OHNOXoxo
joined July 06, 2017
  • Posted by ufo
    yeah he is trying to distance himself cuz he is feeling vulnerable he wants to jump but is finding it hard to allow himself to

    i am virgo lady but i feel that way sometimes i can go cold cuz i don't know how to deal with those feelings and if i don't want to i'll make sure i won't or at least try to get a clear head and figure if its worth the shot


    To clear head and Figure if it's WORTH THE SHOT??

    Omg , you are killing me. ๐Ÿ˜“
  • Posted by LostinmyMind11
    "he wants to go slow!"



    ^^


    Is that it?!
  • He suddenly went soooo cold! I don't know what's happening or what is he thinking!!! Everything was just so FINE.

    Then two day's back he told me, I love you very much. But I want to go easy on you.. and BAM !! He's gone so COLD! That the morning evening for ngs have stopped. The subtle flirting is stopped. The questions and the sweet words everything is on standby mode!

    Has he lost interest in me?! Or its just too normal for a Virgo man to go soooooo cold right after things are shaping good between us.

    Earlier when I was too shy to respond to him like a mature woman to his flirtings, he had this thing going on! Even after I had told him. I'm little slow to response.

    But then I thought, it's just so perfect I shouldn't ruin it running to the closet every time he complemented me. And I acted all cool and flirted a bit too.. suddenly he woke up couple of days back and tild me he loves me very much but he wants to go slow!

    And all those sweet nothings have dropped down to 5% only... ๐Ÿ˜“ Whats happening??!!!
  • Posted by rocket
    there are levels to this game buddy

    no one can leave the ands

    it just doesnโ€™t happen

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    Oh she looks just like me!
  • Posted by LostinmyMind11
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    Posted by LostinmyMind11
    Pisces sun...I believe scorp moon (still trying to get his mom to give me his birth time). Together 10yrs and probably would still be together if he hadn't passed away.


    Dang! That's sad. What happened? Health?accident?



    It was devastating and literally took me to hell and back but such as life. Oddly enough he always told me he would go before me...just didn't think it would be that soon.

    Car accident...8 yrs ago.

    That is sad. How old was he when he passed?


    He was 26.
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    I'm sorry ๐Ÿ˜
  • Posted by ColdFire17
    Idk i see most people think and feel in terms of open relationships nowadays without the actual consent of their partner and in spite of what's agreeable in their couple. Monogamy might be socially accepted yet side women, emotional cheating and social media 'deep connections' are more and more the norm.

    The few monogamous men i know slipped at least once or twice on the other side in moments of vulnerability be it mentally sexually or emotionally. It's just humanly accepted to 'make mistakes'. As if a vegan eats a deer by mistake.



    Exactly my point!

    So instead of wondering where your man at ! If both women knew if he's not with me, he's with her!

    From a woman's perspective that'll definitely sting. But it's still better than waste time how many women is he treetrunking outside the marriage or relationship!

    On other hand. Don't you think it's also better for that woman to have time to herself??? We all are so busy! And at times not in a mood to be our best. And at that very moment if you don't have to sit pampering your man and you know there's someone who's taking care of him haha !! Omg that definitely sounds weird but.. if only it was possible! Do you think men would be able to love them equally?? Because at the end all we want is LOVE.
  • Posted by Pandora101
    Posted by OHNOXoxo
    What you guy's think about a man having more than one wife? Is it possible for a man to love two or three women together?! Equally??

    Just a random question! Nothing to do with my current relationship. Thank you.


    Is there anybody here on the forum, who is a second or tenth wife? so we can get a real opinion of somebody, who is in love with her husband who has another wives?

    I have to admit, I am ignorant about this question, in Europe its a quite alien concept (but recently we are subjected to this nonsense with the uncontrollable migration of people, who have 2-4 wives) so I am curious of the opinion of the wives....
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    Yeah !!! I want to know exactly that. But I thought it's going to be tough to bring them to this site. So I asked for a general opinion.

    I'm sure, there'll be so inputs on if it was only allowed everywhere in the world. Would it be possible for a man to have equal love for both wive???

    Is it possible for common man to keep two women happy and treat and love them equally?!
  • What you guy's think about a man having more than one wife? Is it possible for a man to love two or three women together?! Equally??

    Just a random question! Nothing to do with my current relationship. Thank you.
  • Posted by Earthgoddess
    How do u control it? I find that I just canโ€™t. I want to so bad but before I can even help myself Iโ€™m chewing someonesโ€™ ass๐Ÿ™ˆ

    @witchmitchAries warned me now Iโ€™m overthinking it.

    My sweeties birthday is tomorrow and I just harassed the crap out of him about โ€œwhy the hell did you think that would work out like thatโ€

    Yโ€™all give me some tips before I run this one off too๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ




    I can still take your criticism with a smile. But your over sensetive nature just drive's me crazy! Or at least it has started too now.


    Why you'll sooooo treetrunking sensetive?! I mean, you say thing's.. all the time! But will sulk if someone asks or tells you anything!

    Be a little sport.
  • Posted by Jambalaya
    Posted by OHNOXoxo
    Posted by Jambalaya
    Posted by OHNOXoxo
    So me and my Virgo man, we were just chitchatting. And happened to talk future! The discussion went on to what kind of friends we like. So I spoke about few of mine old boy as friends. Who really likes me after all these year's. And he was like, you might want to reconsider if you still want to hang out with them! Haha . What's happening?????!!!


    only an unfaithful woman would hang out with her her exes

    not much to do about jealousy at all

    if you so happen to desire to hang with them it shows the kind of woman you really are

    what woman would want to hang with her exes anyway (an unfaithful one)



    HELLOOOOOO!! COOL THE treetrunk DOWN.

