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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
It's up to you. Can you give me a short history of your relationship please?

What is your sun sign?


Im a Taurus . Me and the Libra guy got together through a job interview we both were at ! After that the texting , chitchatting and dates started .. it went on for only a week because he had to leave the city for some work ! He blocked me a week back after our fight over the phone while he was away.. so basically we met one 27th. Meeting and seeing eachother happened everyday till he left on 2nd .





And just now he texted again Saying ... Got your answer !!!

I haven't even replied anything!

buttert.. i lost him i guess

Even better. Now you don't have to say anything.
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Err.. ugh!!!!! This is definitely very immature !! I mean first unblocking then sending me text stating its your last chance ! Then after twenty minutes saying i got your answer !
I mean this guy knows i like him and want him as much but just asking some time off to get comfortable around eachother and not make it look like we are in it only for sex even if it's.. its just not a good thing ! Bam bam thank you ma'am is just not me.. and he's not even a kid ! He's 34 and I'm 31 ..
I mean hello ! Say a hello first .. let's grab a drink watch something cool then we have the night together ! But noooooo.. he wants to say treetrunk then say hello ! Which was not even in the picture when we met and he came like such a gentleman!! Older wiser a level headed guy until i gave in and said Yes we could be a match !
Posted by heliumfiasco
He was playing a game to see how much you like him. He unblocked you to check on in if youd be sweating him. He wanted you to blow up his phone, show interest despite it all. He's immature. It's to feed his ego more than anything. You're a play thing to him, but he doesn't even realize it. I would do butter like this all the time when I was behaving like a child.



This is pretty informative. Thanks for sharing..
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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
It's up to you. Can you give me a short history of your relationship please?

What is your sun sign?


Im a Taurus . Me and the Libra guy got together through a job interview we both were at ! After that the texting , chitchatting and dates started .. it went on for only a week because he had to leave the city for some work ! He blocked me a week back after our fight over the phone while he was away.. so basically we met one 27th. Meeting and seeing eachother happened everyday till he left on 2nd .
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And just now he texted again Saying ... Got your answer !!!

I haven't even replied anything!

buttert.. i lost him i guess
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
It's up to you. Can you give me a short history of your relationship please?

What is your sun sign?


Im a Taurus . Me and the Libra guy got together through a job interview we both were at ! After that the texting , chitchatting and dates started .. it went on for only a week because he had to leave the city for some work ! He blocked me a week back after our fight over the phone while he was away.. so basically we met one 27th. Meeting and seeing eachother happened everyday till he left on 2nd .
But.. Honestly.. is there a win win situation??? I mean where we both are still together without ultimatums??

I used yo think Libras are the least to jump straight to bed or talk about intimacy and its more about balance and romance in the beginning
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Put him in his bloody place. You reply back saying you don't do ultimatums. You do it now and you will do it in the relationship going forward. If I were you I wouldn't even reply to that. As if he doing you a favour.

Stand your ground.


This definitely sounds like a favour on me !! I'm its him whose attracted so much that all he can think of his how it'll be to have me on a bed !! He's even told you on couple of occasions haha !

But yes.. joke's apart. I think i shouldn't reply back .. but I'm sure he'll ask me " So what's your answer " ???!!!
Im jumpy at all this is pretty evident " I like him and want to get to know him "

But what will be a perfect reply at this scenario?? I haven't replied any thing to his Last Chance text .. I'm goinh crazy with excitement and fear of unknown!

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Posted by OHNOXoxo
HE JUST MESSAGED AGAIN !!!

" This is your last chance ... Take it ! This is why I unblocked you !"


Sounds like we date the same guy honestly.. Control tactic.. Fkn pathetic.
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I seriously dont know ! I wasnt even into him wjen i met him.. but he swept me off ny feet and all that.. i dont mind intimacy but i need time to get comfortable.. and hes on some stopwatch!!

After blocking he unblocks me and when i asked why.. he's telling me he's giving me a last chance !! Wtf .

Is it that normal for a libra ?? Their way or highway??
HE JUST MESSAGED AGAIN !!!

" This is your last chance ... Take it ! This is why I unblocked you !"
If it was crystal clear then why unblock me??
So this guy I had discussed in previous post ! He had blocked me after our last discussion/fight over intimacy.
I saw that he unblocked me last night and didnt text at all. I couldn't keep the excitement so I asked him.. did he unblocked me by mistake? To which he replied.. I dont like blocking people, I did it so we don't bother eachother since it's not going anywhere!
I replied, Oh okay ! I'm sorry I texted you.. for which he replied if you want you can block me !

What's happening here???? Libras please give your insight because Im clueless.. should i pursue him or let him be ? Or what's going on in his mind?? Is it a good sign and he wants to talk ? How or what should i do to make it better again???
Posted by clockwisee
I dated a Taurus for two years awhile back. She "gave it up" on the 2nd or 3rd date, I can't remember. If she had said "No" i would've stuck around for some time, because I wanted to get to know her. If I responded like that dude, it's because I never wanted to get to know you.



I'm getting the same feeling ! May be he was looking forward for only a booty call .. I mean come on if you are even slightly interested in knowing me you wouldn't block me when i say no to get intimate with you !
But then his talks and the attention on me got me really hooked. And so it hurts to think that it was indeed only for sex and nothing more 😒
Posted by Taurusgirl513
This particular libra seemed to only be in it for the sex.

I'm a Taurus also and I'm seeing a libra, I'm a little more impulsive when it comes to sex, so I gave it up on the 3rd date,(might be my Venus in gemini) but he tried on the 1st. However we are still hanging out almost 2 months later, and we had the exclusively talk.

I hear you have to give libra space, they don't like to be rejected, so maybe he has to think it though and make up his mind on you.

