MsAristocracy
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Crazy Weekend 2/29 - 3/2
Saturday afternoon, I am chilling and there is a knock at the door, around 5pm. It's my ex from summer 2005 (Gemini) and he's asking to speak to me so we go in the den and I am trying to figure out what is going on. I hadn't seen him since summer 2007 when we were trying to hook up again but there were some changes in him that just threw me off and I eventually had to be honest with myself that this wasn't going to work before we became intimate again. It ended in a minor argument but I was not mad at him.
He came over to apologize for the way things ended. Tell me that he missed me and that he wanted me back and that he was playing for keeps. He said that he wants us to get married and ALL of this stuff. He hugged me really well and it felt so good (I KNOW... just had somethign with the Scorpio not even 24hrs earlier). He kissed me on the lips too. I must admit, he looked really good and his caressing hug felt sooooooo good. He asked if I was seeing anyone, I said not in a relationship but seeing others. I told him that he has about as good a chance as anyone and that we would take it one day at a time.
Today he sent me a text saying hi and that he's still in love with me and he wants me to give us a real chance. I told him I will. This is all so weird. I don't know what the heck is going on. The only thing I could think of is that I am reaping what I am sowing. I hooked up the Aqua and Sagi and it must have been great with the Universe that I am reaping love offers back to me.
I don't know how to make it stop though. When my ex left my house the only thing I could think about was how could I run away from it all. It's too much for me to handle and I feel like I am a child being asked to grow up by being something to people that I wasn't necessarily prepared to be. I didn't practice or plan this out. I have no idea what to do.
I feel like I was asked to speak in front of a big crowd and I was having stage fright and someone PUSHED my ass right out there and in perfect Virgo fashion I put on my smile and just began to speak, freaking out inside the whole time.
So, has anyone had any CRAZINESS like this over this weekend?
He came over to apologize for the way things ended. Tell me that he missed me and that he wanted me back and that he was playing for keeps. He said that he wants us to get married and ALL of this stuff. He hugged me really well and it felt so good (I KNOW... just had somethign with the Scorpio not even 24hrs earlier). He kissed me on the lips too. I must admit, he looked really good and his caressing hug felt sooooooo good. He asked if I was seeing anyone, I said not in a relationship but seeing others. I told him that he has about as good a chance as anyone and that we would take it one day at a time.
Today he sent me a text saying hi and that he's still in love with me and he wants me to give us a real chance. I told him I will. This is all so weird. I don't know what the heck is going on. The only thing I could think of is that I am reaping what I am sowing. I hooked up the Aqua and Sagi and it must have been great with the Universe that I am reaping love offers back to me.
I don't know how to make it stop though. When my ex left my house the only thing I could think about was how could I run away from it all. It's too much for me to handle and I feel like I am a child being asked to grow up by being something to people that I wasn't necessarily prepared to be. I didn't practice or plan this out. I have no idea what to do.
I feel like I was asked to speak in front of a big crowd and I was having stage fright and someone PUSHED my ass right out there and in perfect Virgo fashion I put on my smile and just began to speak, freaking out inside the whole time.
So, has anyone had any CRAZINESS like this over this weekend?
Hi VK,
I need to find your thread about the "girly" attitude. Sounds interesting. Was your loss and eternal one? My condolences if it is. 😢 I have mastered the learning to be alone (not necessarily lonely) and it's not a bad thing though I miss my real friends. Making new friends is not very appealing to me. They tend to be fairweather if I can't or we can't give it our all. So, I'm good to be alone.
I do find that many people won't allow me to be alone. It's always a push/shove thing. If you're anything like me then you will cram an A+ into your project sometime in the 11th hour. I don't get started on things immediately but come crunch time I am putting together some excellent work. And, in this world we can never get enough sleep, I need to be in bed now. So, I am glad you got a little more sleep this morning. 🙂
I need to find your thread about the "girly" attitude. Sounds interesting. Was your loss and eternal one? My condolences if it is. 😢 I have mastered the learning to be alone (not necessarily lonely) and it's not a bad thing though I miss my real friends. Making new friends is not very appealing to me. They tend to be fairweather if I can't or we can't give it our all. So, I'm good to be alone.
I do find that many people won't allow me to be alone. It's always a push/shove thing. If you're anything like me then you will cram an A+ into your project sometime in the 11th hour. I don't get started on things immediately but come crunch time I am putting together some excellent work. And, in this world we can never get enough sleep, I need to be in bed now. So, I am glad you got a little more sleep this morning. 🙂
Wow, that is very devastating DCvirgs. I am glad to know she will be ok though, many who take a spill don't live to tell about it. I know a couple of people who have gotten screws and pins in their bones to promote healing. That's going to be really rough on her for a while with having to go to theraphy but at least she's still here. 🙂
I do hope they catch the biker at fault, his conscience should eat him alive.
I do hope they catch the biker at fault, his conscience should eat him alive.
😢
That's scary, I know when I go to the doctors or my children they ask what we're allergic too. I guess things went so quickly that they get the chance to get a patient data sheet. She's been through a lot, but is meant to be here because she is blessed through it all. 15 days is not very long and maybe she can take her class online or participate with her instructors online. Sounds like she has some very good friends though looking out for her. Just focus on the positive that she is still here with you all. Makes everything else seem smaller. 🙂
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I get home from dinner with her at the restaurant where he works (he spent a lot of the time with us at our table). I log online ready to play catch up on everything everywhere when my Scorpio platonic friend of 3yrs who I lost contact with but caught up with in early January calls me to ask if he can come over. I've never been able to say no, because he never asks a lot, plus we've been so cool in each other's presence that I can't be opposing with him when he asks to come over.
I had just gotten home, still full from dinner, tired from my drive, and eager to get into my e-life. So, I have company at 11pm. We watched a few shows on tv, and I'm on my oversized leather chaise, he's on the long sofa and he asks me to come sit near him and I tell him nope, I'm comfy where I am and ask him to come sit on the space of chaise not occupied. He haul-asses over and so we're chilling, I finish telling him the history of our haunted town and I am rubbing his hair (yes odd) and so he seemed to be sitting awkward so I move my leg over so he could sit between my legs (it's a chaise) and he turns facing me and lays between my leg. At this point I am dying with shock and humor inside like wtf is going on. So, I just let it go. He's SMEELING me and telling me my deoderant makes this position very nice. Ok... So, we're watching CSI or something and then he turns and KISSES me. Ho-Ly Cr-Ap!!! So, I had been entertaining giving him my undivided attention since January but hadn't made a decision yet. I think it was made for me. So, no need to tell you all what happened after that. I need to say it was the best in a very long time. The thing is I don't think he is interested in me anymore than I am interested in him as we have not spoken since he left my house at 4am. I am at a loss for what I am suppose to feel or how I am suppose to be. 😢 I'm not intersted in a relationship with him, I was considering it but I thought he ws a good guy who was innocent and we would take it nice and slow. He was nothing like it. I liked it all but it kind of ruined my vision.
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