Can Virgo man - Scorpio woman be co-workers and lovers at same time?

Hi everyone, I am a newbie here so I really need your advise for my case.

I am a Scorpio woman (26yrs) and current have a crush on a Virgo man (36yrs).

We are co-worker at a company and have been working together for 4 months. Our desks are next to each other. Our relationship is now more than friends but I'm really confused about how he thinks about me.

I was the first to ask him out for a movie (as friends). We can talk for hours about everything and he smiled a lot. We traveled together with a mutual friend of us and had several good memories. He opens up to me and share with me even his private things. He told me many times that I was so smart. He shows up that he knows a lot about me in front of other male co-worker. But he NEVER actively asked me out for a single time.What he did is give me a hint, wait for me to make a move and always say yes to my invitation (so unfair!). But when we went out together, he was willing to pay for me or took the bigger part when I suggest to share.

So with all the above signs, does he have the same feelings for me as mine for him? Or am I friendzoned by him? Or is it too soon to tell?

Could you guys give me some adivse about my case? I would really appreciate for your help because I'm afraid that I'm on the edge of being driven crazy by him 😢

Will this virgo man ever make a move or he just waited for me to confess first?

Virgos generally don't take interest in people who bore them so thats a good sign that hes willing to spend time with you. I think hes thinking the same thing about you and how you feel. One of you have to make the first move if you really want it to go somewhere. We virgos don't proceed with asking someone out unless we're 110% sure we won't be rejected.

Posted by virgxxleo
Virgos generally don't take interest in people who bore them so thats a good sign that hes willing to spend time with you. I think hes thinking the same thing about you and how you feel. One of you have to make the first move if you really want it to go somewhere. We virgos don't proceed with asking someone out unless we're 110% sure we won't be rejected.

Thanks a lot for giving me some idea! I read that Virgos hide their feelings very well so I'm really frustrated of guessing how he feels about me......I guess I have to give him more time to make a move then....

Posted by scorpioruby
and always say yes to my invitation (so unfair!).

How is that unfair?

Posted by Damnata

Posted by scorpioruby
and always say yes to my invitation (so unfair!).

How is that unfair?

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Because I always play an active role so he may already know my feelings. But I have no clue about how he feels about me at all because he never ask me out...

Posted by scorpioruby

Posted by Damnata

Posted by scorpioruby
and always say yes to my invitation (so unfair!).

How is that unfair?

Because I always play an active role so he may already know my feelings. But I have no clue about how he feels about me at all because he never ask me out...

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So he goes out with you and you guys have a good time. Why not state it upfront: "Hey Virgo, I like you. How do you feel about me?"

Idk, you cannot underestimate just how unassuming we are.

Or you could just kiss him lol and then you'll know better.

Posted by Damnata
Or you could just kiss him lol and then you'll know better.

Ah the reason why I am so reluctant this time because I have a bitter experience with another Virgo in the past. We hung out, chit chat everyday. By the time I felt that he might also like me, he disapeared. I could not stand it so I send him a message telling I like him. And guess what, he didn't reply me and blocked my number after that!

You can say I am haunted by the past but this time, I am very scared to say anything before I know his true feeling 😢