"Adorable and charming" (from a Virgo guy)

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Went out with a Virgo guy last night, and we got along well, but I wasn't exactly able to gauge him which is fine, we were just casually getting to know each other and having a drink.

He dropped me off at home and actually got out of his car to hug me which I've never had happen so I thought that was cute, but I was catching a lot of friendly vibes from him and maybe on my end too (lots of attraction, but our conversation felt serious and intellectual and not so much fun and flirty, which I enjoyed, but I don't know if he did).

Anyway, long story short he sends me a text this morning saying "Thank you for a lovely time last night. You were adorable and charming. Have a great Friday."

Still, this sounds completely like I'm a kid sister or cuddly little puppy to him. Am I just being a picky, ungrateful little a-hole here? Or does he sound like he is really just kinda catching friend vibes from me. Or entirely too soon to tell?

Don't have lots of experience with Virgo men.
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Where do you meet these guys? I'm just curious.

Guys never approach me in person.
Haha I know it seems like there are a lot of guys (there kind of are, but all just pretty casual getting to know you stuff). This particular guy I met on the boardwalk at the beach near where he lives last week.
I didn't want it to come off that way at all. Its just I rarely meet any.

I have pretty bad rbf though. I'm sure I just scare them off.
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Sorry, what's rbf?

Probably cannot tell from my serious looking photo, but I am always smiling. I think that draws lots of people to me. I just smile and make eye contact at whoever. This also brings me unwanted attention, but for the most part, I get to meet lots of interesting people who feel comfortable with me. I like it because it lets me make a lot of new female friends, which seems difficult for a lot of women.

Try just like randomly smiling at strangers next time you are out and about. Will probably feel very awkward for you, but do it anyway.
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Went out with a Virgo guy last night, and we got along well, but I wasn't exactly able to gauge him which is fine, we were just casually getting to know each other and having a drink.

He dropped me off at home and actually got out of his car to hug me which I've never had happen so I thought that was cute, but I was catching a lot of friendly vibes from him and maybe on my end too (lots of attraction, but our conversation felt serious and intellectual and not so much fun and flirty, which I enjoyed, but I don't know if he did).

Anyway, long story short he sends me a text this morning saying "Thank you for a lovely time last night. You were adorable and charming. Have a great Friday."

Still, this sounds completely like I'm a kid sister or cuddly little puppy to him. Am I just being a picky, ungrateful little a-hole here? Or does he sound like he is really just kinda catching friend vibes from me. Or entirely too soon to tell?

Don't have lots of experience with Virgo men.
From what I've seen, Virgos can be too serious around people they aren't close to. Unless you break the ice he'll keep acting like that for a while.
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I have a Virgo moon so I tend to be quite serious as well. He did say something to the effect of "we haven't even skimmed the service of getting to know each other's funny sides" and then he said "yet..." and mentioned something about how we hadn't joked around much. So I got the impression that he found ME too serious. I wasn't thinking that way really, I thought it was just a really nice, interesting and intellectual conversation getting to know each other. My funny sides comes out in small segments at a time until I'm comfortable.
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Um, adorable means very sweet and cute lol
Damnit. Why can't I be sexy and mysterious?

Must be all that smiling haha.
Lol!! Sweet and cute, I like that though.

I guess u've forgotten who u are. The youthful ones, that's where u belongs to. 😄
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Haha no I'm mostly joking. It would be unnatural for me to play the mysterious part. I'll just own what I got. You're right. It's just easy to over-analyze "adorable" and wonder if I'm not giving off some sort of cuddly baby animal vibe.