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Can one change
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reading about astrology has been a real eye-opener for me.i now have a precise definition of who i am.
one question i would like to ask all is that, can one change from being who their star sign say they are?
for example, they say virgos can be perfectionist,fastidious and introverts.
my question is, "can one change from being a perfectionist or an introvert even though your horoscope and birth chart specify that this is who you are.
Yes you can we all have challenges that we have in our charts they are there to make us grow only you have the answer to over come it. If that is what you want to do you can.
yeah,i would definitely like to change
but wouldn't that mean you are going against what is written in your star. i.e you have stop being yourself?
but wouldn't that mean you are going against what is written in your star. i.e you have stop being yourself?
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yeah,i would definitely like to change
but wouldn't that mean you are going against what is written in your star. i.e you have stop being yourself?
No example I was really shy half of my life but when I hit my 20 I over came that. If you look at my chart which is mostly virgo you can see a lot of stuff were I'm suppose to be shy. But I over came that and so can you.
@everevolvingepithet, have you ever done a web search on "virgo". you will be terrified by the amount of negative things you read.
@virgoking, thanks. i see your point.,that helps a lot.
i really need to change, i hvae to stop hurting other people and myself.
the things i have learnt from astrology are amazing, i sometimes wonder how other virgos without this knowledge are doing
@virgoking, thanks. i see your point.,that helps a lot.
i really need to change, i hvae to stop hurting other people and myself.
the things i have learnt from astrology are amazing, i sometimes wonder how other virgos without this knowledge are doing
We all gradually change into our Ascendent sign over time.
But the core traits are hard to escape. It would take a lot of self control and awareness to stop what is natural to you.
When in anger or highly emotional, instinct takes over and that's where your ability to change is tested.
But the core traits are hard to escape. It would take a lot of self control and awareness to stop what is natural to you.
When in anger or highly emotional, instinct takes over and that's where your ability to change is tested.
People can change, if they choose ... and yet, most people never do as much as they may wish to.
Most people have the view point .. once a cheater, always a cheater .. and this stance comes from the fact that most people don't change, at all, no matter how much the desire is present.
With Virgos, there's only ONE thing that actually needs to be changed ... if this were to be accomplished then everything else would fall into a good place, for the fact that what energy you put out is what comes back.
The thing is ... Virgos hold back all good feelings, and usually only express or vent out bad feelings.
They could be excited as hell about an adventure, and you'd never know it ... because the only thing they share with you is what could go wrong with the adventure.
A Virgo could sit there in a very happy mood and say absolutely nothing ... but, if they are angry or irritated, then they expell this fury to the hilt.
If the only thing that is sent out to the universe for reception is what pisses you off, and what you don't like ... then crap is all that comes back to you.
If you send out those happy thoughts and feelings you have ((((also))) ... then your life will be balanced.
Notice ((((also)))) .. that's because people think that if they only acknowledge the positive then their life will be good, and then these same people come back in misery ... it's because they are unbalanced.
The Virgo is extremely skewed due to having a heavy burden of negativity that comes to them ... and that's because that's all the send out.
Most people have the view point .. once a cheater, always a cheater .. and this stance comes from the fact that most people don't change, at all, no matter how much the desire is present.
With Virgos, there's only ONE thing that actually needs to be changed ... if this were to be accomplished then everything else would fall into a good place, for the fact that what energy you put out is what comes back.
The thing is ... Virgos hold back all good feelings, and usually only express or vent out bad feelings.
They could be excited as hell about an adventure, and you'd never know it ... because the only thing they share with you is what could go wrong with the adventure.
A Virgo could sit there in a very happy mood and say absolutely nothing ... but, if they are angry or irritated, then they expell this fury to the hilt.
If the only thing that is sent out to the universe for reception is what pisses you off, and what you don't like ... then crap is all that comes back to you.
If you send out those happy thoughts and feelings you have ((((also))) ... then your life will be balanced.
Notice ((((also)))) .. that's because people think that if they only acknowledge the positive then their life will be good, and then these same people come back in misery ... it's because they are unbalanced.
The Virgo is extremely skewed due to having a heavy burden of negativity that comes to them ... and that's because that's all the send out.
Just look at relationship potentials in here (and it's mainly females trying to have relations with male Virgos) ... you'll notice that these women suddenly find themselves in the dark, wondering where/how/what with their Virgo because the Virgo isn't nurturing them with any positive reinforcement. In most cases, the woman has to create a situation in which to draw this out of the Virgo.
These women get the negative side of the Virgo man - and then expects her to be acceptable of that.
If the Virgo changed that, if they ushered out what they love, along with what they don't like ... then they'd find all of those other things wouldn't feel so harsh to them.
That's the only thing hindering the Virgo from evolving. They are totally imbalanced, and for this reason is why they always feel victimized.
These women get the negative side of the Virgo man - and then expects her to be acceptable of that.
If the Virgo changed that, if they ushered out what they love, along with what they don't like ... then they'd find all of those other things wouldn't feel so harsh to them.
