Can I fix things?

Hi there. I'm new to this site and generally have been sceptical of astrology but having read some of the threads and posts I wondered if you guys might be able to help me out or give me a bit of perspective on a problem I'm having with a Virgo male.

I work with this Virgo and for the past year - year and a half and we have been getting to know each other. He was quite distant at first and then we started to flirt and get on a bit better. He always seemed a bit shy/embarrassed when talking to me but he always came to see me, he was chasing me, even sometimes at work nights out where we were a bit indiscreet (as he kissed me in front of some friends). So after such a long time we went out for a drink and then he said that he didn't want to have a relationship with me because he could not be faithful to his partners and had cheated in the past. He said he still wanted to see me and still be friends. We did go out once more after that night, just as friends but I realized that I was really really angry with him (I guess my Leonine pride was wounded) and began to resist all efforts he made to be friends with him by being cold and distant with him.

Anyway sorry, to cut a long story short, Now things at work are quite bad as understandably he's as equally cold and distant to me as I was to him, he'll ignore me if he see's me or will simply say hi and run away. The only exception to this was last week when I had to go speak to him about a work related issue and he was friendly and really helpful, going out of his way to help me out. I understand that he doesn't want to date, what I want to know is how to improve our working relationship and at least get back on good terms or if it's the Virgo way to be gone and stay gone.

express yourself openly and honestly but remain cool. no grand leo displays of emotional outbursts. apologize sincerely for any faults. assert yourself without being pushy. let him know where you stand and the direction you'd like to head toward with him.

i'd hope you keep it professional for now and reconcile a friendship later so you can heal. still be friendly but i wouldn't hang out with him outside of work. it's gonna be hard enough as it is because you work together. i would communicate the whole game plan to him.