    I didn't say I dated anyone of them! Why the treetrunk would I tell the guy I'M in love about I want to stay in touch with my exes! I meant men as friends!!


    boys as friends == boyfriends

    it's not going to work for you so move along
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    You are depressing!
  • Posted by UnicornSag
    Posted by OHNOXoxo
    Posted by UnicornSag
    I stopped hanging out with all my male friends when I went official with Virgo. He didn't give me an ultimatum clearly or acted jealous I did it on my own. Cause I wanted to spare us both possible headaches and jealousy and he embraced my decision with open arms-why? Because it speaks to him I'm serious and won't let anything to endanger our relationship so I can understand that point.
    Does he have girl friends he hangs out with and intends to keep it that way if yes? If he does than you can keep things as they are, if he doesn't then he was right and you should reconsider lol




    YES!! He sure does. One of them is as long as from his school day's! He's got many women as friends.
    And so we were discussing who helped who and how important friends are and blah and blue. And thats when I spoke few hood things aboit few of my good friends who are men. And we have been friends from a long time!


    In that case just tell him as long as he has female friends you'll have male friends smile obviously there's no reason for you to ignore your friends if he isn't planing to do the same. Keep in mind Virgos mirror everything you do but when it comes to such situation let him make first move towards a change if he wants a change to happen
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    Amen to that.
  • Posted by Mhmmm
    Posted by OHNOXoxo
    Posted by UnicornSag
    I stopped hanging out with all my male friends when I went official with Virgo. He didn't give me an ultimatum clearly or acted jealous I did it on my own. Cause I wanted to spare us both possible headaches and jealousy and he embraced my decision with open arms-why? Because it speaks to him I'm serious and won't let anything to endanger our relationship so I can understand that point.
    Does he have girl friends he hangs out with and intends to keep it that way if yes? If he does than you can keep things as they are, if he doesn't then he was right and you should reconsider lol




    YES!! He sure does. One of them is as long as from his school day's! He's got many women as friends.
    And so we were discussing who helped who and how important friends are and blah and blue. And thats when I spoke few hood things aboit few of my good friends who are men. And we have been friends from a long time!


    The difference is though that your friend fancies you.. As a Taurus surely you should understand why this would bother your boyfriend. Would you like it if he was friends with a woman that obviously wants to be with him?
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    These men I spoke about have their life together. And had / have girlfriends.

    But to answer your question. I would definitely not like it if he wants to be friends with a girl who fancies him.
  • Posted by tnmnt
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    Is this you?!


    yep
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    OMG
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    Is this you?!
  • Posted by UnicornSag
    I stopped hanging out with all my male friends when I went official with Virgo. He didn't give me an ultimatum clearly or acted jealous I did it on my own. Cause I wanted to spare us both possible headaches and jealousy and he embraced my decision with open arms-why? Because it speaks to him I'm serious and won't let anything to endanger our relationship so I can understand that point.
    Does he have girl friends he hangs out with and intends to keep it that way if yes? If he does than you can keep things as they are, if he doesn't then he was right and you should reconsider lol




    YES!! He sure does. One of them is as long as from his school day's! He's got many women as friends.
    And so we were discussing who helped who and how important friends are and blah and blue. And thats when I spoke few hood things aboit few of my good friends who are men. And we have been friends from a long time!
  • Posted by Jambalaya
    Posted by OHNOXoxo
    So me and my Virgo man, we were just chitchatting. And happened to talk future! The discussion went on to what kind of friends we like. So I spoke about few of mine old boy as friends. Who really likes me after all these year's. And he was like, you might want to reconsider if you still want to hang out with them! Haha . What's happening?????!!!


    only an unfaithful woman would hang out with her her exes

    not much to do about jealousy at all

    if you so happen to desire to hang with them it shows the kind of woman you really are

    what woman would want to hang with her exes anyway (an unfaithful one)
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    HELLOOOOOO!! COOL THE treetrunk DOWN.

    I didn't say I dated anyone of them! Why the treetrunk would I tell the guy I'M in love about I want to stay in touch with my exes! I meant men as friends!!
  • So me and my Virgo man, we were just chitchatting. And happened to talk future! The discussion went on to what kind of friends we like. So I spoke about few of mine old boy as friends. Who really likes me after all these year's. And he was like, you might want to reconsider if you still want to hang out with them! Haha . What's happening?????!!!
  • Posted by sierra_
    Posted by Sunsetvirgo
    Posted by sierra_
    Posted by LostinmyMind11
    Posted by sierra_
    they're all busy dating gemini men


    Eww...never lol


    lmao okay maybe one of them's dating an aries man


    That should be me dating that Aries man ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ


    virgos-aries sure like each other

    i'm with an aries moon

    and i think there's another virgo here with an aries man
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    I'm a taurus with Aries moon! And my man is Virgo with moon in Leo. โ™ฅ๏ธ

    But I just keep my moon in check because I'm dealing with him. Although it come's out with all that passion and fierce emotions. But I dont want to scare him off, so I'm going slow on bulls speed! ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…
  • Whoa !!!! It's getting Hot in here.