sikkario
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Cancers Annoy Me
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I say if he doesn't respect you, cut his ass off. Period.
Exactly.
People think Virgo hospitality, means we need your company.
Actually, we don't give a fukk, we are hospitable to you because of high ideals about society and reciprocity, but 'you' are not the purpose for our service.
We'll just kick you out, and find someone or some thing more worthy of our time and resources.
People think Virgo hospitality, means we need your company.
Actually, we don't give a fukk, we are hospitable to you because of high ideals about society and reciprocity, but 'you' are not the purpose for our service.
We'll just kick you out, and find someone or some thing more worthy of our time and resources.
Sikkario,
I find the same thing to be true of some Cancers. They are very clingy and needy but can give you their ass to kiss really quickly after draining you of YOUR resources (emotional, physical, financial etc). They can use you really easily and that equals selfishness to me. Luckily a Virgo can 'cut you right out' (damn I swear that shit is a gift) so my advice to you would be to put his ass on ice and keep him there at least until he can truly come to his senses and start learning to respect you. If there is one thing I know about Cancers, they absolutely hate to be ignored and this is where a Virgo can have the upperhand. They can't stand to be "frozen out" and no one knows how to do that better than one of 'us'. I say tap into that 'gift'.
Damn I'm in an evil mood today.
I find the same thing to be true of some Cancers. They are very clingy and needy but can give you their ass to kiss really quickly after draining you of YOUR resources (emotional, physical, financial etc). They can use you really easily and that equals selfishness to me. Luckily a Virgo can 'cut you right out' (damn I swear that shit is a gift) so my advice to you would be to put his ass on ice and keep him there at least until he can truly come to his senses and start learning to respect you. If there is one thing I know about Cancers, they absolutely hate to be ignored and this is where a Virgo can have the upperhand. They can't stand to be "frozen out" and no one knows how to do that better than one of 'us'. I say tap into that 'gift'.
Damn I'm in an evil mood today.
Hahaha been there done that. OMG.
Been there done what BF? Put a Cancer on ignore? Not clear on what you mean.
I'm not a virgo...but my Libra let his Cancer buddy move in with him about a year or so ago. They were roommates in Iraq as well so they had this bond already. TALK ABOUT ANNOYING. I ended up hating that kid by the end of it. I mean, hate might not even be a strong enough word....
He was always on the phone or the computer on online dating sites. Used to invite random girls over that he met online. Slept with one of them in the Libras bed! Oh. hell. no.
I swear he knew no boundaries...crossed every line imaginable. Couldn't do anything for himself. Never cleaned up after himself. Spent like literally an hour in the bathroom every time he entered it. He was always taking pictures of himself and ironing his shirts?
Whiny as hell! Also, always mumbled. Like speak up dude wtf :/
Totally left a bad taste in my mouth about cancer males. I feel for you. Lol.
He was always on the phone or the computer on online dating sites. Used to invite random girls over that he met online. Slept with one of them in the Libras bed! Oh. hell. no.
I swear he knew no boundaries...crossed every line imaginable. Couldn't do anything for himself. Never cleaned up after himself. Spent like literally an hour in the bathroom every time he entered it. He was always taking pictures of himself and ironing his shirts?
Whiny as hell! Also, always mumbled. Like speak up dude wtf :/
Totally left a bad taste in my mouth about cancer males. I feel for you. Lol.
He was WAY too comfortable, way too fast. I wanted to knock him out.
Posted by brianafay
He was WAY too comfortable, way too fast. I wanted to knock him out.
Eeesh..he sounds like a piece of work. Hopefully they don't live together anymore and perhaps you should of knocked his ass out.
I'm in an evil mood today.
Lol, no they don't live together anymore. I'm over it and cool with him now....but that will never be happening again
My current roomate came to town and had no place to say, I was crashing at my girlfriend's house, so I gave him the couch and slept with her bed. She was barely cool with it, I was supposed to move on the 7th of September, but because of him, she's like, 'ya you need to get out by the 1st.'
