A Leo male has gotten my interest....

Well, to start off, I've been very much involved with a Virgo guy that I've had a real hard time getting over. He's still in contact with me. It's like just when I somewhat forget about him, he pops up again. It's been really tough regarding this Virgo. Haven't really looked at other guys as the Virgo guy has had my heart (unfortunately). Now with time, I've healed as I realized the Virgo guy and I will be friends and he has some issues to deal with.

So, now I'm a little bewildered because I seem to have caught the attention of a Leo male. I'm an Aquarius, by the way. I know people shouldn't base anything according to astrology but I'd like a little insight. Get this, this Leo is a doctor. He only has his internship left and will officially be a doctor in the next 10 months. So I met this Leo doctor on Wednesday as I'm a nursing student. I didn't take much notice to him as I haven't really been looking at other guys, but I could feel him stare at me in the morning meetings. Also he'd sit next to me. He's very shy. Like when I'd feel him stare at me, I'd look at him and then he'd look away. He seems restless when he sits next to me. He works long hours as a doctor's work is usually never done early. I finally plucked up the courage to talk to him on Thursday. He was smiling the whole time and talked to me. I couldn't believe it. I was talking to another nurse that I also have a part-time job in a food-store. This Leo doctor was all ears. He wanted to know where I work. I told him the directions since he asked. Then I jokingly told him, but was also serious, that he'd have to visit me then too. He said he will. However, I wonder if he was just being polite. He smiles a lot at me and always acknowledges me.

So today, I figured I'd like to get to know him a little better. I asked him about being a doctor which he said is a lot of work. He had been at a party on Saturday so he was still tired today. Anyway, I wanted to find out when his birthday is (I'm very curious about that) and he told me. I was so happy because I was wondering about that. He asked if I like my internship in the ward where we are and I said it's getting better now. Whether he got the hint of what I was meaning I don't know. He asked me if I had worked this weekend in the ward and I said no. I said a worked at my part-time job which I didn't mention the name of thinking he'd forgotten where I work. Oh, no he didn't. He remembered which impressed me.

Continue...

I look at the little details. Anyway, the conversation was going back and forth while he was working. I asked him if he knew about another guy (thinking they are going to graduate together) I had met in the children's department (when I was there). I said that guy always likes to tease me but that he's very nice. The Leo doctor told me that guy is still a student while he's a doctor. Then I told him I should let him work and not bother him anymore. He said that was okay. I did leave him alone. Then a few hours went by. Then all of sudden when we're stilling at the same table he asks me if I'm an American (I'm an American living in Europe) and I said yes I am. I asked him how he knew as I hadn't said anything about that. He claimed he could hear it in my accent. However, I know for sure my accent is very hard to place so I doubt it has to do with that. I think he went and talked to that other guy I had met in the children's department. It's so strange because he then asked me why did I move to Europe, was I married? When he asked if I'm married, he didn't even look me in the eye and had his head down. Oh my God, I thought. What a question to ask. I'd never be so bold to ask that if I wasn't interested in some guy, and if I did ask I'd have to be pretty confident which would take a while. I wonder why he's asking if I'm married. I told him no, I'm not married. I didn't tell him I'm single either which I am. I pretty sure, but not absolutely, he's single. Every morning he comes in with a bottle of Coca cola and drinks the whole bottle within an hour. He says it keeps him awake. He still keeps smiling at me and I smile back. I feel comfortable around him which scares me a little. I haven't known him more than 3 days. Usually, it takes me more time to become comfortable with someone new.

So, what do you all think? I want to see what he'll do but I don't want to come on too strong either. I'm the type of girl that the guy comes to me. That was not the case regarding the Virgo guy. Therefore I'm a little scared now. I want to take a chance but I don't want to scare him off either. Everything is still so new. I'd like him to know I'm interested but would like him to make the first move. I've never dated a Leo before either so I'm not that familiar with them. Please, if anyone has any insight or help, it would greatly appreciated.

hey Mystical...glad to see you on the Leo board again. I'm working right now so I can't give this post the attention I would like to, but I'll be back to look at it later and help in any way I can if nobody else has taken the words out of my mouth 😉.