That's the only thing hindering the Virgo from evolving. They are totally imbalanced, and for this reason is why they always feel victimized.
Posted by username
reading about astrology has been a real eye-opener for me.i now have a precise definition of who i am.
one question i would like to ask all is that, can one change from being who their star sign say they are?
for example, they say virgos can be perfectionist,fastidious and introverts.
my question is, "can one change from being a perfectionist or an introvert even though your horoscope and birth chart specify that this is who you are.
Yes we can change. Its called evolving.
I declare , all those negative things / traits dissolve when we have self-realization.
Congratulations on finding the answers you had been looking for. You sound like i did in 2010 when I discovered so much that was hidden about me. I was like, Im not fucked up , obsessive fool...im just a Venus in Scorpio, so SUCK IT, Ex-girlfriends.
Fucking natal charts rule. Google helping you research the aspects, House and planetray placements rule!
That would be nice, Wag ... however, it appears that people really don't.
I guess the difference would be actions vs reactions ... if everything a person did was action, in which case they could design their deliberance of these actions, then the person could believe that they've changed, due to handling themselves specifically.
Then there is reaction .. which isn't calculated .. and unfortunately, people react the exact same way they have been reacting since the formative years, when they learned how to process information.
I guess the difference would be actions vs reactions ... if everything a person did was action, in which case they could design their deliberance of these actions, then the person could believe that they've changed, due to handling themselves specifically.
Then there is reaction .. which isn't calculated .. and unfortunately, people react the exact same way they have been reacting since the formative years, when they learned how to process information.
i hate formative years.
yeah, it's called free will....
@Username-Yes.People change.Yes*gasp*Virgos change.When a person is young,immature or unevolved ,they are like unmolded clay that has risen from the atoms that are present in the atmosphere when they were born.Enviroment and experiences help shape your life.Suppose you had Pisces parents who had different ideas about parenting,then say Sag parents,you'd have their influence.Any number of things shape you.Lots of Virgos are messy,what's the point to clean,when you only have to clean again?As long as you know where everything is.It keeps people from poking around in your stuff.
It also depends on your whole chart as to how you translate this into your life.Some degrees can make difference.Some degrees have their own power.For example there is a degree of blindness.Whatever else is in the chart,it can translate itself in many ways;you could be born blind, have a blind parent,sibling or a close neighbor.You could work with the blind or become blind later in life.Not every degree has this much strength.
You also have the innate ability to change.You have to have the desire to make change.Some one can make a conscious effort to stop smoking or swearing.That is your freewill at work.You can wake up every morning to to cold call three new clients if you are in sales.You can make a conscious effort to stop sabatoging your efforts to loose weight.It's an action on the surface of your life,but the strength of character comes from within, decieding to make that change happen.It's like if you keep saying some one is a pain in the neck,what do you develop?A pain in your neck.It's like staying away from people who are a bad influence.You choose to the high road.
How many people do things because it is tradition?Your grandparents did it,so you do it.Stuff that used to piss me off ,now I say;hey I'm just going to meet that person at their personal limts and accept them for who they are.You just make a conscious effort not to let possessions,other peoples' poor behavior or your enviroment keep you at the limit where you want to be.How about those people who had life changing experiences,and are NOW grateful for what their second chance has put in front of them.
Example;teen crush was huge,now it's a laugh.Your current love is huge.You get more experiences,your perception grows.You change.
It also depends on your whole chart as to how you translate this into your life.Some degrees can make difference.Some degrees have their own power.For example there is a degree of blindness.Whatever else is in the chart,it can translate itself in many ways;you could be born blind, have a blind parent,sibling or a close neighbor.You could work with the blind or become blind later in life.Not every degree has this much strength.
You also have the innate ability to change.You have to have the desire to make change.Some one can make a conscious effort to stop smoking or swearing.That is your freewill at work.You can wake up every morning to to cold call three new clients if you are in sales.You can make a conscious effort to stop sabatoging your efforts to loose weight.It's an action on the surface of your life,but the strength of character comes from within, decieding to make that change happen.It's like if you keep saying some one is a pain in the neck,what do you develop?A pain in your neck.It's like staying away from people who are a bad influence.You choose to the high road.
How many people do things because it is tradition?Your grandparents did it,so you do it.Stuff that used to piss me off ,now I say;hey I'm just going to meet that person at their personal limts and accept them for who they are.You just make a conscious effort not to let possessions,other peoples' poor behavior or your enviroment keep you at the limit where you want to be.How about those people who had life changing experiences,and are NOW grateful for what their second chance has put in front of them.
Example;teen crush was huge,now it's a laugh.Your current love is huge.You get more experiences,your perception grows.You change.
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one question i would like to ask all is that, can one change from being who their star sign say they are?
for example, they say virgos can be perfectionist,fastidious and introverts.
my question is, "can one change from being a perfectionist or an introvert even though your horoscope and birth chart specify that this is who you are.