@Cajunspirit
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Women often find musicians attractive because of their confidence, creativity, and emotional expression. Musical talent can symbolize passion and charisma, making musicians appear more appealing regardless of physical appearance or wealth. This attraction is linked to evolutionary and psychological factors that associate artistic ability with desirable traits.
Posted by Prince_Pisces
Probably because in movies, musicians are portrayed as sexy, romantic, and mysterious. . .and since most people believe anything, thats why ๐ LOL!
That would be really pathetic of them, if what you suggest is true ๐
Posted by Prince_Pisces
It is true, and yes its pathetic LOL! Personally i dont see the big deal about musicians. . .unless they're one of the rich ones ๐ LOL!
I was thinking the exact same thing.
Posted by fourthwallbreaker
Usually because they're kids, or because that's what they are attracted to.
Women will flock to you if you're not a musician and have loads of money too, fwiw.click to expand
Yes, I know. But Musicians just seem to get more action.
ah, yes, a subject i am immensely familiar with... i can't speak on behalf of all women but i know that for me i am enamoured with the creative expression the most. even when technical there is raw emotion involved. music is extremely important to me.
some chicks are attracted to the scene and the implied life style . the rock star life and the perks that come with it. there's a certain air of power and status associated with musicians. i hear my bands complain about this a lot actually.
Posted by ninjamu
ah, yes, a subject i am immensely familiar with... i can't speak on behalf of all women but i know that for me i am enamoured with the creative expression the most. even when technical there is raw emotion involved. music is extremely important to me.
So because it's important, you throw your pussy at the creator?
NOT me, CJ! ๐
Happy to hear it ๐
But I think it has to do with just having a great ability! Women like to see that a guy is excellent in something....
that concerns great creativity.
What is it about the creativity that is so en amorous?
Posted by fourthwallbreaker
hang out with older women, or ones that have least let this phantasm pass
I do exactly that, though it is still a bother to see what goes on.
It could also be constant media saturation that programs peeps to think like this.๐
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Without a doubt
Ha! Whoa, CS, u took what i said outta context. I don't ever throw my pussy at anyone. I'm just saying why I tend to be attracted to musicians and maybe why a lot of females are as well. Mostly my observations. I say I'm so familiar with the subject because I work directly with bands/musicians so I'm exposed to this phenomenon on a regular basis.
Hahaha, this thread is funny. ๐
Cause women are emotional creatures and music express emotions. Love is blind btw. ๐
The reason that the women are attracted to musicians is the same attracted they have to the rebel assholes. They need a man who has potential in something that they are good with.
Many women would prefer to have a man whos a jock or a musician rather than a geek or nerd, but they also would have a geek or nerd over a druggy.
It also goes with women, I normally dated soccer and dancer chicks, and i hardly ever dated normal chicks... Weird, i never liked soccer as much as hockey but it didn't stop me from hanging out with them. I actually felt good that they had something positive going on rather than getting pregnant and drunk at parties, unless they were doing both, which in many cases it happends.
You should pick up a guitar and sing, and you'll get all the babes ๐
Oh yeah, i use to be in a band, and i hardly got anything from women, my sag pal got all the sluts, so he didn't really count and my other friends were married and only wanted to experience the feeling of playing loud music.
Yeah, yeah!!!! I'm sooo heavy metal that my ugliness kept me from getting laid. >=D
hahaha, yeah heavy metal only attracts the strange chicks who are border line lesbian/psycho bitches. I'm glad that i was sober during those years.
Sorti still have the virgo pride. ๐
Quality >>>>>> Quantity. ๐
*high five*
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Anyone seen that show rockstar wives? they are so disgusting and trashy. . including their husbands. I guess musicians arent that desirable after all LOL!!!
Determines, but you are right majority of musicians are ugly besides several of the mainstream ones.
Yet, I came to realize after looking at myself in the mirror last night that I'm pretty fucking sexy... I just came to my final conclusion after so many years that my face and body is still fly. Shit if only i told myself this years ago haha.
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Why do women give it up to Musicians?
1. They are risk-takers / bad boys, and that makes many women moist.
2. They have great drugs.
3. They have big dicks.
THanks for the ego boost, i needed it. Hey dy were you a musician?
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Sorti still have the virgo pride. ๐Quality >>>>>> Quantity. ๐
*high five*
Always bro. I ain't no leo!
"well its true! lol. people who look down on you for bragging are just insecure or ugly. . or both lol!"
ROFLMAO!!!! Touch?!
Whoah!!!! OBSESSION fuck yeah!!! First time, PP post something well worth listening to.
Just for you brah!
In theory, musicians have a sexy mix of self-confidence with artistic nature. In reality, a lot of musicians are the cliche tortured artist, and something to run from, not towards.
I was heavily involved in the Seattle music scene from the early 80's through early 00's and got to know a lot of seemingly sexy musicians. I even married one. Most of them put on such a sexy front that it's hard not to go for it. But transitioning to LTR can shed light on serious issues. Drinking/drugs, cheating, and just plain being flaky. For some, the music always comes first, never the relationship. So on & so forth...