I wish I could help but my success rate with Leo men is not good.

My current theory is you cannot pursue them at all. If they get one whiff that you are interested in them, they vanish.

WH,

Thank you so very much for that welcoming. I really appreciate it. I look forward to your response. How great it will be to get a Leo females' point of view. If you look at my profile, I'm around on most of the board, but mostly on the Virgo.

Chocolate,

You are so funny. LOL. No, I will not let Virgo guy know about what's new going on with me. Yes, I have to do what's good for me now and stop taking him into consideration. However, it's been a great lesson to have that Virgo guy in my life even though it's been rough. He won't know about this Leo doctor. I'll let Virgo guy think I'm still single or whatever as he doesn't really need to know. However, I did find it odd why Virgo guy wanted me to know about the "girlfriend" I highly doubt he has. I just wanted Virgo guy at the time to know I wasn't pining away for him which I haven't. However, I have been sad regarding him but since September, I've been doing great since I finally let go of him. That is when I found the peace to let go.

So Leo doctor could be planning his next move? I sure hope so. He is cute though. I finally saw today that he isn't bad looking. Sometimes it takes me time to see a good thing in front of me. I'm so good at being friends with guys that my judgement sometimes get clouded. It's also playing it safe on my end. I know in life you have to take chances, but I've just finally healed regarding Virgo guy, that I wasn't even looking.

I hope he does ask me out. God, if that happens, I'll be so surprised but I would absolutely say yes. I'd be so happy. He seems shy so I do wonder will he be bold enough or would he be looking for some sign from me. For some reason since I failed regarding Virgo guy, I thought I lost the magic with attracting guys. I've never had problems with guys until this Virgo guy. Then my world went topsy-turvy and my life was never the same. I just hope this Leo guy isn't so slow. My internship where we are ends at Christmas time which is in about 8 weeks time. I hope he makes a move soon.

LS,

I second what Chocolate said. When someone as special as a Libra comes along, no one ever forgets them. I love Libras as they are so cool. Don't you worry, your Leo will come back. He could have gotten scared of his emotions for you.

LS,

Oh, I had the same problem with the vanishing regarding the Virgo guy. When he finally knew I did care for him, he got all weird on me and scared.

Well, I can speak from experience when it comes to shyness. I appear to be shy, but if I feel comfortable with a person, I have a wild freaky side then. People who are close to me know this but the majority of people don't see this side of me.

Yes, he does seem shy, but it could be because he's tired also. I've never seen someone drink a bottle of Coca Cola at 8.30 in the morning. I think he's attracted to me because he stares at me a lot and smiles also. At times I wonder why he's looking at me.

Oh yeah, I'll be observing him. I know he likes to party a little. I just hope he isn't into so much alcohol as the Virgo guy is. Time will tell.

You are right about one thing, Chocolate, about saying most Leo guys aren't shy because it could be true he's playing shy right now. I mean, I've only known him for 3 days (not full days) and already he's wanting to find out if I'm married. I was astonished when he asked me, but thought it was cute he couldn't look me in the eye when he asked. I didn't mind answering because I do want him to know I'm interested. However, I don't want to be too eager. If he does come and visit me at my part-time job, that will speak volumes to me because he would be then going out of his way.

Ask him out? Oh boy, I think then I'd have to be a little tipsy to do that. I've never asked a guy out as I never had to. That would be a very big step for me to take. He's the man, so I do think if he's interested (which I think he is but it's still very new since it's only been 3 days) he should take the lead.

I wish this works for you as aqua and leos do well together.

