Any success stories?

Ok so we've all heard and read the same story over and over again about how these Virguys come and go and all the mixed signals they give. Not to mention all the reassurance they're always seeking etc etc. The list goes on.

Has anyone one out there ever been put through this virgo madness and then eventually end up winning the guy over. And by winning the guy over, I mean getting the guy to the alter. How did it happen and what was the turning point that made this guy realize that he can't and won't live without you?

Virguys that have made it to the Alter after putting your dear sweet wifey through virgo hell 🙂 feel free to chime in as well.

Bullshit...

Newage racism....!

lol

lol thats funny brahn but the proper term is Zodiasicm! Not really a word but I just made it up 😛. But it makes more sense since our astrological sign is not our race.

And I am allowed to post this message since I have virgo rising. 😛
Can't you tell by the way I am correcting peoples vocabulary?? lol

"since I have virgo rising.
Can't you tell by the way I am correcting peoples"

"thats funny brahn"

"Qbone 12/8/2007 4:30:20 AM"



lol .. people are cracking me up today 😛

P-Angel..go away you miserable old lady!

"eventually end up winning the guy over. And by winning the guy over, I mean getting the guy to the alter"


Sure, HappyCrab .. no problem, since my interpretation of winning a guy over means loving him, in which I have my man .... meanwhile, you can't get yours because to you it means getting him to the alter.

Have fun at trying to score .. while you're playing, mine sits right here.

Don't worry about me because this isn't about me. This is a post that i'm sure everyone else on here is curiouse about.

So once again, and lots of others are with me on this, GO AWAY!!! Get yourself a myspace page or something else to occupy your time with. Get a hobby get a life!!

I'm sure they are ... I think this might go down in the record book for the thread with the highest numbers of posts.

You're right .. looks like there's tons and tons of people curious about it.

Do you have any pride or self respect? I don't think so because if you did then you would not stay were your not wanted!

Once again LEAVE MY POST!

Ah-ha .. leave it to a Cancer to think that a persons own sense of self-worth is something that is influenced by another.

You just crack me up ..

No P you have to have a sense of self worth first before thinking about what it is. And you don't have it.

LikeB... what are Millards?

"The focus is not "getting someone to alter" any more.
The focus is to get along with each other."


Brad, you're talking to a Cancer .. that's all they know. It's about security .. without manipulating a person into marriage to get this security, then life has to be lived insecure and that's unacceptable to a Cancer because they believe that everybody, except themselves, are responsible for their feelings.

P you have some serious issues with me and I think what ever I say you will find some way to turn it into me being insecure or manipulative so I really don't take you or anything you say seriouse. As a matter of fact I'm actually flattered by your weird obsession with me. You do this every time I start a post.

How hipocritical of you to agree with Qbones comment of "newage racism" (no offence Q) yet turn right around and do the same thing by putting cancers down. So typical of you finding any excuse to knock my post.

Also, I'm not the only one that feels this way. I have gotten 5 messages from people telling me not to pay you any mind since your just a miserable old bag that has nothing else better to do with her life than to moniter dxp posts and puts her useless 2 cents.

Even Brad made a reference to how annoying you can be.

I like the way you always throw in "other people", as though that has any value .. confirms what I said about being insecure.

Make your choice and whatever it is .. it's up to you to deal with and not the responsibility of someone else .. one day, when you wake up, you'll realize that.

Or, maybe not .. Cancer women usually don't.

Like Brad go back and see every post I have ever started. She comes in and insults or belittles the entire post. If I was to start a post about liking apples she would find something disrespectful or condesending to say. I don't have a problem taking constructive critisism but when those are not the intentions thats when I have a problem. I am not your typical sensitve cancer. And I'm esp not going to let someone off of a message board get to me.

HappyCrab: "Virguys that have made it to the Alter after putting your dear sweet wifey through virgo hell feel free to chime in as well."

Thanks, don't mind if I do - especially since so many non-Virgos have seen fit to (yet again!) make mud pies on an Earth Board...

HC, all 6 of the Virgo Men I know (including myself) are presently married - and only one is unfaithful. Like Cancers, we seek a secure stable long-term relationship most of the time, though we can hook-up if that urge strikes us -- but that's not our natural state...

IF we're putting a woman through hell, and it's not in her imagination, then it means we're really serious about her -- it's much easier for us to be relaxed and casual around the women we don't care about...

You asked about matrimony: There is no Idiot's Guide to Catching a Virgo Man. My first marriage was to a Libra, and my current marriage is to a Scorpio. Two very different women! But, neither of them tried to "catch" me in courtship. Both were genuine, and true, and let me see the Real Person and fall in love with her...

Yeah, I acted like a typical Virgo with them at first, and confused the hell outta each until I settled down, but both obviously thought the effort was worth it.

"And by winning the guy over, I mean getting the guy to the alter."

Not to slam all Cancer Women, but y'all are way too emotional for me. I can see where some VirGuys would find that attractive, and I say, Go for it guys! But not me. It sometimes strikes me as manipulative - even if that's not a conscious intent on her part...

I know many astrologers say Cancer + Virgo is an easy match, but IMHO, Taurus + Virgo is much more natural (my first adult love was a Taurus). And yes, I'm biased, but Scorpio + Virgo is much better for both Signs in a serious LTR -- we understand & respect each other's quirks...

Anyway - happy hunting!

~DyarStra?e

It has been awhile since I have posted on here. My virgo man and I got engaged in August (I am cancer) and we are getting married in April.

I have to agree us cancerian women are too emotional, sensitive and insecure for virgo men, I know for a fact (not consciously though) that I push my man far beyond what he needs to be pushed just through my wanting to be told that he loves me, needs me etc - nothing is ever enough for us crabs. At some point we need to just let things be and work things out for ourselves.

I dont know how I got or am getting my man to the alter.....it came out of the blue for me - I never pushed him that way or asked him to marry me, he just got to that place in his own time.

All the best happycrab, if you guys are meant to be it will happen.

I wish you all a happy holiday season.

Joelle

Joelle-- Congratulations!

Yes Joelle Congrats!! And thanks for the feed back.

I think it came across wrong with how I started this post. I'm not trying to find the secret recipie or magic trick to manipulate a guy to marry me. I like to hear about people's succsess stories and the road they traveled to get there.

Dy I agree with you about the whole staying real and being yourself is what's best in not only virgo relationship but with any relationship.

I have known 2 virguys and have learned alot about them and how they relate with others. Both of which I have stayed friends with through out all there "mixed messages" and disappearing acts. Reason why is because if you really think about it they have no obligation to check in with me on a daily basis. Both started off by telling me that they are not interested in getting seriouse and I respected that yet remained freinds (no not a booty call). And what I see with these guys is that as time goes by that coldness goes away and they start to come out of there shell.

But I will say that I found them both to be just as sensitive as cancers if not more. But not really in an emotional way. There's is more egotistical with a ton of pride and thats why they come across as being so aloof. So don't take it personal they're just protecting themselves 🙂.