But until you learn better, they sure can be like flame to a moth ๐
Posted by Cajunspirit
This has always confused me.Women go wild for men of the musical arts. Singers and Guitar players in particular. Bass and Drums also get some action.
Why is this so?
You can be ugly and poor, but because you're a musician, women flock to you.
They are capable of doing something an average man(you for example) can't do.
And they're usually in getting a shitload of attention, wich makes them some sort of "prize". It's as simple as that...
replace musician with sports star, movie star, novelist and any vocation in which your work is appreciated by millions of people and you're left with one word:
Status
My friend hooked up with a musician from her favorite band of all time twice and never regretted it.
I think if you are a fan and you idolize someone and feel like their songs speak to you, you probably feel an intense connection to
them even though you don't know them.
If a woman is not a fan of theirs though I doubt they'll get any unless she is all about the status that someone above mentioned.
I was hit on by a famous musician who I think was probably
looking for groupies for his after party so I really wasn't into it.
Even if it was someone I had a celebrity crush on I think I'm too uptight for that.
My friend though, thought her experience was amazing and felt special because he recognized her a year later at
another show and it happened again,
but for her she says she wouldn't be with just any musician.
She says she did it because she was such a huge fan and has that band on a pedestal.
Some turn it into a career, Pamela Anderson for one.
cuz when music hits yuh you feel no pain owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww lmao.
Famous bob Marley quote.
alright, so i didn't read the whole thread so if someone's already stated what i'm about to, sorry.
most girls i know do it for status. they want to be the object of affection from a guy who's in a band, because there's a lot of competition to get to that guy. they want to prove that their hot enough/ interesting enough to land him. a lot of times it doesn't even matter if his band sucks. i've dated a lot of musicians, some weren't really in bands, but they were always really good at what they did. a lot of times i didn't even pick them out because they were musicians but because all of my friends are artists and musicians so i meet a lot of them. i prefer artists of the visual variety, a lot of them play instruments anyway but it's what i can relate to and its a passion of mine.
For me its because I love someone that is creative with an open mind. most musicians are open minded people that go with the flow. They have a "deepness" about them. I put that word in quotes because maybe they aren't really all that deep off stage. My ex was a musician and I just loved it all together. However, I can't date anymore musicians. Its to hard because all the ladies want them and if they have whore like ways they can not say no. But its just great must musicians can make love really well and when you are treetrunking they are the best at that too. Its probably because they can go with a beat and they make up there own beats.
Plus its fun and at the end of the day the song is true all girls just wanna have fun. Musicians are fun people unless they are Ike Turner then they are crazy.
Lol, I think that if a violinist was very cute and played modern music that they too would get the girls.
I also forgot to mention that the piano is very sexy and its a better way to get girls back to your house. I mean a little wine, the moonlight sonata and bam you are having sex on your baby grand ever single night with a different lady
^^ LOL Ohhhh, I dunno. Have her bring over a toaster or a coffee maker and it's a party.
Wow, well if we are going to have all those appliances. I better put some clothes on my avator and bring some cups
I read a horoscope once that said I need to stay away from the artsy types... especially musicians lol.
Posted by Candeh15
I read a horoscope once that said I need to stay away from the artsy types... especially musicians lol.Oh, why was that?
To answer the question (I know this thread is old but who cares) :
1) Not all women are throwing themselves at musicians, you are talking about groupies.
2) Art is sexy. In my experience all kinds of artists have good chances with the ladies.
3) Women aren't any shallower than men. We are just attracted to different things (see: the ugly feet thread)click to expand
I can't remember what it said to be honest; I think something about it being deceiving, or the person wouldn't be able to give me what I needed. I suppose too much of a free spirit and can't be tied down?
I am attracted to some musicians and I think it's b/c of the creative aspect as well as the passionate nature they have towards playing music. Music is such a huge part of life that it is intriguing to be a part of that world even when it is through another person.
I haven't really dated any musician except the Virgo drummer and a couple men who just played guitar as a hobby.
Pretty sure it's the fame attribute. Most people will never meet a movie star but to be able to say you banged a rock star is somewhat on a sub-par level.
It can be the range from a rabid fan-atic to some chick who likes to believe that she is a needed part of the band.She doesn't realize that she is just a prop,just like any other piece of backdrop.She thinks the fame will rub off on her.It gives her a sense of momentary status,"I'm with the band".Uh yeah right.She's a temporary decoration,until she runs out of tricks.This has been my view from the light board.I.E.,there was this one chick and a few of the guys were planning the where and when to separately do her at this big party......They did and she could never figire out why nobody took her seriously.... also knew someone who went to college with one of Joe Perry's back up singers -when he had The JB Project,she was pissed because no one recognized her ,then she had let the word out who she was,then got pissed because person started kissing up to her.Everyone thought of her as a stepping stone to Joe....
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This has always confused me.
Women go wild for men of the musical arts. Singers and Guitar players in particular. Bass and Drums also get some action.
Why is this so?
You can be ugly and poor, but because you're a musician, women flock to you.