He really fucked it up, cuz honestly, they liked me over there as I cooked food, fixed shit, cleaned up, gave them cash, and was pretty much never there. I could have stayed there prolly as long as I wanted, as her friends offered such. When he came in, he was always hanging out in their space form day 1, on internet all day, talking on phone, and was pretty cavalier about taking anything that was offered to him without giving reciprocity.
I should have sized that up t hen. Being the Virgo I am, I didn't say shit and just suffered with him, because I was planning on moving out anyways.
Then his needy shit started...
He really fucked it up, cuz honestly, they liked me over there as I cooked food, fixed shit, cleaned up, gave them cash, and was pretty much never there. I could have stayed there prolly as long as I wanted, as her friends offered such. When he came in, he was always hanging out in their space form day 1, on internet all day, talking on phone, and was pretty cavalier about taking anything that was offered to him without giving reciprocity.
I should have sized that up t hen. Being the Virgo I am, I didn't say shit and just suffered with him, because I was planning on moving out anyways.
Then his needy shit started...
I agree with bling.
About telling this to him. Not the public display of tears.
The cancer knows no boundaries because he doesn't know that there was any.
The cancer knows no boundaries because he doesn't know that there was any.
I punched a Cancer/Leo cuspian once.
Posted by pigeonpie
People with these traits are usually fully aware of what they're doing and the effect it's having.
They just don't want to accept the fact that these people aren't their new mummy and daddy, and the real world involves effort being made on one's own behalf and for others (?!?!?!?!) too.
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Oh. That sucks. Ass.
Soo I I cut him out will he grow pissy and passive aggressive?
OK, so I'm going out on a limb here.
I am a Cancer/cusp Leo, and I have never moved in with anyone, and stayed and considered that they should take 'care' of me.
If anything, I am the nurturer, and I have to remind myself to back off and not try and fill everyone's needs all the time.
I couldn't ever consider 'draining' anyone financially or emotionally, that would be the last thing on earth.......
So is it just that I am a girl/woman?
is it just the way I was raised?
It's not my own oppinon, I think anyone that knows me would say that I have never taken advantage of anyone.
It's kind of interesting to see how Virgos might view me though..
hmmmmmm.
I am a Cancer/cusp Leo, and I have never moved in with anyone, and stayed and considered that they should take 'care' of me.
If anything, I am the nurturer, and I have to remind myself to back off and not try and fill everyone's needs all the time.
I couldn't ever consider 'draining' anyone financially or emotionally, that would be the last thing on earth.......
So is it just that I am a girl/woman?
is it just the way I was raised?
It's not my own oppinon, I think anyone that knows me would say that I have never taken advantage of anyone.
It's kind of interesting to see how Virgos might view me though..
hmmmmmm.
Posted by lesmonPosted by sikkario
will he grow pissy and passive aggressive?
a bit ironic
how about talking to himclick to expand
Gotta agree with this too. Just talk to him. Cancers are pretty intuitive, but they really don't know many boundaries. They are usually pretty open themselves. Talking may send the cancer to a dark place, yada yada, but being passive agressive would probably do the same thing.
I can't really talk though... I love cancers dearly... no matter how much I want to drop kick them in the mouth sometimes. lol
I don't owe him anything, I don't see me simply not doing him more favors as being passive-aggressive.
Sabotaging him would be. I don't respect him anymore, I told him once not to disrespect me, and he did not listen. I don't do the three times deal. When I talked to him he tried to pay it off with the whole 'not what I meant.' Words have meaning, if you're intention in insulting someone is not malicious, why do it? He masturbated his ego at my expense, unfortunately, he sold my respect to do that, and I don't interact with people I don't respect. Don't think there is much to talk about.
Sabotaging him would be. I don't respect him anymore, I told him once not to disrespect me, and he did not listen. I don't do the three times deal. When I talked to him he tried to pay it off with the whole 'not what I meant.' Words have meaning, if you're intention in insulting someone is not malicious, why do it? He masturbated his ego at my expense, unfortunately, he sold my respect to do that, and I don't interact with people I don't respect. Don't think there is much to talk about.
