Did l make this virgo man nervous or something else?

Virgo man when do you ever stop observering and staring and apporch, what's got your interest?

This virgo man is cool clam collected, talks with everyone at work no problem but soon as it comes to me he just watches me and he stands around me as, I'm just having random conversation with any coworkers. It's almost like l got him tongue tied with me. I try talking to him making him feel comfortable with me, because if there's a problem he has to fix the machines. If it ain't interest in dating or getting to know me as friend, Why not try and be a little comfortable with me, just in case it won't be to awkward with us more me 🙂... I don't want to ask him anything or tell him the problem, because it feels like it bothers him, when I ask him. Which I never spark a conversation with him like anyone else does.

Aquarius..Work related stuff nothing personal yet to get us comfortable talking at some point. Love interest/partner wasn't thinking about that at moment with anyone. I was focusing on family problems, work and my goals. Everyday I show up to work even on bad weather days. Do my job with being stressed out and crap I'm going through with a smile on my face and being friendly with everyone. I didn't even notice him doing anything, until I started to pay attention to small things that was out of blue with them.

I don't think he's into, thought so but debating on my part no he isn't. Not much to go on then the looking at me random being nice, whistles a tune by me. When I do walk by him he doesn't give me a chance to flash a smile at him he looks the other way or grabs his ear. Confusing man.

It's alright for bit in beginning but be nice if he talked to me and get to know character. How I go about things and the way, I think about certain suggestions. What I gone though to make me who I am today. I guess by him standing near me for bit while, I'm talking he's listening to my character and how move in general. He knows more about me then I know about him.

Let's say if he was really interested how much longer does he need to be sure?

Do this...when he's walking towards you, jump out.in front of him, with a big smile and say hi...then just stand there, in front of him, and stare right into his eyes...he has no where to turn..

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Posted by Greentea
Do this...when he's walking towards you, jump out.in front of him, with a big smile and say hi...then just stand there, in front of him, and stare right into his eyes...he has no where to turn..

Honestly that is more or less how I my first love n everything else and I started when I was a teen and still in my shy phase.

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Really? Aw, what sign was she?

I say there's a good chance that he likes you.

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Posted by Greentea
Do this...when he's walking towards you, jump out.in front of him, with a big smile and say hi...then just stand there, in front of him, and stare right into his eyes...he has no where to turn..

Honestly that is more or less how I my first love n everything else and I started when I was a teen and still in my shy phase.

Really? Aw, what sign was she?

Cap lol...

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LOL! I'm not surprised. Sometimes when we muster the courage to do this, we like to watch our prey squirm. It's HOT!! 😄

Try my suggestion OP.

Oh and ahh....you're welcome.. 😉

Before any of this came about seen his body language squirm when, I mentioned about a cute guy fix my car to another coworker. After that his body language gave me little more cues to pay more close attention to him. He's a serious aloof guy, then it changed seen a little playful side once in blue moon with other coworkers. I started noticing little things watching me like hawk and make sure I'm in his view from afar.

Posted by Clareisa
Before any of this came about seen his body language squirm when, I mentioned about a cute guy fix my car to another coworker. After that his body language gave me little more cues to pay more close attention to him. He's a serious aloof guy, then it changed seen a little playful side once in blue moon with other coworkers. I started noticing little things watching me like hawk and make sure I'm in his view from afar.

That's great. Earth signs love.to be seduced. What I suggested is subtle enough. He'll like it.

He might be a undercover agent sent from corporate office to spy on you, he just doesn't want to blow his cover.

Or you make him nervous, and he really likes you.. a lot..lot, I've only did that with my wife and I married her .

Greentea your suggestion sounds fun something. I could see myself doing that if I kinda know him a little more. Any more ideas?

Posted by Clareisa
Greentea your suggestion sounds fun something. I could see myself doing that if I kinda know him a little more. Any more ideas?

That's the whole point of it..the fact you don't know much about eachother.

I'll sleep on it, and come back with more ideas if I have any more lol. That's what I would do though.

I do stare back at them he's getting braver and keep looking at me instead if I caught him he'd look right away fast. Also when I walk away from somewhere in building he's watching me walk away, I turn back and look at him. Doesn't help I mostly work with guys and not many women work there. So if I'm talking to guy at work, I turn around and look at him give him that reassuring look.

Update with Virgo guy.

Nothing came about with him kinda sucks since we work together. Anyways I still catch him glancing my way through out day and also whistles a tune around me. He never really whistles around them. He did say something to me but it felt like scarsstic mean talk. Now when he snaps at me at work, I snap back once in awhile. I'm just acting like myself and told another coworker if he didn't like me as person, that's okay but he needs to deal with him. As of last month, I realize maybe it's just a visual chemistry nothing more. What' I'm asking now from you's is this Virgo guy might be still anyzling still or just keep doing me and forget about it?

I don't know why it says that, it should say 5 months.

I'm not chasing him. I'm keeping my distance and keeping out of his way and not getting in his business. It's hard he is guy that you have to go to if the machines break. That's the only time, I talk to him now. I'm being mature but doesn't seem like he is, when I tell him something is wrong with machine. The last time I'd asked if he could show me how to fix it little so I don't have to ask him. It's so frustrating with him like that.

Nope he didn't show me how to fix it. He clearly said I don't fix people problems and your not the only one there working. Long time workers couldn't fix it either. I wasn't hundred percent sure if I can fix it, so I went to him so I didn't have a bigger problem. I was fixing something then something else happened that I couldn't do. Yes, I'm into! If he gets comfortable talking to me. hopefully, doubt it at this point.

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I don't know why it says that, it should say 5 months.

5 months, girl he's just not that into you

if ya'll aint fornicating by now...its not gonna happen

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??^^^^ what she said