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Virgo fellows,

When alone, I long for an intimate relationship with a decent guy. When I find one, my free spirit keeps calling me to move on after a short stay. I wonder if it is the Mercury thing affecting me(like it does to Geminis) or something else?
I am not a plyer. However, I just keep jumping from one guy to another and that's something that I can't help. I haven't settled down because I am afraid my restless nature will ruin my marriage. Do you feel this way as well? What do you do about it?

actually dear virgo girl, I am a cancer male that was in a relationship with a virgo male. He possessed the same traits as you described. He broke up with me - we had a good relationship - but apparently had the need to keep searching for something perhaps newer - or maybe just wanted his independence -
I really don't know. I was badly hurt, and now we are completely out of each other lives - which is sad. He's made an attempt to contact me via email 2 months ago - but I won't respond. What is that you "virgo's" want and need?

Here we go with being picky again.Us virgo are vulnerable to relationships because we are afraid of getting our sensitive hearts broken.All we want is someone that can understand our sensitive side of things .Rather than someone who will lecture us and we can't tolerate those kind of people.I think that's where leos and sags come into play on that one.Leos and sags are the thorns on our side because all they do is pick out the things that hurt us and beat us with it like a hammer.As far as itimacy goes, we need someone with a soft touch like a capricorn girl,for example.Even though virgos and cappys share the silence , we might put the silence into our advantage in bed !!

well - I don't know. I possess all those traits a virgo "desires" from what I read. I'm just confused. If you have something good - why do you become callous and throw it away? Are you constantly lookinf for perfection, cause it just doesn't exist!

I'm a Virgo with the same problem - independence or companionship? I'm almost as private as Scorpio and there are some parts of my life I'm not comfortable sharing with people. Also, I'm not enough of an emotional grownup to have a serious relationship. I chose to stay single because of that.

well, at least you know ahead of time.

Am privte to, am taurus, by i express
myself if i find some one i can trust. i don't try to get you to do it. i don't like being around lots of people either. I wish i can find some one i can bond with and just talk about anything. we don't have to be so close that we can't stand to be alone to ourself. am the kind of peson that do need their space. am happy to give the other person the same. But its hard to find someone like that. a person you know ,that you know , that you know you can trust ( do that make sense).

yep. I can relate. Thanks for your kind word's.

Hi Virgo fellows,
I am the one who wrote the original message.

I have the same situation with my life also. I change jobs every a few years and go into very different fields. I have intelligence and determination to master new skills quickly. I feel my thoughts going as fast as wind. New things stuff always attract my attention. I myself am amazed by my ability to adapt to any given situation. However, the blessing turns into a curse when it comes to relationships.

No matter how much I love a guy, I retreat when it comes to marriage. I was seriously involved with a cancer guy for six years and exetremely loyal. Eventually I broke up with him for some reason. It hurt both of us deeply. I haven't been seriously involved with any guys for years.

Yeah...maybe it is like g-virgo said, the perfection thing stops me form taking any ring from guys. Marriage is one time shot to me, I don't get married because there is so much uncertainty ahead. On the other hand, I always seek something newer things/people subconciously. It brings more uncertainty to my life. I don't get involved with any guys seriously because I don't want to damage anyone's life when I decide to move on.

However, deep down I long for a secure and warm family. However, I would like to know if there's any way to beat this nature.

Gosh, what honesty. I think you are loved very much for the person you really are. Does that sound korny? I hope not because you are wicked cute!

You sound just like me #209. I'm a Sagi w/Venus in Sagi. Perhaps your Venus is in the same placement or in Aries?

I'm a Virgo girl with a Sagittarius Rising. Part of me wants intimacy but the other part wants privacy. If I met someone I could trust without question, I just might give him a chance!