Posted by Fabricgirl
It's kind of interesting to see how Virgos might view me though..
hmmmmmm.
I like cancers...
Posted by Fabricgirl
OK, so I'm going out on a limb here.
I am a Cancer/cusp Leo, and I have never moved in with anyone, and stayed and considered that they should take 'care' of me.
If anything, I am the nurturer, and I have to remind myself to back off and not try and fill everyone's needs all the time.
I couldn't ever consider 'draining' anyone financially or emotionally, that would be the last thing on earth.......
So is it just that I am a girl/woman?
is it just the way I was raised?
It's not my own oppinon, I think anyone that knows me would say that I have never taken advantage of anyone.
It's kind of interesting to see how Virgos might view me though..
hmmmmmm.
I'm not sure exactly. When I needed a home to stay at when I wasn't sure if I was going to find an apartment for the summer, my cancer friend, who is a male, was the first person who came to me saying he would always spare room for me. He's also been one of the first people to lend a shoulder when I was in distress, regardless of whether I wanted one or not.
Not all cancers are alike. The ones I've known have always been nurturing to an extent, but that isnt' to say some cancers can take advantage of people and do wrong. But that goes for all signs. If you are a nurturing person and good, then Fabricgirl, that is all you need to worry about. Don't allow some opinions to make you think otherwise. Just continue to care for yourself and for others in the way you know how.
Well that is very sweet of you(s) to post your positive cancer experiences.
I agree that there can be jerks under any sign, and I know, for myself, my journey has been to stand up to people who are abusive and try and take advantage of me.
I was married to an aquarius and had some pretty awful experiences, and yet many of you have positive things to say about aquarius men. And it's a good thing you do, because I don't. (hahahaha)
I agree that there can be jerks under any sign, and I know, for myself, my journey has been to stand up to people who are abusive and try and take advantage of me.
I was married to an aquarius and had some pretty awful experiences, and yet many of you have positive things to say about aquarius men. And it's a good thing you do, because I don't. (hahahaha)
Posted by Fabricgirl
Well that is very sweet of you(s) to post your positive cancer experiences.
I agree that there can be jerks under any sign, and I know, for myself, my journey has been to stand up to people who are abusive and try and take advantage of me.
I was married to an aquarius and had some pretty awful experiences, and yet many of you have positive things to say about aquarius men. And it's a good thing you do, because I don't. (hahahaha)
Lol, I would honestly hope I don't have a bad experience with a cancer male. Not too long, I was seeing one and he was hands down everything I could have wanted in a guy and as a friend, and I wrote a thread where I finally admitted to myself that I unconditionally loved him and always would. I'm sure I'll run into a bad egg, but for now, most of my cancer experiences have been positive.
And I know what you mean. I completely dogged gemini men for a while; although, it took one gem male to make me realize that not all are cocky, loveless, horny assholes. I'm still uncertain sometimes, but I've grown more fond of them since.
Just to make you feel better, aqua men kind of scare me, but I have plenty of aqua male friends to make up for it lol.
briana...seriously. wtf is with cancer men and their irons? but at least they're more domestic than the women are. cancer women pretend to be domestic goddesses, but most of them feed you takeout dinners, leave a red sock in the white laundry, have dust an inch deep everywhere in their home, ignore their children whenever they aren't accusing them of hating and betraying ms cancer. ugh. i can get along with them superficially, but i can't get close to them. they're such hypocrites. and they love to blame other people for their own complexes. the guys are crazy, but at least they can wash their own dishes.
why virgos (or anyone really) often love cancers...because virgos are often insecure and cancers come on strong. they're big flirts. they'll make you feel like you matter to them. and when the bad side comes out, it's easy to think they're weak and need to be understood and cared for. but they aren't. virgo men are most likely to fall for and be hurt by cancer and sag women. and they both have that tendency to come on strong, then find greener pastures. sags are more independent so they'll move on if virgo is an ass. cancers can be very parasitic, and will stick around as long as they're getting taken care of. and virgos will stick around as long as someone needs to be taken care of. and it still usually manages to fall apart.
