So cool! I can actually shorten it!
Anyway, Sanity 101 for all us Virgs that y'all so adore. 🙂
You mean like that?
Or, do you mean like this?
Maybe people like to quoteclick to expand

Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
I can do that all day or:
Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by ilove2bATaurus
What should I do to assure him that I support him in this.
When you end a relationship and begin another, you don't "do things" with your ex and your kids as a unit (comparable to how you once operated as a family), let alone without your new lady in tow.
Wow! So cool! I can actually shorten it!
Anyway, Sanity 101 for all us Virgs that y'all so adore. 🙂
You mean like that?
Or, do you mean like this?
Maybe people like to quote
Maybe it makes it easier for them to follow their train of thoughtclick to expand

Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
I can do that all day or:
Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by ilove2bATaurus
What should I do to assure him that I support him in this.
When you end a relationship and begin another, you don't "do things" with your ex and your kids as a unit (comparable to how you once operated as a family), let alone without your new lady in tow.
Wow! So cool! I can actually shorten it!
Anyway, Sanity 101 for all us Virgs that y'all so adore. 🙂
You mean like that?
Or, do you mean like this?
Maybe people like to quote
Maybe it makes it easier for them to follow their train of thought
But, you're a Virgo, and so if it drives you nuts, then this means that everybody else has no choice expect to adhere to your wishes ... right?click to expand

Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
I can do that all day or:
Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by ilove2bATaurus
What should I do to assure him that I support him in this.
When you end a relationship and begin another, you don't "do things" with your ex and your kids as a unit (comparable to how you once operated as a family), let alone without your new lady in tow.
Wow! So cool! I can actually shorten it!
Anyway, Sanity 101 for all us Virgs that y'all so adore. 🙂
You mean like that?
Or, do you mean like this?
Maybe people like to quote
Maybe it makes it easier for them to follow their train of thought
But, you're a Virgo, and so if it drives you nuts, then this means that everybody else has no choice expect to adhere to your wishes ... right?
Once a person hits the quote button, they can't see anything else said, so it's too much work to copy and go back to read, to get thoughts in order .... so, it's easier to quote, quotes.
But, you don't care about them do you?click to expand

Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
I can do that all day or:
Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by ilove2bATaurus
What should I do to assure him that I support him in this.
When you end a relationship and begin another, you don't "do things" with your ex and your kids as a unit (comparable to how you once operated as a family), let alone without your new lady in tow.
Wow! So cool! I can actually shorten it!
Anyway, Sanity 101 for all us Virgs that y'all so adore. 🙂
You mean like that?
Or, do you mean like this?
Maybe people like to quote
Maybe it makes it easier for them to follow their train of thought
But, you're a Virgo, and so if it drives you nuts, then this means that everybody else has no choice expect to adhere to your wishes ... right?
Once a person hits the quote button, they can't see anything else said, so it's too much work to copy and go back to read, to get thoughts in order .... so, it's easier to quote, quotes.
But, you don't care about them do you?
So, let me see here .... the title of this thread, along with the OP is telling people that everyone in here must follow directions on how to keep the Virgo mentally sane.click to expand

Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
I can do that all day or:
Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by ilove2bATaurus
What should I do to assure him that I support him in this.
When you end a relationship and begin another, you don't "do things" with your ex and your kids as a unit (comparable to how you once operated as a family), let alone without your new lady in tow.
Wow! So cool! I can actually shorten it!
Anyway, Sanity 101 for all us Virgs that y'all so adore. 🙂
You mean like that?
Or, do you mean like this?
Maybe people like to quote
Maybe it makes it easier for them to follow their train of thought
But, you're a Virgo, and so if it drives you nuts, then this means that everybody else has no choice expect to adhere to your wishes ... right?
Once a person hits the quote button, they can't see anything else said, so it's too much work to copy and go back to read, to get thoughts in order .... so, it's easier to quote, quotes.
But, you don't care about them do you?
So, let me see here .... the title of this thread, along with the OP is telling people that everyone in here must follow directions on how to keep the Virgo mentally sane.
So, does this mean that the Virgo is uncapable of maintaining thier own sanity, and so everyone else has to do it for them?click to expand

Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
I can do that all day or:
Posted by **StringsAttached**Posted by ilove2bATaurus
What should I do to assure him that I support him in this.
When you end a relationship and begin another, you don't "do things" with your ex and your kids as a unit (comparable to how you once operated as a family), let alone without your new lady in tow.
Wow! So cool! I can actually shorten it!
Anyway, Sanity 101 for all us Virgs that y'all so adore. 🙂
You mean like that?
Or, do you mean like this?
Maybe people like to quote
Maybe it makes it easier for them to follow their train of thought
But, you're a Virgo, and so if it drives you nuts, then this means that everybody else has no choice expect to adhere to your wishes ... right?
Once a person hits the quote button, they can't see anything else said, so it's too much work to copy and go back to read, to get thoughts in order .... so, it's easier to quote, quotes.
But, you don't care about them do you?
So, let me see here .... the title of this thread, along with the OP is telling people that everyone in here must follow directions on how to keep the Virgo mentally sane.
So, does this mean that the Virgo is uncapable of maintaining thier own sanity, and so everyone else has to do it for them?click to expand
*incapable

Posted by P-Angel
Once a person hits the quote button, they can't see anything else said, so it's too much work to copy and go back to read, to get thoughts in order .... so, it's easier to quote, quotes.
But, you don't care about them do you?




Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
She really has a thing for virgos, doesn't she? Her husband is a virgo. How convenient. Which one drives the other crazy?

Posted by GeminiMindPosted by PlanetMercuryGirl
She really has a thing for virgos, doesn't she? Her husband is a virgo. How convenient. Which one drives the other crazy?
Driving with no destination.... oh my!click to expand

Posted by **StringsAttached**
.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.

Posted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.
Oh, I was doing it wrong .... you could have just said that.click to expand

Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.
Oh, I was doing it wrong .... you could have just said that.
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Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.
Oh, I was doing it wrong .... you could have just said that.
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Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.
Oh, I was doing it wrong .... you could have just said that.
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Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.
Oh, I was doing it wrong .... you could have just said that.
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Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.
Oh, I was doing it wrong .... you could have just said that.
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Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.
Oh, I was doing it wrong .... you could have just said that.
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Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.
Oh, I was doing it wrong .... you could have just said that.
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Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.
Oh, I was doing it wrong .... you could have just said that.
When
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said
they
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Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.
Oh, I was doing it wrong .... you could have just said that.
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Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.
Oh, I was doing it wrong .... you could have just said that.
When
you
said
they
didn't
have
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go
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Posted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by P-AngelPosted by **StringsAttached**
.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.
Oh, I was doing it wrong .... you could have just said that.
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.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.
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.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.
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.... if it's mechanical skill and mental structure you lack, simply open the quote in a new tab and you don't have to "go back and read," get thoughts "in order," or copy anything. (What's to copy if you're quoting? 😕) And I repeat, nobody in his right mind bothers reading all those long re-posts to start with, so they're entirely superfluous (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/superfluous) and aggravating.
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Posted by **StringsAttached**
Saints above! She really IS crazy!!!!! (Gasp!)
This is almost freakin' scary! She's HOW old?!


Posted by **StringsAttached**
Saints above! She really IS crazy!!!!! (Gasp!)
This is almost freakin' scary! She's HOW old?!



Posted by VulcanLass
This illustrates my point exactly with my recent postings.She doesn't do this in the Pisces forums.If her name wasn't on her threads,you wouldn't think it was the same person.Talk about duality.

Posted by VulcanLass
This illustrates my point exactly with my recent postings.She doesn't do this in the Pisces forums.If her name wasn't on her threads,you wouldn't think it was the same person.Talk about duality.

Posted by TyDyed
P-Angel / Angelina Not-So-Jolie is Playing A Game, that's all.
Need proof? Read her own confession on my Profile page (screen shot posted for your convenience).
She wipes her fat ass on the Virgo Board, just to piss us off.


Posted by P-AngelPosted by TyDyed
She wipes her fat ass on the Virgo Board, just to piss us off.
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I've done this before. It's nothing new. But for the love of Pete, when you're referring to something someone posted before and their post was 3 city blocks long, why do some of you insist on quoting the entire post? And to make matters worse, 3 or 4 other people want to remark on it and, for some unknown reason that we Virgos simply can't comprehend, THEY all feel the need to repost and repost these city block quotes. One after another. The SAME long posts.
Why not just copy and paste the actual part you want to refer to? Or when quoting, why not delete the sentences (or paragraphs!) that need not be repeated over and over in order to emphasize the point you want to draw attention to? Case in point: nobody in his right mind is going to go back over and re-read the entire post you just quoted anyway . . . they just read it 14 seconds earlier! (If not 15 times.)
Watch this.