Ah Virgo man

Hello

I write to you because you give very good answers here is my problem with my Virgo guy.

He is so distancing from me after we had a fight and after that we had one intimate date again but after this date he is very very distancing he contact me very rare but in the conversation i can see that he do this observation on me.

After so long time i didn't contact him because he didn't answer on my calls i stopped colling him and he called me before 4 days and we start conversation and he accused me that why i didn't call him and i told to him that he is the person who don't want to talk to me after that he asked me strange question do you have a guy?

On this question i answer to him that i have feelings to him and that he is my guy and he disappear again i really don't know what to think and what to say.

Please any suggestion i love him so much and i don't know what to do how to tell him that he is the only guy in the world who exist for me.

He is distant again from me and avoid me i called him again and he told me that he is busy and he would return my call and nothing.

Have you done anything to upset him? It sounds to me like he thinks you're playing mind games with him - now i'm not accusing, but one thing to remember is NEVER play mind games with a virgo because there will be a serious price to pay.

From the sounds of it the best thing you can do is back away and leave him alone. Let him go and hide in his dark little corner and analyse everything and figure out what he wants - if he realises he's over-reacted and he wants to be with you, he'll come back to you. The more pressure you put on him, the more he'll run away and less likely it is that he'll come back to you. Best thing to do is to let go of the reins completely. Give him the freedom that he is seeking. If worst comes to worst write him a letter, then move on.

I think that didnt say noting to upset him he always do this to me come and disappear and i was tired to call him and why i decided to not contact him and wait a little bit longer.
The conversation was that why i seem so strange and no bother to contact him and i answer on this that you are that person who don't want to speak with me because i tried to contact you but you didn't answer and i let he go.
And after that he asked me do you have a a boyfriend because i didn't hear you and i want to ask you do you met somebody i told to him that i thinking on him and that he is my boyfriend and that i have feelings for him and he kidding with me that maybe i think that he doesn't have feelings and i said that i really don't know and in the end of the conversation he asked me again do you have a boyfriend or you don't want to tell him and i told to him again that you are my boyfriend and he disappear🙂
I will give to him the same treatment again if he like to be childish be it so ...
Why to think that i upset him with my behavior he is the only one who upset me because he push and pull every moment and test me so many times.

Hmm I think it's best to walk away from those that push and pull in different directions all the time. They're not worth the drama in your life (unless you're one of those people that likes alot of drama). There's nothing worse than being with someone who isn't sure they want to be with you, in which case all it really means is that there is someone better suited to both of you out there!

lol

Virgo's always push and pull while trying to figure out if they want somebody, spion .. his behaviour is perfectly normal for his kind.

The question you should ask yourself is ... can you tolerate this? Do you have the patience to wait him out to see what he wants?

It's not uncommon for a Virgo to take ages to sort this out ... so, it's possible you could be going through this for a very long time.

If this isn't acceptable to you, and you cannot handle the pushing and pulling and head-games .. then your best bet is to walk away and not ever try to figure him out.

lol...
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