My experience with a Leo man: These people can get attracted to lot of people at the same time, very bossy,arrogant and dominant as the things progress further. In the beginning they will be EXTREMELY good making you feel so special but generally it does not last for long as they tend to loose interest soon. With virgoes though, they are long term folks. They may not be that good in the beginning, but once they do commit they are very very loyal. With leos, its all about them, show off etc. With (matured) Virgos it's always about the loved ones first and then themselves. With leoes things will feel like a big drama, with virgos things will be classy. Leoes are fun loving people though and in party we can really enjoy their company.

With Leos if we show too much interest, they feel we are not that much of a "challenge" with them and they tend to seek for a newer challenge soon, but will not let you know.
They will date many people at once, I guess virgos focus on one at a time.

Good Luck


One more leo guy had showed me his interest in 2004, I was with some one at that time, so politely conveyed my lack of interest then, they have terrific pride. Then in 2005 I contacted him, his pride did not let him answer me. Guess what in 2006 he has contacted me again if I am interested, I have not replied it. I have had enough with the first Leo guy.

Leos kind of jump on you.

They don't like giving you any time to think. They want you. They want you now. And that is it.

At least, that has been my experience.

Don't ask him out!

I agree with caprigirl.

Leo is a hunter not the hunted.

true, LS. i've known quite a few leo guys in my life and i got along with them great and had...erm...some very entertaining moments with them 😛
but it never got beyond that. the most absurd leo experiance i had was with a guy i had known for 10 years. we were really into each other, but we both had significant others, so we never got intimate beyond cuddling and kissing. this leo was after me so badly and called and tried to see me all the time. then he was single and i was too...and guess what happended? he stopped calling and seeing me lol. then, as soon as he knew i had a new boyfriend, he reappeared. i thinks those kitties like to have what they can't have most of all hahaha

yeah. Leos are a weird balance.

Banini and the Libra girl are classic. I couldn't get the Leo out of my house, then I told him I liked him and asked him out, and whooosh ... he is gone.

(shrug shoulders)

Caprigirlvirgo,
Yes, Virgos can be loyal. However, the Virgo in my case has a lot of issues to deal with, especially regarding alcohol. I've done everything I can to show him (no sex) that I truly do care for him which he knows. I know he cares for me but has trouble expressing it. I've been like the best friend he's never had before. The one he can talk to about anything and I mean anything. When I truly like a guy, I want them to feel secure with me and that I am trustworthy. This Virgo guy knows I won't reject him ever. He was able to open me up and I was able to be myself. I've always been myself but he was able to take me out of my shell. I'll be forever thankful to him. I just wish he would let me influence him in a positive way as he has done me. He'll always have a special place in my heart.
As for the Leo doctor, it's still early days. I will be a bit of a challenge to him that's for sure. Thanks for the tip. I'm that way myself when it comes to guys. If they are too easy, I can lose interest in them. With Virgo guy, he's always been a challenge and therefore has kept my interest. Weird behavior that first Leo guy of yours. You must be right though because just when you showed interest in him, he could care less.

Chocolate,
I do hope he asks me out before I'm done with my internship. I'd definitely go. His internship isn't done until February 2007. True, he could be seeing if I'm playing the shy role. However, I'm being my bubbly self when I'm around him. I'm not putting on an act so what he's seeing is truly me. He was at an unofficial party for doctors and student doctors.I do think he's shy, but not as shy as he's acting with me. Remember, we are at work so there has to be some professionalism also. I think he can be a wild one, just like me.

LS,
Thanks for the tip about Leos like to be the hunter and not the hunted. I learned that lesson very well regarding the Virgo guy. I will never hunt a guy down ever again. I've done it with Virgo guy and it didn't work out. Therefore I've tried it so there is no need to go down that road again. So Leos want you right now? That could explain why he's already asking if I'm married which I'm not. I was really surprised he asked that. I don't think you ask that to just anybody unless you are interested in them. Thankfully, I've been able to heal from the Virgo guy because if I hadn't, I wouldn't have taken notice to that this Leo doctor is showing interest.

Tupeline,
I couldn't agree more with you. It's like always wanting what you can't have that you want.

That was my experience.