why virgos (or anyone really) often love cancers...because virgos are often insecure and cancers come on strong. they're big flirts. they'll make you feel like you matter to them. and when the bad side comes out, it's easy to think they're weak and need to be understood and cared for. but they aren't. virgo men are most likely to fall for and be hurt by cancer and sag women. and they both have that tendency to come on strong, then find greener pastures. sags are more independent so they'll move on if virgo is an ass. cancers can be very parasitic, and will stick around as long as they're getting taken care of. and virgos will stick around as long as someone needs to be taken care of. and it still usually manages to fall apart.
ugh cancers annoy me too. they are WAY too clingy esp for a Venus in Aquarius like me..
Posted by dreams2ashes
ugh cancers annoy me too. they are WAY too clingy esp for a Venus in Aquarius like me..
do i sense a cancer bashing thread in the mix lmao.
i dont know any cancers really but i cant handle to much heavy emotions venus in libra with some aqua placements fault lol.
Hahaha gemtaur.
Posted by LeGendary ViRGoPosted by dreams2ashes
ugh cancers annoy me too. they are WAY too clingy esp for a Venus in Aquarius like me..
do i sense a cancer bashing thread in the mix lmao.
i dont know any cancers really but i cant handle to much heavy emotions venus in libra with some aqua placements fault lol.click to expand
Haha.
I know a Virgo w/ Venus Libra. He's so damn mysterious and hard to figure out. >.< You guys are intriguing, I wanna know if ANY emotions exist in there!
Posted by dreams2ashesPosted by LeGendary ViRGoPosted by dreams2ashes
ugh cancers annoy me too. they are WAY too clingy esp for a Venus in Aquarius like me..
do i sense a cancer bashing thread in the mix lmao.
i dont know any cancers really but i cant handle to much heavy emotions venus in libra with some aqua placements fault lol.click to expand
Haha.
I know a Virgo w/ Venus Libra. He's so damn mysterious and hard to figure out. >.
Naw. We suck lol.
i know 1 god so annoying lmfao.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Sikkario,
Luckily a Virgo can 'cut you right out' (damn I swear that shit is a gift) .If there is one thing I know about Cancers, they absolutely hate to be ignored and this is where a Virgo can have the upperhand. They can't stand to be "frozen out" and no one knows how to do that better than one of 'us'.
I am a True Cancer woman, with a Libra rising, and will tell you to Kiss My Ass real quick. As a matter of fact I just got rid of a Cold shouldered Virgo. Now he's trying to crawling back. I say to that "Catch Wind" He won't have anything to ignore. NO MORE CONTACT-Die alone if it's destiny.
Cling to that
Piss off a Cancer and see if we give a flying trunk about you-
Emo doesn't float... it sinks. It's too sad to float.
Posted by gemtaurPosted by Brown69Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Sikkario,
LOL
I think that's part of the OP's point: look behind a Cancer's actions and you'll always find a string or two
Virgos don't play mind games on purpose. We are thinkers and it takes us a long time to figure out whether or not we want to have anything to do with your ass hence the reason to believe that we are playing some game. It is simply our process. We don't like games. We abhor them, really. We are straightforward and direct - something that Cancers are not. Our standards are high and we would rather sit at home with a good book every night for 10 years straight sans a lover (and even sex) than to "lock-in" with the wrong person. When Virgo meets Cancer, it's purely logic v emotions. Each one likes and wants what the other has to offer and each one also has what the other "specializes" in (yes Virgos do actually have emotions, and yes Cancers do actually have logic) However, the problem is that deep down, even with all of their differences, ironically, Cancers and Virgos are too much alike...nearly the same damn person underneath it all (mirror! Mirror!)and that can sometimes create friction. Both can be very stubborn with neither side wanting to give in. Of course this is not the case for all Cancer/Virgo Couplings but for some.