If he downstairs come back around oh well, you have you're dignity, and he wasn't the right guy.

Good luck




Thank you for sharing your inputs. I haven't contacted him after he blocked me its been three day's. He's away on a business trip anyway for another five day's. I hope he contact's ne once he's back .

But i hate to think it was only sex on his mind!
So I started met this libra man a week back. He as we already know is too good with his words and all that gentleman jazz.. Basically very charming !
The thing is he started pursuing me consistently until i gave in and said i like him too and we could create something special. Problems started when he expressed to get intimate right on our fourth date! Being a Taurus i take time to transit from one level to another, although I'm very romantic and do enjoy intimacy but not go for it headfirst on a basic level of getting to know someone! Which ticked him off. Nevertheless he still kept insisting that's how he wants to start a relationship with anyone! And then decide if he develops love feelings or not .. which is the opposite of how i prefer to start a courtship. I offered him to take it slow be a friend and see if we develop these feelings towards eachother and then can have sex!
He cut me off completely after that discussion.. no calls no texts nothing! I like him very much .. and i don't know how to get him back! I don't even know if he truly liked me or was it only for sex he wanted me.. i know it sounds foolish to ask after he blocked me but is this how libra men start a relationship??
Libra man dumped my friend after she refised to have sex with him ! She felt she had started liking him and him her. But it all came to a dirty argument of calling eachother name's and fight after she refused yo give in to his advancements!

Haven't stopped crying since last night !
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Do your own thing, let them miss you.

Well that's what I do with my libra, I do my own thing and he wants to see me.


But what to do when he's the one continuously seeking a randim conversation from day ti night through texting ?

How to make him miss you?


I'll tell you my side of my story then I'll explain.
I was putting a lot of effort to see my Libra because I work and I go to school. I always go to his place & hang out with him after my shift is finish.

Days, weeks, month have pass and the majority of time he would text me instead without even making a phone call. He hangs out more with his friends than me.

It just got to the point I've gotten tired of doing all that for him. I've made it clear I was going to do me and focus on my situation because I've a lot of important things to take care of.

In your case, talk to him and make simple conversations through text. Offer a phone call or a hang out. If he rejects it the first time, try to be okay with it cause you're sort of going to be disappointed.

Later on, try it the 2nd time, if the offer is rejected okay. But the 3rd offer would be final. If he doesn't want to accept it, do your own thing and just respond to his text message when ever you're available.

You can't be tooooo available, it's not enough for him to miss you. And give yourself time to get use to him not talking to you, so you wouldn't be greatly disappointed afterwards.


I was always getting disappointed with my Libra when he had other plans and only came to me when it was good for his schedule.

I got tired and became disinterested to even chat with him or see him. He took notice of that right after I wasn't replying to his text as much as I used to before & not seeing him as much as I did.


It sounds like you're giving yourself zero credit to be honest.


Welp, I tried. ._.
I'm barely doing anything to pursue my Libra, and he has been wanting to hang out often.

😭😭😭 I was trying to help' but I see your point


Lol well it's probably just semantics from me then.

I'm sure if he's wanting to hang out with you it's because he wants to spend time with you. Not just because he misses your interest. Maybe it's the same thing but to me it's very different.


Well, after a long absences of my presences - he was asking what I've been up to lately. I simply responded, "busy with a lot of things."

He ends up asking questions like what?
So I'm sure he was interested to know what I've been doing and how was I.

I've bluntly told him that he was boring me with the same questions every day. I think he was hurt - and he end up changing the subject to form a better conversation.

I went ahead and told him, "Cut the chase already, you either want this commitment or you don't. I'm not going to waste my time on someone who's going to keep me hanging."

After that talk 3 months ago, he has been making an improvement :3

I honestly thought this was also going to help OP's friend.

But I don't know if it's going to screw the situation up 😭😭😭


Nah that all sounds good. Especially being up front.


You know, I feel like you Libra's want someone who's real and upfront. Not fake and just pretends.

Like, bluntly telling the truth. Not artificial and backstabbing.
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My friend is exactly the same. Blunt , uptight speaks her mind without pretending! And he too doesn't hold back by saying ouch that's rude or oh okay relax or something like that !
I can swear on it because i know her so well ! She's not rude but she's blunt.
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
Do your own thing, let them miss you.

Well that's what I do with my libra, I do my own thing and he wants to see me.


But what to do when he's the one continuously seeking a randim conversation from day ti night through texting ?

How to make him miss you?
Posted by tiziani
Just don't be annoying in the last conversation you've had together. That's her best shot.

Other than that the rest is 99.1% chance. It sounds like he's already made his mind up anyway.


You say its a 99.1% ?? Are the thing's i have mentioned enough of a sign to know his interest in her is genuine ??

On their last conversation she acted little mad and the conversation ended on him saying we should take a break from talking and sleep for now! Also said she judged him way too far.
My friend who is a divorced recently met a divorced Libra man through an app for second marriage. Who charmed her pants off as soon as they exchanged their numbers.It's only been 4 day's of continuous talking on phone and going out for two day's! And he's been sweet kind flirty witty smart all that Libras are famous for.
Question; it's too sweet to be true! Although they met through a dating app which is specifically for people looking to get married again and not simply hooking up, this man looks genuinely interested in her but is indecisive about a relationship! And wants to see how thing's shapes up. But my friend is more inclined towards being sure of what he wants! They recently had a tiff after he asked for a semi naked photo of her. She thinks unless he's sure of a commitment she doesn't want to play the game of friendship or whatever and wants to test his sincerity and level of interest in her !!
What's a best way to know he really likes her ?! And secondly, how can she make him miss her ?! Should she take a break or what she could do for him to make up his mind !