When I met little leo, we had a very soulful conversation and I was able to explain what he was going through in a very empathic way, he was blown away and knew the only way to keep me interested was if he kissed me right then. And wow .... did he kiss me. I still think it was the best kiss ever. He knew exactly what he was doing. He knew there was no way I could resist what he did.

The other leo just came around out of no where. We were walking to dinner and just started kissing me out of nowhere. It was crazy, crazy, crazy hot. He claimed he just could take it anymore.

Both of them tend to be pretty quite guys even though one of them is in the film industry and I thought would be really outgoing, but they both knew what they are doing. Even if he seems shy ... if I were you, I would still let him come to me because he is probably very confident in his ability to attract women.

LS,

I absolutely will let the Leo doctor come to me. I'll never chase him. I've had my fill of chasing a guy to last me a lifetime (meaning the Virgo guy). I do think this Leo doctor is confident in his ability to attract women. However, I'm very original and not the most typical girl around so there is a type of glow around me that attracts guys to me because I have the aloof Aquarian attitude. When I do fall for a guy, well, some of that aloofness goes away after I feel comfortable with them. Some of the aloofness goes over to loyalty. I don't fall for a guy easily ever. I never pressure guys either because I feel you can't force anything. Like Virgo guy had told me once "Where have you been all my life" and also that he was "Glad girls like me still existed" and that I also had given him back the belief in love. He scared me with saying things like that. I got scared and put the brakes on. Therefore if a guy shows too much emotions to me, I get scared because I wonder if what they are saying is for real or are they playing me. Therefore I'm going to just be myself regarding this Leo doctor like I always am. He is getting to see the real me which he seems to like.

Boy, the two Leos in your case were pretty forward. Wow, if a guy I liked (especially in the beginning) just kissed me without warning, I'd be shocked and ask why they'd done that. I would be stunned because I'd be taken off guard. Now, if I was dating a guy, then I'd have no problem with it because I love surprises.

Plus, being seduced by a Leo male is just plain fun. Highly recommended.

*** just kissed me without warning, I'd be shocked and ask why they'd done that. I would be stunned because I'd be taken off guard.

Pretty much!

hee! That is why it is so fun.

You never really see it coming. They just circle wait till you aren't expecting it and pounce. As I said, they just attack.

One I was on a date with, the other I had just met about an hour before.

Well, I'm ready to be courted now. One thing this Leo doctor will realize, if it gets that far, is being with me, it will never be boring. I'm always on the go with so many things that I'll never smother him. He'll be able to have his space and I'll have mine. I've been told by guys I'm like a butterfly that you can't catch. It's like you almost have the butterfly but it slips through your grasp. What they didn't realize was if I'm into a guy, I'm not that difficult to reach but still am a challenge. I've also been told that just when they thought they had figured me out, they realized they hadn't figured me out anyway. When I like a guy, I help him out but I still leave mystery because if they knew everything, there would be no fun or challenge.

Mystical,

I have been reading your posts in the Virgo board. I have a feeling you are a very nice person at heart. I hope it works out between the Leo and you or the virgo and you, who ever you want.

My experience is, when we are too good to be true, people just can't believe us and may be even put bad allegations on us for having malicious motives, just to like them by heart.

This time you may want to try not to be too good to someone. Basically, just be equally nice to the doctor- not more , not less.

Good Luck.

That is good advice caprigirl and gives us all something to think about. Sometimes men do not trust "nice" girls or are afraid of nice girls because they fear hurting them.

For the record, I think you are a total sweetheart too Mystical.

Caprigirlwithvirgo,

Yes, I am a nice person. Sometimes to a fault. Since you've read what I've written on the Virgo forum, you can see what has happened. He really hurt me and for no reason. I have no reason to hurt him and never will even though it would be great if he could feel some of the pain he inflicted on me. Yes, he thinks (the Virgo guy) I'm too good to be true. Well, he's been an ass (excuse my language) because the way I am with him, is the way I am. I'll never change because then I wouldn't be myself. Virgo guy knows I'm a great catch. Somehow I get the feeling he knows I deserve better than him which is true. He knows I don't have malicious motives, but he's scared of getting hurt. Heck, so am I but at least I'm adult about it. He'll regret it one day when he realizes what he lost. There aren't many like me around.