Perhaps it's safe to say that the "games" that Cancers play while in their emotional confusion is not actually done on purpose but like Virgo, it's just their MO. However, since Cancer & Virgo are highly suspicious, paranoid, & sensitive signs, they can percieve the other as "messing them about" and the shit can just get nasty. Virgo is constantly analyzing Cancer and Cancer is constantly "feeling Virgo out" and this stupid cycle begins and continues until they are both exasperated. Once Cancers and Virgos become aware of, understand and accept eachother's emotional & psychological processess, then it's smooth sailing. When not, it's rough waters.
Perhaps it's safe to say that the "games" that Cancers play while in their emotional confusion is not actually done on purpose but like Virgo, it's just their MO. However, since Cancer & Virgo are highly suspicious, paranoid, & sensitive signs, they can percieve the other as "messing them about" and the shit can just get nasty. Virgo is constantly analyzing Cancer and Cancer is constantly "feeling Virgo out" and this stupid cycle begins and continues until they are both exasperated. Once Cancers and Virgos become aware of, understand and accept eachother's emotional & psychological processess, then it's smooth sailing. When not, it's rough waters.
Posted by sikkario
Soo I I cut him out will he grow pissy and passive aggressive?
Oh by the sounds of it, more than likely - but who cares? Cut his ass off.
objective description...thanks VirgoVixen 🙂
You're welcome QV!
Cutting someone out of your life who does not respect you and takes advantage of you is not unkind. Unfortunately, there are those types of Cancers (and Virgos and sags and gems etcetera, etcetera) that exist. The ones who are manipulative, selfish, and that are only out for themselves. Sikkario's roommate is obviously a moocher who needs to shape-up or ship out.
That was a very nice post, VV.
Virgos and Cancers naturally come together. The attraction is instantaneously there; however, it is the relationship that develops after that initial attraction that usually makes or breaks this pairing. Most virgos are rather set in reality, usually have an idea of what they want (I'm not saying this is the absolute case, because a lot of the time, we don't have our shit together until we have experience), and are set on solidifying teh relationship in a way that makes them comfortable. We aren't very demonstrative, but our affection for our partners is dead on when you notice the things we do. Cancers can certainly be more upfront about their affections and emotions. They are more idealistic than we are, but that isn't to say that their relationships are all fantasy (I think that is more of a piscean trait?). Cancers express themselves from the heart, and a lot of the time, their heart does rule their head. This is a bit of the opposite for us virgos. When cancers begin to see the reality of their situation, whether it's what they expected or not, they start to pull back. They have to re-evaluate before they go back in those waters, and that can usually leave us virgos in a fucking loop. They question, they are paranoid, they are afraid, they don't want to jump in even though they've already done so. However, we also do that like VV said. We overanalyze the living hell out of what is going on. Cancers are a little more ready to talk about what they want and how they feel while we are a little more prone to actions, to expressing ourselves in terms of how we help/serve our partner.
In the end, both of these signs are capable of cutting each other deeply. We're both capable of walking away from one another and leaving the other scorned. Neither one of us are really more vicious than the other. But when this union works, it's fucking beautiful, and I can only say this from experience, so I might be a little biased.
I've seen the good and the bad of cancers; but one thing I can't deny is that no matter how much I want to hit them, I fall for them every time. For the cancers, one bad egg doesn't make us bad for you. You have to take in everything of our chart into account, and vice versa. But I will say that I can understand how one sign can really dislike the other after a bad pairing. Either one of us sucks when we are at our worst.
