What are you Geminis thinking about?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Crabby69 on Friday, August 27, 2004 and has 10 replies.

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@Crabby69
21 YearsCancer

My boyfriend will sit at home and you know he has something on his mind or somethings bothering him.....but he nevers wants to tell! Why is this? Does anyone have and insight on why Gems keep there thoughts so private sometimes? He wont even tell me when hes mad at me and I cant read him—?

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@Luz
21 Years1,000+ Posts

That's how I'm like =/

It's either to avoid conflict or trying to drive you crazy like this, because they want the attention. They want you to come to them first so there wont be any sudden conflict that might be misconstrued.

"Why are you so quiet? Is there anything wrong?"

THEN we spill it but we cant just come full throttle.

But let me assure you, I DO splurt everything out sometimes.

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@Crabby69
21 YearsCancer

Hahahah Parallax, thats very true how did you get that so acurate? Practice? hahah

Luz- when ever i ask he says nothing, but then sometimes like a week later he will tell me what was wrong but usually i have to pull it out of him and it always has to do with something that i do that he doesnt like....i feel that he is overly critical sometimes.......and he wants the perfect girl or something i do some much for him already......but i am so easygoing and i dont bother him ever......i had a long talk with im the other night though and he was telling me alot of stuff that i didnt know...like how he gets insecure in our relationship....which i had no clue......but i think he just has to communicate more....but how do i get him to tell me how he feels——? Thanks for the advice

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@Freebird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

My ex Gemini did the same thing...stare off into space or La-la land...I often wondered if he was contemplating that perhaps Earth was too full and he needed to find a way home.......

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@phoenix_rising
21 Years5,000+ Posts

lol, funny thread.

Crabby69, I suggest you get the book called Love Signs. It's by Linda Goodman and it has some fascinating, detailed descriptions of how the signs interact in relationships.

I can feel your frustration, but I've never had a relationship with a gem before so I can't give much insight. I have gemini family members though, and they do stare off into space. 'Sup with that? lol.

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@cj7
21 Years1,000+ Posts

im with u on that amyst, i check out often. i require attention also, i think when we dont get enough, we escape into our mind and talk to ourselves.