The Leo doctor will see me as I am. I'll be nice with him as long as he's nice with me. However, if he does ask me out, I'm not going to lie, I'll be so nervous. I won't know what to do but I'll manage. Things will work out the way they are suppose to.

What is there to be nervous about?

He is just a guy. 🙂

LS,

Right back at you. Sometimes, I feel like I went kinda crazy regarding the Virgo guy. My emotional status went through the ringer. This past summer, I was so down (never been that way before). I was trying to help a guy out (Virgo guy) who looks down on himself. I know there is a lot of good in him, but he just doesn't see it or doesn't want to see it himself. I have faith in him that he will get his act together but only when he wants to. Finally, when I realized in late August I had to get a grip and let him go, things started looking brighter for me. So in September, I started the healing session. Thought I'd never hear from him again but he still keeps calling. I don't know why either because he has issues. He has said I'm one of the few positive influences in his life. However, you don't treat your friends like they don't exist and ignore them then just reappear like nothing. I can't stand such behavior. Therefore I told him goodbye and have a nice life in August. I was literally through. However, when his birthday came around, I did send a text wishing him a happy birthday stating I would have called him but he was acting childish with not talking to me. Then he started the calling again. I found out recently he has a "girlfriend" but he didn't sound happy at all with the joy in my voice for him. He sounded sad that I'd be happy for him which made no sense to me. I mean when you are in love with someone, you sound happy. He didn't. You know what he told me? He said he wants to be free again. I said to him: "Already? After 3 months". Therefore I don't think he has this "girlfriend". Or if he does, he's fallen out of love with her already.

Thankfully, I've been able to heal from Virgo guy as he constantly tries to make me jealous with how popular he is among girls to get a reaction out of me which he never gets. Sometimes, it does bother me, but I'll never give him the satsification of knowing it. I'm going to see how things go with this Leo doctor. All I know is the only way for me now is up.

Oh, I'm nervous of falling in love again so quickly. I don't want to be heartbroken twice in one year. I was literally heartbroken regarding Virgo guy.

*** Thought I'd never hear from him again but he still keeps calling.

Told. You. So. 🙂

One thing I know is my Virgos.

He probably does have a girlfriend. A lot of relationships don't make it past seven, eight months mark but regardless, I really think you are better off without him. He needs to help himself and get over himself. He just brought you down and made you crazy.

Don't go falling for the Leo doctor yet. Keep your heart in check.

I have another Virgo on the scene. We have a date this week. I really wish I were attracted to him. He is perfect for me. If my parents got together and had to design the perfect guy for me, they would design this guy. However, on my end, no spark what so ever. I keep hoping the attraction grows. At this point, I don't want to settle for someone that doesn't turn me on. I settled for that for years.

I love Virgo guys ... just wish they did it for me. Ya know?

Sorry ... that should have said friends ... If my FRIENDS got together and had to design the perfect guy ... lol!

Mystical,

I know I'm late and a lot has happened here since I said I would come back, but I am still going to tell you what I think.

This Leo remembers details about you. Do you know what that means? He notices you. To a Leo (and I speak from experience), if they are not interested in you, they DO NOT notice you. You're not a part of their world. And they definitely won't remember obscure little details about you. He is paying attention, which means you have sparked his interest.

It is quite apparent to me that this Leo is more than interested in you. The fact that he is shy around you? Wow. Congratulations; you are definitely doing something right. Sorry if I seem to be making too many assumptions - but I really think this guy has got it bad for you. It's so obvious!!!