Virgos and Cancers naturally come together. The attraction is instantaneously there; however, it is the relationship that develops after that initial attraction that usually makes or breaks this pairing. Most virgos are rather set in reality, usually have an idea of what they want (I'm not saying this is the absolute case, because a lot of the time, we don't have our shit together until we have experience), and are set on solidifying teh relationship in a way that makes them comfortable. We aren't very demonstrative, but our affection for our partners is dead on when you notice the things we do. Cancers can certainly be more upfront about their affections and emotions. They are more idealistic than we are, but that isn't to say that their relationships are all fantasy (I think that is more of a piscean trait?). Cancers express themselves from the heart, and a lot of the time, their heart does rule their head. This is a bit of the opposite for us virgos. When cancers begin to see the reality of their situation, whether it's what they expected or not, they start to pull back. They have to re-evaluate before they go back in those waters, and that can usually leave us virgos in a fucking loop. They question, they are paranoid, they are afraid, they don't want to jump in even though they've already done so. However, we also do that like VV said. We overanalyze the living hell out of what is going on. Cancers are a little more ready to talk about what they want and how they feel while we are a little more prone to actions, to expressing ourselves in terms of how we help/serve our partner.
In the end, both of these signs are capable of cutting each other deeply. We're both capable of walking away from one another and leaving the other scorned. Neither one of us are really more vicious than the other. But when this union works, it's fucking beautiful, and I can only say this from experience, so I might be a little biased.
I've seen the good and the bad of cancers; but one thing I can't deny is that no matter how much I want to hit them, I fall for them every time. For the cancers, one bad egg doesn't make us bad for you. You have to take in everything of our chart into account, and vice versa. But I will say that I can understand how one sign can really dislike the other after a bad pairing. Either one of us sucks when we are at our worst.
Thanks Candeh and right back at ya. In my opinion, it doesn't matter what sign Sikkario's roommate is, disrespect is disrespect and since this is an astrology board it makes complete and utter sense to discuss it from the zodiac angle while still keeping in mind that there are fruit loops in every bunch...
Like you, I really like Cancers. Adore them even. I think that Cancers are the most difficult sign in the zodiac for a Virgo to figure out (provided that it is a Virgo who has never had a 'real' experience with a Cancer before). They can confuse us to no end and still intrigue us all at once. As you stated, it is because our heads almost always rule our hearts and not the other way 'round so when we come into contact with someone who operates on the opposite, we are intrigued, curious, observant, overly analytical, and most of all, CAUTIOUS.
There can be alot of manipulation between the Cancer and Virgo because each one will not be very upfront with their true feelings (at least not in the getting-to-know-you stage). Manipulation is not only a tool to control someone or something for a desired outcome (that are sometimes based on purely selfish reasons) but also it is often used as a defense mechanism. To keep oneself from being hurt. It is always easier for the Cancer or Virgo if the other says "I love you" or "I like you" first but sometimes the question is, who will do it? If neither, and if the feelings/affections are genuine, we both suffer in silence.
Agreed that the pairing is amazingly beautiful (friendships too Sikkario!) when both parties are on an even keel. If not, lordy lordy.
Like you, I really like Cancers. Adore them even. I think that Cancers are the most difficult sign in the zodiac for a Virgo to figure out (provided that it is a Virgo who has never had a 'real' experience with a Cancer before). They can confuse us to no end and still intrigue us all at once. As you stated, it is because our heads almost always rule our hearts and not the other way 'round so when we come into contact with someone who operates on the opposite, we are intrigued, curious, observant, overly analytical, and most of all, CAUTIOUS.
There can be alot of manipulation between the Cancer and Virgo because each one will not be very upfront with their true feelings (at least not in the getting-to-know-you stage). Manipulation is not only a tool to control someone or something for a desired outcome (that are sometimes based on purely selfish reasons) but also it is often used as a defense mechanism. To keep oneself from being hurt. It is always easier for the Cancer or Virgo if the other says "I love you" or "I like you" first but sometimes the question is, who will do it? If neither, and if the feelings/affections are genuine, we both suffer in silence.
Agreed that the pairing is amazingly beautiful (friendships too Sikkario!) when both parties are on an even keel. If not, lordy lordy.
