Lorakeen
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Can I get my virgo man back?
Do you genuinely have feelings for him or are you just curious? Your last sentence of "his behavior is making me wonder" leads me to think your just curious.
If that's the case, please don't let your curiousity lead him on. He seems to be in a bad state as is. Straightforward is the best way to go in trying to figure out his motives. But if anything, just stay friends.
If that's the case, please don't let your curiousity lead him on. He seems to be in a bad state as is. Straightforward is the best way to go in trying to figure out his motives. But if anything, just stay friends.
Posted by TurquoiseArrowhe has a form of depression that makes him get very angry at times for no good reason and he lashes out. We had a stupid argument and he just said "maybe I should pack your stuff up and take you back home" and I made the mistake of saying " do that".
Why did you you guys break up?
Posted by SunsetvirgoI have feelings for him- he is a good man and when he is OK he is very kind and caring and fun in that Virgo way. We have a lot in common and even now we end up spending a lot of time together just talking and agreeing.
Do you genuinely have feelings for him or are you just curious? Your last sentence of "his behavior is making me wonder" leads me to think your just curious.
If that's the case, please don't let your curiousity lead him on. He seems to be in a bad state as is. Straightforward is the best way to go in trying to figure out his motives. But if anything, just stay friends.
I am curious as to whether there is an actual chance we could get back together. I know he has serious problems- depression stemmed from childhood abuse, but he is a very good man.
Posted by sierraleone
what is your sign?
I am a cancer with Virgo Ascendent
He is on the Virgo Libra cusp with Pisces Ascendent
I need help too. These days it takes him longer than 5 minutes to respond to my messages 😢 What should I do? How do I get a quicker response and keep him interested??
Posted by TomSawyerPosted by Whorpio
I need help too. These days it takes him longer than 5 minutes to respond to my messages 😢 What should I do? How do I get a quicker response and keep him interested??
You should ask TheLadyScorpio, she knows us well.click to expand
— Oooo yeah about that, see I'm not really into competition so
Posted by TurquoiseArrowPosted by LorakeenStupid arguments dont make a virgo guy say that.Posted by TurquoiseArrowhe has a form of depression that makes him get very angry at times for no good reason and he lashes out. We had a stupid argument and he just said "maybe I should pack your stuff up and take you back home" and I made the mistake of saying " do that".
Why did you you guys break up?
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that's the thing. There's a part of him that thinks he's incapable of sustaining a relationship because of his issues. So it becomes a self enforcing loop.
When he is OK, we get along great. We always did. then when he remembers things from the past he gets angry and he lashes out, then he is ashamed and sorry and withdraws.
God, he keeps doing this- we spend time together. He took me to a concert on saturday then wasn't feeling well and we returned early only to spend 2 hours trolling the net. This week we are going to a festival.
These are things he suggested. I'm not pushing mysef on him, I understand that he wants to figure his own head out first, and I can respect that. I have some figuring out of my own to do.
I'm just trying to figure out where does his "I'm not your boyfriend anymore" fits with " let's do this, we will go do that, here's this long term plan we're making".
He bought me the bass guitar so we can play together. He takes me out every single day even if it's just "let's walk into town and get a drink at a terrace together".
For someone who doesn't want to be my boyfriend he sure as hell is acting like one, and that's what is confusing the everliving hell out of me.
These are things he suggested. I'm not pushing mysef on him, I understand that he wants to figure his own head out first, and I can respect that. I have some figuring out of my own to do.
I'm just trying to figure out where does his "I'm not your boyfriend anymore" fits with " let's do this, we will go do that, here's this long term plan we're making".
He bought me the bass guitar so we can play together. He takes me out every single day even if it's just "let's walk into town and get a drink at a terrace together".
For someone who doesn't want to be my boyfriend he sure as hell is acting like one, and that's what is confusing the everliving hell out of me.
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This was 3 weeks ago. This week I came back to holland where he lives because I had job interviews.
So... we are actually getting along better than ever. We keep doing the same stuff together we did as a couple- watching movies, walking together etc. He drove me to my interviews and even lent me money to buy myself a new bed since we aren't together anymore and we won't be sharing a bed.
Today we wenter for a walk, he took me to dinner like we used to and bought me an expensive guitar.
I don't knowant whether I'm seeing too much into it but it seems he's getting close to me again in his own "I suck at expressing feelings" way.
When we broke up he told me he didn't want to inflict himself on me and that he was too angry and broken (depression) to be with anyone right now. He will start therapy soon.
I don't know maybe still going through with our plans to move was stupid of me... but I didn't want him to be alone and drown in depression again.
I'd be conteno to just be friends if nothing more but his behaviour is making me wonder.