But that doesn't mean I am saying that you should rush into a relationship. You're a smart woman. Do what you think is best. Only you and he can decide the pace. Although, I have to warn you..in this case, he may not make the first move. This does not mean he isn't interested...to be honest, I think *whispers* you may intimidate him. And yes, it is possible. Think of how any man acts when he perceives a woman to be a bit out of his league.

I know this may sound silly, and, if do, I apologize in advance, but: the right Aquarian can drive a Leo wild like no other. I have never been in a relationship with an Aquarius, but every time I see what, to me, is an incredibly sexy, strong, (intimidating) person, I find out they are an Aquarius. It might sound crazy, I know, but in this case, I firmly believe that opposites do attract.

It depends on what you want. Because, I hate to admit this, but in this relationship, Aquarius has the upper hand.

Interesting wheels.

The last Leo definitely remembered everything I ever told him. He also notice minute details of my appearance. But what was really weird was he just got me. He understood my motivations and had the ability to just sized me up. It was almost like he knew me better than I know myself. I sincerely believe he is the only person who has ever just got me. Oddly, he said the same thing about me.

I think that freaked us both out. I think we scare the bejezus out of each other. lol!

You know...I think that is something that is underestimated in Leos (their ability to understand others' motives/size people up). For me, this ability comes from a thorough understanding of the self (i.e. I am able to analyze the reasons I do things, because I am able to recognize the reasons with little difficulty, unlike people who just can not understand why they do the things they do). Therefore, it is possible to analyze why others act the way they do, through applying that logic.

Also, the ability to empathize. It is much easier to understand a person's motives when you can imagine yourself in their position (obviously). I guess I can't speak for all Leos, but when it comes to those in my inner circle, I am extremely perceptive to their moods and circumstances. One case in which I believe the Leo self-centeredness shows is that people who are not part of their world are practically non-existent. But, in a way, the selflessness we show in relationships with our loved ones when it is necessary makes up for that (at least in my opinion). Although, it couldn't hurt to care more about strangers sometimes, I suppose.

And what about Libras? I never hear much about their analytical abilities.

Libras are considered the military generals of the zodiac because we are masters of strategy and analyses. This is not commonly known because we are generally very soft and sweet and pleasing. Inside we understand everything. We are often refered to as the iron fist in the velvet glove.

Also Libra is the first sign of the zodiac to deal with others. Our focus is very much on people and understanding people. They fascinate us. Personally, I believe I am very self-aware. As you stated wheels, it really helps me understand where other people are coming from. I also just get that people are people and we all make mistakes.

You know wheels, I think we would be great friends in real life. I think we would have fascinating conversations. 🙂

Well, I'm back with a little update regarding this Leo doctor. I think all of you are right that he is very interested in me. It's not like he did anything overly major today but it spoke volumes to me as I look for the little things. I was sitting at the table with other nurses before the morning meetings were about to start. Now the table is big with about letting at least 12 people sit at it. Anyway, in comes some girl. I was hoping it was Leo doctor coming in when I looked up to be sadly disappointed. Just my luck, I thought, thinking he had been shipped to another ward and now some student doctor was taking his place. The student doctor said Leo doctor was on his way (which made me very happy as he was still around). So there are plenty of seats and this girl student doctor happens to sit next to me which in a way (I'm being honest now) annoyed me because I was hoping that Leo doctor would sit next to me. There was another seat on the other side of me also but I didn't think anything of it at the time. On the other side of the student doctor there was an empty seat also. I naturally thought when Leo doctor came in he'd sit next to her since she's under him (you know, he's the doctor and she's the student). So when he came in, he zeroed in on me. I smiled and said good morning to him and he said good morning back. Then he said good morning to everybody else. Then I assumed he was going to sit next to the student doctor since that was closer to him. Hell no, he went around the whole table and sat himself down right next to me. I was totally shocked. That proved to me he's showing me signals of his interest. He literally went out of his way. I know, it's not a bit deal but after yesterday with him talking with me and asking of I'm married, he caught my interest. Then during the meeting his phone kept going off because he was on call and he had to go out of the room. Eventually after going in and out three times, he had to move closer to the door so he could go out to talk. Each time he came in though afterwards, I saw his body wanted to come by me. I know he's interested in me and what a great feeling. I haven't lost my magic touch regarding guys. I'm among the living again. I don't know if he's going to be bold enough to pursue me or what, but I can say he's gotten my interest which is not an easy thing to do. I hope something does evolve. The rest of the day, I wasn't able to speak much to him because he was so busy, and I was very busy myself.

