What sparks ur interest when looking 4 a partner?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by awesomevirgyal on Wednesday, September 28, 2011 and has 24 replies.

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what's the wow factor you look for when looking for a partner OR what intrigues you when your looking for someone

Let me start i think the biggest thing to me would be the persons smell or teeth or presentation on a whole...for me if a person's teeth doesn't look clean or good for me its a big issue aside from that if a persons odor isn't right for me either, I wont even budge....

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Posted by P-Angel
Let me see if I have this right ....

Your measurement of the quality of people lays on the shallow surface?

No it actually doesn't but at some point in meeting a person some physical attraction must be present even if its 20%

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I bet you just love that .... it had nothing to do with the topic, everything to do with being superficial to your ego, for a desired regarded response back to her.

You obviously like the surface .... so, I'm certain you are eating that up.

So, the question begs to be asked ..... do Virgos even care about depth? Or are they perfectly content to dwell on the surface where the ego lays?

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P-Angel if you have nothing good or positive to say get the treetrunk off this post ok....
Do you ever in history have anything good to say— Good gosh

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Posted by awesomevirgyal
P-Angel if you have nothing good or positive to say get the treetrunk off this post ok....
Do you ever in history have anything good to say— Good gosh

And yet, it's me you talk to when others are here.

In fact, everything I say is good ... you're not, so you can't understand it when you hear it.

Pretty simple concept ... as difficult as it may seem to you

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Compassion is what i look for in humans in general.
But in my partner, she needs copious amounts of compassion for all living things. Even if she herself has never felt compassion from others.

I dont care what you look like or what your reputation is im going to measure you by your compassion.
I gave one of the girls at the bakery her natal chart and she was impressed with its acccuracy, anyhow she said that her report mentions her love of helping the physically challenged and she never knew why she had that affinity, cause between you and me, the wealthy (her uncle owns the bakery) usually just send in checks and consider it helping the less fortunate. Anyways, my point is that she isnt the most attractive girl in the room but when I learned that she has always helped with the special olympics and other amazing programs....her inner beauty overwhelmed me.

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A lot of things, mostly shared interests--but I do love meeting partners that have interests in things I've not really tried or ever gotten into (baseball/football, for instance). I love learning from a partner, it's always so cute and sweet when someone with amorous feelings is trying to teach you technical terms and team names, lol.

I also value a good sense of humor more than I can put into words. I have a sarcastic, sometimes kinky sense of humor, and I'd be no good with a partner that was stonefaced, and way too serious. I do love a partner that can also put the sense-of-humor aside and know when to be serious though.

Think Chandler from, "Friends". I used to have such a crush on him :")

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Posted by wgamador2
Compassion is what i look for in humans in general.
But in my partner, she needs copious amounts of compassion for all living things. Even if she herself has never felt compassion from others.

I dont care what you look like or what your reputation is im going to measure you by your compassion.
I gave one of the girls at the bakery her natal chart and she was impressed with its acccuracy, anyhow she said that her report mentions her love of helping the physically challenged and she never knew why she had that affinity, cause between you and me, the wealthy (her uncle owns the bakery) usually just send in checks and consider it helping the less fortunate. Anyways, my point is that she isnt the most attractive girl in the room but when I learned that she has always helped with the special olympics and other amazing programs....her inner beauty overwhelmed me.

aww!!

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Posted by awesomevirgyal
what's the wow factor you look for when looking for a partner OR what intrigues you when your looking for someone

Let me start i think the biggest thing to me would be the persons smell or teeth or presentation on a whole...for me if a person's teeth doesn't look clean or good for me its a big issue aside from that if a persons odor isn't right for me either, I wont even budge....

That's just superficial. A wow factor would be cerebral stimulation. He has to be able to carry on a intellectual conversation. His perspicaciousness would totally turn me on. 😉

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This is the one?(LOL) Right ?^^^^^^.PB.Right?(LOL).You been making me dizzy.(LOL).Okay then.PB it is.

As far as teeth go-if the bottom ones seem to be getting smaller,gappy like,it maybe a sign of a serious drinking problem.You've all seen that person with a new upper bridge and very spaced out lowers. Or it the teeth are rotted it can be a sign of drug use.If it is former good for them,but it may mean they have transfered their addiction to something else.Anywho....

Yup.Check off humor,intellect,stability,the ability to not get themselves into a hole,how they treat children ,animals or anyone helpless.No game playing.How they problem solve.How they handle disappointment.Can they read.Do they live like a gypsy.Do they play well with others.Do children and animals like them.Etc.

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speaking on confidence i think thats paves the way for other things...for e.g. if this guy/gyal does not have confidence how can he or her approach you in the first place ... how can the compassion , humor , warmth ... etc. be revealed in a person who has no confidence in themselves.... What do you think—?

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Posted by VulcanLass
This is the one?(LOL) Right ?^^^^^^.PB.Right?(LOL).You been making me dizzy.(LOL).Okay then.PB it is.

As far as teeth go-if the bottom ones seem to be getting smaller,gappy like,it maybe a sign of a serious drinking problem.You've all seen that person with a new upper bridge and very spaced out lowers. Or it the teeth are rotted it can be a sign of drug use.If it is former good for them,but it may mean they have transfered their addiction to something else.Anywho....

Yup.Check off humor,intellect,stability,the ability to not get themselves into a hole,how they treat children ,animals or anyone helpless.No game playing.How they problem solve.How they handle disappointment.Can they read.Do they live like a gypsy.Do they play well with others.Do children and animals like them.Etc.

Lol VL good one...never brought the teeth thing so indepth but u got a point though...wow o_O