Do Virgos Procrastinate?

Do virgos (esp. Virguys) procrastinate to avoid confrontation?

dyrstr8z: No, of course not!! We just hesitate, rinse, repeat... hesitate, rinse, repeat... hesitate, rinse, repeat... hesitate, rinse, repeat...

LOL, you are great dyrstr8z!

So here is why I am asking: I sent an email to my VirGuy Friday night saying that I gave up on him because he was confusing me and seemed reluctant to communicate openly. It wasn't an angry email, quite contrary I was very friendly. He did not reply! I was expecting this but I can't quite understand why he is ignoring it!

I saw him at lunch today. I passed by him and I could feel that he was staring at me, but he didn't say anything and I didn't look at him in the eye. He didn't look like he was angry with me or anything. He is just totally indifferent, it seems!

So I am thinking he doesn't want to confront me?!?!

Roxi,

I did not ask a question in the email. I just tell him that he makes me confused and that I give up on him. So, maybe, there is no need for him to get back to me. But can't he at least acknowledge my email somehow? I wish him a safe trip (he is traveling this Friday) and happy holidays. So maybe he could say "thanks, happy holidays to you, too". You know something just to acknowledge my email. This way everything is still up in the air.

Maybe I'm expecting too much, I don't know... 😢

Roxi:.........expecting anything with a virguy is probably a mistake!!

I know! 🙂 I learned it the hard way...

Yes, this all is sooo true.. You have to be patient with them.. My virgo guy I went thru something like that, we haven't seen each other in 7 weeks and the communication line was very slim, you must not push them away if you really want the relationship to work out.. Just do the things that you like and it will work out some day..
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branh0913: I'm confrontational to a fault really.

branh0913, how about if you think you would upset someone? Would you tell them what you are thinking/feeling or would you rather not say anything and hope they get the message somehow?

Are you sure you're not talking about a Libran FallingforVirgo? We lack the social tact, and niceties that our following sign has; as a result, we are a candid, blunt, bunch. If the truth must be said to heal that person, I say it. It might hurt them temporarily, but it's for the best. Lying aka procrastinating is not the way to handle anything. I will say the truth of the matter for myself, in hopes that the other party will feel the same. I'm not so sentimental as to pull punches for anyone.

.....and if there is confrontaion, then that's what there is; big picture wise, it's the truth I'm after, not trying to coddle your feelings. If you are hurting I'll help you in anyway I can, but I do that by being honest with you. people are always harpin' about how they wish they could find someone honest, and true, but then when you get it, you go back on that wish, and get cold feet, why?.....becuase you want the lies, so how can I trust you if you only want to hear lies, that means you'll only tell me lies.

VIRGOEXALTE😱 Are you sure you're not talking about a Libran FallingforVirgo?

As a matter of fact I am dealing with a VirGuy born on the Libra cusp...

there ya go. Libra is the Lover, and Virgo the Violent lol....perhaps the libran infulence is more heavy on him than his virgoan counter part? I tend to stare my problems down untill they understand I'm not to be toyed with. I am logical, and calm at first, but soon I explode like a wild thunderstorm if logical didn't get through the poor fools head who stands in my way. I won't take anyones B.S. no matter the size or status. I see through pretense right down to the little man/woman that you are, so don't try anything half-hazzardly....I am not easily intimdated because of this ability, but I don't care to intimidate either; I'm more of an kind soul until you do something to offend me; I don't act on impulse, so you don't have to worry about me hitting; I use my words, lol 😛 but I will let you know with a shocking glare, or a look of indifference.