WH,

Thank you very much for your response. It was very enlightening with your point of views. I do have to say if it's true that a Leo male is intimated by me it wouldn't be the first time. I had a great interest in another Leo male in the summer of 2005 (he's studying Economics). I liked him almost immediately after he came right over to me and introduce himself (it showed he has manners which I totally respect). That Leo male sometimes works extra at the foodstore where I work part-time, especially during Christmas and he worked a lot during this past summer. He and I are friends but he's so shy. A customer told me that he and I would make a cute couple. I told this to that Leo male (the Economic student one) what the customer told me just to see what he'd say and all Leo guy could do was look down and smile. He got all shy on me. I told him if he ever wanted to go out as friends to let me know. He never has so I think I intimate him. However, he's very interested in knowing when I'll be done with school. He constantly smiles at me when he sees me and always help me when he's at work (working extra which isn't much now). So WH, you must be right that Aquarians have the upper hand. However, with Leo doctor, I want to get to know him, that's for sure. I hope I don't intimate him. Heck, he's the doctor and I'm only a nursing student. I should be intimated by him. I totally respect him because to became a doctor takes a lot of work. Oh, how I hope this doctor does makes a move. He seems shy around me but I think he's working slowly towards me. However, I've noticed since Wednesday, he's cleaned up his appearance. When I first saw him last Monday and Tuesday, he looked a mess. I doubt it has to do with me but an observation I've made. I hope he does make a move and I'll follow. I'm willing to meet him halfway though.

LS,

So you have another Virgo on the scene? It seems like you attract Virgos since this Virgo would be at least the third. How sad you aren't attracted to this particular Virgo. Maybe in time, you might be. Yes, you do know Virgos. As I've stated, I truly didn't think I'd hear from Virgo guy after I literally told him goodbye and have a good life. He doesn't seem to want to let me go. I know deep down he knows I'm a great catch but he knows he doesn't deserve someone as good as me. However, this Virgo guy will always have a place in my heart that is just for him no matter what. Very true, with most relationships this Virgo guy has had, don't last more than 7 months. He suddenly wants to be free. That is what he told me about his latest "girlfriend" which he says has been since June or July as he couldn't remember. He wants to be free which I found astonishing. He knows he can talk to me about anything. I've told him no matter what happens in life that he and I should always be friends. However, when I say the friend word with him he gets weird on me and changes the subject. Anyway, he'll one day realize what he let get away which is the sad part.

Oh, I won't be falling for Leo doctor yet. Right now, I'm staying cool but friendly. I do like him, but I'm not at the stage of really liking him yet. He still has 8 weeks to make a move so hopefully, he'll do something in that time. Or maybe he'll surprise me with visiting me up at the foodstore. Either way, I hope he does something.

Message posted by: kris on 10/30/2006 5:56:06 PM
Wow what a pargraph is there anything good about a leo male? lol

Chocolate,
Sex....🙂

That is too funny. Is that something I have to look forward to? Well, then it should be interesting. LOL

Well, if anything is going to happen, he has to make a move. However, I'm not a fast cookie either in the sack. Actually, I'm slow in that department. Well, I'm only slow in the beginning and then well I can get freaky.... A guy has to stimulate me mentally and if he can do that then it's good. Not many guys are able to do that but a few have managed, like for instance Virgo guy. That is why it's been so hard to let go of him. Now this Leo is making a little headway. I just hope he keeps moving forward.