Posted by gemtaurPosted by cancersunleomoon123
i've had a bad pairing,and i still respect virgos. just recently,i was upset about some things,and a female virgo right away in the middle of the night seen that iwas upset because i had posted something on fb and offered to talk to me and picked me up and we talked over coffee right then,i really respect things like that. That to me is awesome. For some reason,i get a lot of virgos drawn to me,if it's not their sun then it's otherwise strongly in their chsrt. So,i guess some of those qualities mix well with me. I do however,conclude that as for relationships,i probly don't mesh well with a sun virgo. Howver,he had a gemini moon. That could even be part of the problem. I won't say why it didn't work. I'm not inerested in being oepn up for criticism. But,if i did believe in regrets,he would be the one i regret. And,it hurts. Because i pride myself on my great men. (sorry that's the leo,there) But,everything happens for a reason and brought me to where i'm at. I am still a little bitter,not sure if that's the right word because i most certaintly don't want him back,but mad i stuck around for as long as i did But,that's HIM i'm mad at and not his sun sign. I think for me,i work best with more dominant signs with a little bit of feeling in there somewhere. Oddly enough,lately,i'm starting to come to the conclusion maybe i DON'T work well with earth signs which is strange.
You have a leo moon, which means you're basically awesome. Your fellow sunners are not as honest or upfront with their emotional needs, intentions, etc. Mercury-ruled Air signs - Virgo & Gem - see right through this and get PIIIIIIIIIISSED lol
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Why do I love you so, Gemtaur? We are so >here< You make me want to take back all of the bad things I have ever said about Gems...even tho some of that shit is true. LOL.
Posted by cancersunleomoon123
i've had a bad pairing,and i still respect virgos. just recently,i was upset about some things,and a female virgo right away in the middle of the night seen that iwas upset because i had posted something on fb and offered to talk to me and picked me up and we talked over coffee right then,i really respect things like that. That to me is awesome. For some reason,i get a lot of virgos drawn to me,if it's not their sun then it's otherwise strongly in their chsrt. So,i guess some of those qualities mix well with me. I do however,conclude that as for relationships,i probly don't mesh well with a sun virgo. Howver,he had a gemini moon. That could even be part of the problem. I won't say why it didn't work. I'm not inerested in being oepn up for criticism. But,if i did believe in regrets,he would be the one i regret. And,it hurts. Because i pride myself on my great men. (sorry that's the leo,there) But,everything happens for a reason and brought me to where i'm at. I am still a little bitter,not sure if that's the right word because i most certaintly don't want him back,but mad i stuck around for as long as i did But,that's HIM i'm mad at and not his sun sign. I think for me,i work best with more dominant signs with a little bit of feeling in there somewhere. Oddly enough,lately,i'm starting to come to the conclusion maybe i DON'T work well with earth signs which is strange.
I completely understand. A bad C/V pairing can leave a bad taste in your mouth.
The manipulation is the result of low self-esteem, passivity, fear of rejection, and fragile feelings etc., on both sides. Don't beat yourself up over your ex-Virgo any longer. I'm sure you've learned alot from the situation and will do much better in the here and now/future.
I completely understand. A bad C/V pairing can leave a bad taste in your mouth.
I agree. I have never felt soooo loved. I also have never been so hurt.... Would I risk it again? No.
Posted by Brown69
I completely understand. A bad C/V pairing can leave a bad taste in your mouth.
I agree. I have never felt soooo loved. I also have never been so hurt.... Would I risk it again? No.click to expand
I totally get your statement. It's like Candeh said, Virgo/Cancer can really cut eachother deep...hmmm...make-up sex after arguments I would imagine must be off-the-charts intense. It is such a passionate intense pairing and each one can really 'humble' the other. They need to be careful of what they say/do to one another or they could really scar eachother for life.
Posted by tall dark and aries
I punched a Cancer/Leo cuspian once.
niiice. That's totally what my dreams are made of 😛
I've had two Cancer roommates in the past, let's just say I will NEVER EVER put myself in that predicament again.
Posted by sikkario
Exactly.
People think Virgo hospitality, means we need your company.
Actually, we don't give a fukk, we are hospitable to you because of high ideals about society and reciprocity, but 'you' are not the purpose for our service.
We'll just kick you out, and find someone or some thing more worthy of our time and resources.
This is so right.
It's eerie how spot on you are.
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