Are we just friends scorpio needs help.

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Stella
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Im (scorpio) getting very confused by a male (virgo) colleague of mine. We didn't have the best start to our relationship and i have to admit i was a cookiemonster. However we have gone past that.

We have become really close at work and will message, hangout in between work. He was seeing a fellow colleague (cancerian) before we became close, who wasn't happy that we were friends. They stopped seeing each other for a while but as he is always honest he told me they slept together again this past weekend after she called him wanting a “friend” his ex has also reared her head as well and again being very honest he has told me he plans on sleeping with her too he has told me that he doesn’t want to get into another relationship with either of these woman but states that while he isn’t in a relationship he might a well. I am very confused about my own feeling for him but when he tells me about these women and past relationships i don’t know if he is telling me to boast to me or put me off and keep me in the friend zone.
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Posted by Sjess

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She needs help. She’s confused she says...


@Sjess 🤦🤦🤦🤣🤣🤣

No need to be confused. It's crystal clear. He doesn't respect you and isn't just willing to fu** around but to then tell you beforehand 😒 Umm, and after. SMH. Now, the joke will be on you if you sex him again. Don't even let him scratch n sniff. To hell w confusion 🤦 SEE him for who he IS and stop trying to understand his WHY. Not important!
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Stella
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Posted by but_didyoudie

okay so you better keep your legs closed. go have sex just not with him... you will create a hot mess for yourself.

besides sex in the workplace = disaster...then what type of reputation are you going to have?

just a bad scene overall.

hang out, be the cool girl that listens and all just stop with those feelings.

FRIEND ZONE IT UP.


Man those feelings are going bananas right now. What is it about these Virgo men? Legs firmly closed.
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Stella
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Posted by Sjess

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She needs help. She’s confused she says...

@Sjess 🤦🤦🤦🤣🤣🤣

No need to be confused. It's crystal clear. He doesn't respect you and isn't just willing to fu** around but to then tell you beforehand 😒 Umm, and after. SMH. Now, the joke will be on you if you sex him again. Don't even let him scratch n sniff. To hell w confusion 🤦 SEE him for who he IS and stop trying to understand his WHY. Not important!
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Ive not slept with him at all.
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Posted by Sjess

@sweetpea2977

She needs help. She’s confused she says...

@Sjess 🤦🤦🤦🤣🤣🤣

No need to be confused. It's crystal clear. He doesn't respect you and isn't just willing to fu** around but to then tell you beforehand 😒 Umm, and after. SMH. Now, the joke will be on you if you sex him again. Don't even let him scratch n sniff. To hell w confusion 🤦 SEE him for who he IS and stop trying to understand his WHY. Not important!

Ive not slept with him at all.
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That's VERY GOOD news. Move on for your OWN GOOD.
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Posted by but_didyoudie

okay so you better keep your legs closed. go have sex just not with him... you will create a hot mess for yourself.

besides sex in the workplace = disaster...then what type of reputation are you going to have?

just a bad scene overall.

hang out, be the cool girl that listens and all just stop with those feelings.

FRIEND ZONE IT UP.


It’s not a reply to the post but I want to say AGAIN that most marriages happened between people meeting g at work places.
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Posted by but_didyoudie

okay so you better keep your legs closed. go have sex just not with him... you will create a hot mess for yourself.

besides sex in the workplace = disaster...then what type of reputation are you going to have?

just a bad scene overall.

hang out, be the cool girl that listens and all just stop with those feelings.

FRIEND ZONE IT UP.


Great advice! This isn't the type of guy she wants to give her heart to.
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Posted by NelsonScorp
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by but_didyoudie

okay so you better keep your legs closed. go have sex just not with him... you will create a hot mess for yourself.

besides sex in the workplace = disaster...then what type of reputation are you going to have?

just a bad scene overall.

hang out, be the cool girl that listens and all just stop with those feelings.

FRIEND ZONE IT UP.

It’s not a reply to the post but I want to say AGAIN that most marriages happened between people meeting g at work places.

It's still an hard place to let it happen lol you know well the reasons why.
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I do? Why don’t I recall my knowledge?
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Stella
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You are right! I hate that he is sleeping with these women. I hate that i have feelings for him and i cant work out how he feels about me if he feels anything at all.

I hate that obsess about these things, but i also know that majority of the time he has never approached any of the women he has slept with and they did all the work.



Posted by Arielle83

Hahhaha sounds like you’re the one not happy he’s hanging with these other girls

Hahahhahhahahah

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