Then I'm ready for him. I might be more than he can handle though so he'll be in for the ride of his life but in a good way. I don't know if you know how Aquarians are but we can be pretty quirky. I like though he's going slow with me. He isn't throwing too much around which I like. Right now, I'm excited because he's still a mystery. I'd like him to always have some mystery to him. I hope he knows what he wants and if sets sights on me, well, then it should be interesting. I can't believe it that I would be interested in a Leo doctor. It amazes me. Well, I'm so glad I healed regarding Virgo guy because if I didn't, I'd be missing out on the signs this Leo guy is giving. I hope he keep sending signals and eventually gets the courage to go forward, like for instance on a date.

It is odd. I meet tons of men. Usually they are only Leos, Virgos, Scorps, Aries, and the odd Aquarius or Gemini. I did have a flirtation with a young Libra on Friday.

I just have signs I appeal to I guess.

OMG Leos are AMAZING in bed. A. M. A. Z. I. N. G.

Chocolate,

Yes, I am very mysterious. That is why I don't have trouble with guys, except the Virgo guy. I'll never understand what I could have done wrong. Anyway, I'm being myself with the Leo doctor. The way I am with him, is the way I am normally. I'm going to do my outmost to keep the Leo doctor interested in me and keep it.


LS

You are so funny. Wow, if you keep going like this I'm gonna wanna jump (excuse me for being so blunt) this Leo doctor.

"However, I've noticed since Wednesday, he's cleaned up his appearance. When I first saw him last Monday and Tuesday, he looked a mess. I doubt it has to do with me but an observation I've made."

This actually could have something to do with you (probably does).

"I hope he does make a move and I'll follow. I'm willing to meet him halfway though."

He may. The fact that he hasn't already concerns me (not because it is an indication that he may not be interested - oh no, he is - but, as I said before, it will be difficult to extend himself to someone he feels has the power to bruise his ego). Like little_sparrow said before, Leos are the hunters. We don't wait when we see something we want if we believe it to be attainable. Maybe you should consider creating very obvious opportunities in conversation for him to make a move. He won't be deflected by assertiveness on your part, so don't worry about looking too pushy. If you were to do it, it would most likely alleviate his doubts and kick him into action.

"You know wheels, I think we would be great friends in real life. I think we would have fascinating conversations."

Yeah, I agree. Would we ever be friends in real life though, considering the age gap?

WH,

Thanks for your insight. I didn't think he could have cleaned up his appearance for me. I barely know the guy. It would be great though if it's true. I have noticed a change in his appearance from when I first met him which was last Monday and Tuesday. He didn't peak my interest then at all. It wasn't until last Wednesday when he sat down next to me. Also when we were doing some rounds (visiting patients), he offered me his seat so I wouldn't have to stand. That really impressed me and showed he has manners. I haven't constantly been around him and there's usually someone always around (however yesterday when I spoke to him, we were alone which I really enjoyed). He's a very busy guy as he has a lot of responsibilities being a doctor. I would hope he doesn't think I'd bruise his ego. Gosh, I'm not a doctor, just a nursing student. Therefore I think he's taking his time with me to make sure. As I said, he's a bit shy so he probably doesn't feel comfortable when there are so many people around to make a move at this moment. We are rarely, if ever alone (except the rare time yesterday). I hope he does make a move, I really do. I've known him for only a week so it's not a long time whatsoever. He did want to know how long my internship was and I said 9 weeks. He told me he'd be seeing me a lot then. I said: "I guess so". He'll figure a way out to get to me, if he wants to. When a man is truly interested in a girl, they'll make headway. However, it's very odd since there is always people around. I'll see what he does. He likes to stare at me, I've noticed. His voice is so inviting. When I heard him on the phone today (when there was the morning meeting going on), I could listen to him for hours. Oh well, I seem to have Leos who take their time regarding me. I don't mind it really because if this Leo doctor showed me too much emotions, he frighten me as I wouldn't be able to handle it. Maybe he senses I'm the type of girl you can't rush. If he has, he's a very smart guy because it's the truth.