
ashley1734
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Posted by KoniuchaHaha I know it seems like there are a lot of guys (there kind of are, but all just pretty casual getting to know you stuff). This particular guy I met on the boardwalk at the beach near where he lives last week.
Where do you meet these guys? I'm just curious.
Guys never approach me in person.

Posted by KoniuchaSorry, what's rbf?Posted by ashley1734I didn't want it to come off that way at all. Its just I rarely meet any.Posted by KoniuchaHaha I know it seems like there are a lot of guys (there kind of are, but all just pretty casual getting to know you stuff). This particular guy I met on the boardwalk at the beach near where he lives last week.
Where do you meet these guys? I'm just curious.
Guys never approach me in person.
I have pretty bad rbf though. I'm sure I just scare them off.click to expand

Posted by KoniuchaOhhh RBF, yes I am familiar. Those are my favorite types of people to smile at cus they have no idea what to do with themselves.
Rbf is resting bitch face lol
Smiling at strangers? I can't even imagine

Posted by KoniuchaDamnit. Why can't I be sexy and mysterious?
Um, adorable means very sweet and cute lol

Posted by KoniuchaI get called intimidating a lot after (or even during dates) because I am very independent and really don't need anyone. Men don't seem to like that haha.
Lol
You know it's funny. I am petite, 5'3, yet I have been told I am intimidating.
I'd change it some if I could. I'm quiet in person too.

Posted by moondustI have a Virgo moon so I tend to be quite serious as well. He did say something to the effect of "we haven't even skimmed the service of getting to know each other's funny sides" and then he said "yet..." and mentioned something about how we hadn't joked around much. So I got the impression that he found ME too serious. I wasn't thinking that way really, I thought it was just a really nice, interesting and intellectual conversation getting to know each other. My funny sides comes out in small segments at a time until I'm comfortable.Posted by ashley1734From what I've seen, Virgos can be too serious around people they aren't close to. Unless you break the ice he'll keep acting like that for a while.
Went out with a Virgo guy last night, and we got along well, but I wasn't exactly able to gauge him which is fine, we were just casually getting to know each other and having a drink.
He dropped me off at home and actually got out of his car to hug me which I've never had happen so I thought that was cute, but I was catching a lot of friendly vibes from him and maybe on my end too (lots of attraction, but our conversation felt serious and intellectual and not so much fun and flirty, which I enjoyed, but I don't know if he did).
Anyway, long story short he sends me a text this morning saying "Thank you for a lovely time last night. You were adorable and charming. Have a great Friday."
Still, this sounds completely like I'm a kid sister or cuddly little puppy to him. Am I just being a picky, ungrateful little a-hole here? Or does he sound like he is really just kinda catching friend vibes from me. Or entirely too soon to tell?
Don't have lots of experience with Virgo men.click to expand

Posted by VivaciousScorpioThank you. 🙂
It's fine, don't overthink it.

Posted by FyzaGemsHaha no I'm mostly joking. It would be unnatural for me to play the mysterious part. I'll just own what I got. You're right. It's just easy to over-analyze "adorable" and wonder if I'm not giving off some sort of cuddly baby animal vibe.Posted by ashley1734Lol!! Sweet and cute, I like that though.Posted by KoniuchaDamnit. Why can't I be sexy and mysterious?
Um, adorable means very sweet and cute lol
Must be all that smiling haha.
I guess u've forgotten who u are. The youthful ones, that's where u belongs to. 😄click to expand

Posted by CrosstownTrafficThat sounds very mysterious. I'm in.
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yea you are intimidating (virgo material)
"Thank you for a lovely time last night. You were adorable and charming. Have a great Friday."
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He dropped me off at home and actually got out of his car to hug me which I've never had happen so I thought that was cute, but I was catching a lot of friendly vibes from him and maybe on my end too (lots of attraction, but our conversation felt serious and intellectual and not so much fun and flirty, which I enjoyed, but I don't know if he did).
Anyway, long story short he sends me a text this morning saying "Thank you for a lovely time last night. You were adorable and charming. Have a great Friday."
Still, this sounds completely like I'm a kid sister or cuddly little puppy to him. Am I just being a picky, ungrateful little a-hole here? Or does he sound like he is really just kinda catching friend vibes from me. Or entirely too soon to tell?
Don't have lots of experience with Virgo men.