Anxiety

Do any virgos here have anxiety issues—?? I cant tell if its the libra or virgo in me ...

The one I know does. I mean just gets bent out of shape about nothing. I am a Scorpio and we are pretty much calm people..... I just look at him. Tell him he's going to be alright and if he needs me I am there.

One day he was scared about doing a video conference. I explained to him what he had to do and then under his breath - I heard him say, "I'll be alright" which is what I had just told him.

Excuse me - but Virgos are really something. Not in a bad way, but just something.

:-)

Funny you say that Glee, I was just saying that to my Virgo man last night LOL.

He's been having anxiety over hurting his finger & I agreed with him, it wasn't a nice thing to have happen & I told him it'd be OK. Well now he's facing more surgery on the finger & I offered to go to the hospital with him if he was having surgery. He thinks a sec & says "Oh no, I'll be OK" LOL. I just calmly told him if he wanted me to go, let me know.

These Virgos - they're ever changing, always have me in wonder 🙂

Hi am a Virgo and Yes I do.

Sometimes I will say to friends ( very close ones) as I dont want them to think Im mad that I feel like Im supposed to be worrying about something but Im nto sure wat it is.

Very weird.

Virgos are worry worts thats why he can never be in too much debt as I think it would drive us Crazy. I live at home and My mums a virgo also so imagine that we hyave a whole cupboard under the stairs with all our bills and possibly ever paper we ever received all filed away.

Lol

For me this is a big problem that has given me trouble all my life, it frustrates me and the people who know me closely or just watch me over long periods of time just cannot understand me and may even avoid me because of this.

I'm a Scorpio Sun, Virgo Rising, long stories (plural lol) short:

When I feel confident/appreciated/powerful (i guess)/or respected - I am a total Scorpio, people love me, they listen to me when I speak and never ever second guess me, people want to hang out with me, and all else, the whole nine yards...


When I feel like small/or like I've lossed confidence/or lost credibility,respect, or power, control, authority or any of that - i'm a wreck, i'm sad, i'm always about ready to go out and hurt people (out of the intense sadness), i don't listen to anyone, i don't believe i can do anything, even the smallest tasks become impossible for me and my self-esteem has dropped so low that I neither want nor dare to try, i don't speak up, i don't know or even try to know how to communicate my feelings, hell i may not even stand up for myself when i'm put down (Do you know what that's like for a Scorpio—— I bet some Scorpio's don't even go through that the way I do) -- but of all that, ANXIETY is a huge problem for me when I feel this way. I hate it. It's like I'm 2 DIFFERENT PEOPLE COMPLETELY, my friends are always like WTF!!!—


I feel so burdened, I mean i'm heavily afflicted. I hear from every astrology source that this is horrible for anyone's state of inner well-being.

Scorpio Sun, Virgo Rising, Libra Moon (I'm completely an afflicted person, no doubt's here!)


They say that the most sensitive signs are the greatest healers however (Scorpio, Virgo, Libra, Pisces, Cancer) so one thing that I do know is that whenever I'm okay enough to heal myself, I can so easily calm and intrigue and charm ANYBODY that I meet if they're suffering from depression, ANXIETY, or what have you (like you said Glee) --- but when I'm not feeling okay enough to heal myself chances are I'm the most bitter, depressed, and ANXIOUS person that you could ever meet haha.

And like I said, I hate it,

So any thoughts would be appreciated since we're in this Virgo Discussion right now. (lol I got it all out of my system because I don't really know anyone else who could possible understand what the hell I'm speaking of.)

Once upon a time I was a little girl (now I am a woman) anywho - my mom was an Aries, my dad is a Leo. My Grandmother was a Taurus and Grandfather a Leo. Growing up I was just as innocent as could be and the world was unfolding daily slipping life into my subconsious.

Here is what I learned about "worry" as a little girl.

Eating at Taurus Grandmas for Sunday dinner would always become an event to me....what am I going to learn this time?

At The Dinner Table (arranged beautifully all the delicious food that Grandma prepared and with much joy - she so loved to cook and eat!)

Leo Dad - "Grandma, you did it again! the food is great and this turkey is so tender!"
Taurus Grandma - Oh Bob....no it isnt...the meat cooked tooo long and it is a bit dry- I am so sorry, I should have been watching it more - oh dear."
L Dad- "well, I like the meat and I am paying you a compliment - all you have to do is say thank you."
Grandma - oh no...I worry so that the dinner will not be good enough.

Me----worry? what is worry? and why?
Grandma...ya gotta worry because something may not turn out right.
Me - what if you worry and it does turn out right then what?
Grandma- hmmmm....quess I worried for nothing.
Me- then why do you do it?
Grandma- because we are supposed to.
Dad - No, you do not have to do that...you worry for nothing so why don't you just let life happen and then if something does happen then you can worry about it. Chances are that whatever you are worrying about is not going to happen anyway - so you are waisting your thoughts on nothing. I still enjoyed the turkey can you pass me the plate?
Me- so are we done?
Grandma- done with what?
Me- worrying about nothing? or did you just find something to worry about?
My Gemini sister- I hate peas and I am not eating mine!
Me - can I have 'em?
Grandma - oh honey I dont' think that is a good idea, I worry that sharing food is not good for you.
Me - guess we are not done.

Many years of this and I personally have learned that my Grandmother did indeed worry about things that never came to fruition...I realized it was part of her make-up. She felt good worrying about things. I then made a contract with myself that I was NOT going to worry about stuff...why? I thought, nothing comes of it anyway and if something does come my way, I will deal with it the best way I know how.

Unbeknownst to me I was then enrolled in the classroom - Worrying 101 and those were my lessons.

Thank you to my bestest teachers! 😉

People like things to be perfect. This is the part of human nature. We do use this in many places. For example, protection. If we live in the city where everyone carries gun, we can't just sit and say "Ok, I don't care to carry a gun too, because I wasn't attacked yet". What if you will not have another chance to protect yourself? What if you get killed? It's comes from feeling that you want to be prepeared for the worse in the best way. Because only then you can sleep in peace. You will always think that you already did what best you can do.

I am a Scorpio Sun and Leo Rising - I think we all worry to some degree, but did you know 80% of what you worry about never happens. Sometimes I get a little picky about things (hints of Virgo) and I like to see things done correctly..... I am pretty close to Virgo when it comes to wanting things to be perfect. And when it's not, then I go into a funk at times. But I try to lighten the mood - maybe my Gemini Moon. I find that I am so intensely private - that I keep things to myself alot - and I don't do a lot of confiding - I have just recently started telling my Virgo friend about my family and things - and that's after almost four years of knowing him. I think it's true about Scorpios being secretive.....